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I did a bad bad thing.... For starters in 14/f... I did something really bad with a friend's boyfriend. About a month or so ago, my bf and I broke up after dating all summer because he liked her, we'll call her Sam. I knew she led him on and that's why he was being such an idiot towards me. (He was my first real bf, him being 16) I couldn't take the jealousy anymore, and after we broke up she still talked to him and lead him on, even when she was dating one of my friends, call him Bob. About a week ago Bob, 2 of my other friends, and I were all hanging out. I don't know how it happened, but i was still so upset with Sam for doing what she did, and I don't have feelings for Bob or anything, but I gave him head just because that was something we both wanted to get out of the way for the first time. (While the other 2 friends did the same thing too..)
Everything was okay, and I regretted it but we all agreed not to tell *anyone* and forget it ever happened... Bob slipped to one of his friends and Sam found out. Now she's so mad and I don't blame her. Now, the ex that I've been trying to patch things up with won't talk to me, and Sam only blames me for what happened. I'm an awful person I know that... I should never have done that to her, but it was just all so hard after stealing my bf from me. Someone please just help me here.
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Nothing like a breach of trust made worse with an act of skankiness. All you can do is apologize for what you did. I would move on and remember that two people can keep a secret if one of them is dead. Consider it a lesson learned and knowledge of the fact of "checking things off my sex list" has real life consequences. ]
okay...wow...apologize to ur friend n tell her that u were jsut upset and u r sorry n it wood never happen again...tell ur ex the same thing! tell bob to keep it on the down low so no1 else finds out n starts calling u a slut.
hope everything turns out fine.....briana ]
ur an awful person! tisk tisk! ]
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