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hey im allisonim 14 and i go to WBHS.
i love volley ball and snowboarding and i love spending time with my friends.
im a dork and i love it...and i dont care what you think.
music just so happens to be my life.
i like most music...just as long as it doesnt include a BANJO!...eww.
other then music...my life is dedicated to my bestest friends amber conner rachelle michelle and linnea. they are my reasons for breathing. ive had my heart broken twice by the same guy. and it was just recently. i really want some one to show him how i feel. but im still in deep like with this kidd. i dont regret the things that i do...i regret the things that i didnt do when i had the chance. that would happen to be my motto. tee hee(btw...i use 'tee hee' WAYYYY too much!)i like school. but im not good at it. im ok at it. but im still on 'second string' if you will. finding song quotes or just random takes up most of my time. and i have about 3 notebooks filled up in the last 2 or 3 months. im also eager to get better at drawing. i just really like it. but im not that passionate about it. that is really it for now. tee hee...(see! i told you so!!!)
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allison
advice
I had sex with this guy.
He asked the next day "is it everything cool between us?"
What does it mean?
he meant is everything going to be weird. are you guys going to be awkward. and prolly are you going to want more. pretty much are you still going to be friends. or are you going to be the kind of people that have sex and pass each other and like stare instead of saying hi or and such.
okay so i have this friend...well i think shes still my friend but anyways,she has a boyfriend and i had put a comment about him on his myspace pic saying "damn you look good, i would hit that anyday" before they were going out and i was just playing around. and now they are going out and my friend saw it and she was really mad at me because she gets jelouse real easy. she asked me if i liked him and i told her "ya hes cute but im not in love with him or anything"...and she just blew it off then she started acting wierd like started staring at me real hard and just madd dogging me at times. when i ask her "are you mad at me" she says no but im just not sure anymore, we dont talk like we used to anymore and she probly thinks im trying to steal her man...but im not i swear!!!
ughhhhhh...she should stop acting stupid!!!
well i guess its my fault huh? what should i do? do you think shes mad at me?
heeeeeeeelp!!!!!!
i agree 100% crazy. may i ask if you told her it was a while back. and still, if you were messing around then she should understand. have her bf explain that it was a while ago and she shouldnt be jealous.
i dont know how to start conversaitions,get into them, and even just talk to people with out feeling nervous. i can talk with like 4 people,but 3 or under and its just hard to start convos. it seems like people dont find me interesting. and i have no idea how to open up and become more interesting.im soo lost. i dont even know what i like!how can i open up and start convos. also become interesting?
i dont think you can just..become interesting. but you can try to find things you have in common...and go from there. or you can like ask them what kind of things they are interested in and if you dont lknow anything about it then you can just ask them questions about it. and mauybe they will tell you more about it.
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all good convo starters
hey i saw you on adivcenators & can you make me a sign? its a pic of you holding up paper with something written on it to me? if you say yes ill write back saying what i want.
what do you want the sign to say?
hey, well my boyfriend used to have a bestfriend named marc. i used to be friends with marc too. like me, my boyfriend, marc, and lucy could hang out together. even any combination of people. but then marc went away. so to replace marc for being his bestfriend he made bestfriends with this kid named eric. now eric was from his football team and i dont know eric at all. but now my boyfriend is with eric every single day like no lie and has no time for me anymore. and its not like we can all hang out because i dont know eric. also my boyfriend has mentioned to me that eric doesnt like me, but what i dont get is i never even met him before. a month ago we broke up because we never saw each other, but that time it was my my moms fault because she didnt trust my boyfriend yet. so i called him and explained to him what happened. he understood and asked me back out again. but the last time i spent time with my boyfriend was not last tuesday, but the tuesday before that =/. but on last tuesday after football and cheering i saw him for maybe 5 minutes and we talked for 5 minutes, but i dont call that spending time togethter. ive hinted to him many times that we dont see each other and say that we should hang out soon, but he always says oh i have plans with eric and stuff like oh baby im sorry ill call you tommorow, but he never calls cause hes with eric. monday-friday my boyfriend and eric have football. monday-thursday i have cheering. so you think that monday-friday would be enough time to spend with eric. the only real time me and my boyfriend can hangout is saturday and sunday, but of course he already has plans with eric. i mean we could hang out before and after cheering but again he usually has plans with eric and if he doesnt its hard to do because of rides and stuff. when hes with eric he basically never calls me. sometimes there will be 1-2 days of him not calling me because hes been with eric for 1-2 days. if we do talk its only for 30 minutes and its 30 minutes of him yelling at his paintball game. before we used to talk for 3 hours straight and i felt some type of connection and now im not so sure if i do anymore. im starting to feel really bad about this and im getting sort of jealous that eric gets to spend more time with him then i do! schools going to start soon and me and my boyfriend go to different schools so summers basically the time we need to hang out, because of all the homework and football and cheering at night. also yesterday he actually did call me with eric, i was with my two friends allie and jillian, but that didnt make a difference. so he called and said lets meet on razon st. [ near my house ]. so he said to figure it out and call him back. so i did and i was like were not going to meet you there because we cant. then he was like good because me and eric decided that we didnt want to walk there anyways and they were already walking to somewhere else. i foudn taht rude. so today he actually called me and was like hey. i was like oh where did you go yesterday. he said to this girls house. i felt hurt and im usually not this sensitive. i was like oh was it erics friend or yours. he said mine then he said you dont know her. i was like how do you know, i wanna know who it is. then he said too bad. today we only talked for 30 minutes and it was yelling at his paintball thing again most of the time. please help i just dont know what to do anymore. thank you os much for reading!
im sorry but this kid is a dick... you need a new boy that appreciates you and acctuially wants to spend time with you. that is probably the saddest thing i have ever heard. you need to punch that little bitch in the face..AHH! that kinda makes me mad. dump him and find someone who will willingly make time for you. not because you ask him to, but because he wants too. he obviously loves eric more than you so dump the queer and find a new one.
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My best friend and I have been best friends for ABOUT A year now. the year b4, he was best friends wit my otha best friend. At that time she was his numba 1 and I came about second or third..maybe...then they fell head ova heels for each other, then they fell out and they started hating each other, all during this time, We got closer, not in spite of her but because he is cool, and we just got closer.So when they werent best friends anymore...I guess I became his numba 1, well now Me and him are closer than eva, and the girl used to tell me I was just bait until they became best friends again. Well now they are going to the same high school, and Im not going to there's, and Ive been away alll summa.....They have obviously gotten closer, but just recently they have started talkin on the phone again, and I have this horrid feeling that maybe she was right. Becuz they are going to the same high school, so naturally they are going to become closer, and we all go to the same church, and his sister is friends wit us both, ( I think she likes her better tho) Im afraid she was right and they are going to become #1's again...and we will naturally be as close but now Ill be his second pick..and I am afraid that she is the better friend so he deserves her..We are just so close, I dont want to loose him at all, and please dont tell me he can have 2 #1's, because even if he can, one will still dominate the other..and I dont know what to think and how to prevent it??
just because hes got a new friend...doesnt mean that you are less important...i had the same problem with 2 of my bestfriends. i was friends with one of them wayyy before the other. but i saw the new one way more durring school. so just try your hardest to keep in touch and make plans frequently.(just not like everyday...you will get tired of eachother)dont worry about it,things will fall into place.
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So yesterday I went to a baseball game with my friend. My other friend found out and go jealous. So today the other friend was suppose to come over but she said she would come later because she was going to the high school with another friend. I wasn't jealous i was just upset that she ditched me. So I talked to my "friend" about it and all I said was that i'm mad that she ditched me. So the jealous friend heard that I said that and said I was talking about her behing her back. Was I talking about her behind her back?
well technicallly yes because she wasnt there to hear it. but if you just say somthing about her casuially then it isnt. oh and you shouldnt trust that "friend" with any other secrets if shes loose in the mouth with secrets. she shouldnt have told your other friend what you said.
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Alright.....so I'm in the 9th grade and I'm 14. I'm friends with ALL guys.3 of them tease me about my boob size. I'm a 32B and they all say I'm small and I don't know what to do anymore. It gets really irritating and I just freeze and can't think of anything to say. Can anybody relate and give me a little advise here???
Thank You So Much!!!
dont worry about it...they are probably just messing around and will eventuially stop. im around the same size as you also friends with mostly guys. they teased me for what seemed like forever. but then they just got bored with it and gave up...i have a feeling that they will do the same for you.=]