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My friend Tracee has had a couple boys this past year. I have not really, but I am not jealous. I don't try to get guys to like me because I haven't really found anyone I really like this past year. Thing is, I've heard that she's been saying stuff behind my back about it. That supposedly like no boys like me and I have no "expierence" and I don't know guys at al she supposedly said to my one friend. Like, if I don't care about it, why does she? Should I say something or let it go? (link)
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just let her know that, thats the reason you dont get alot alot of boys. just tell her u dont really care about that stuff right now and she should mind her business
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I'm 13/f.My friend is 13/f too.Here's what happened:
I bought some new clothes for school.I showed my friend while she was at my house.She said my clothes were ugly.She then proceeded to go to my closet.Needless to say,she got my into giving her some pants,a nice leather jacket,a hat,and some make-up.I don't know how she does it!She just begs me for it.So,when I ask to borrow her lipgloss,she says no.I give her all this stuff(unwillingly),and she won't even let me borrow her lipgloss.and,she insults me too.She says I have no style.I want to start out fresh next year.So:Should I dump her because of this,or still be her friend? (link)
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thats so rude. ask her if u have such BAD style then why does she want your clothes. thats scummy
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how to make friends in highschool?
cause im very very nervous (link)
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dont be nervous. i was also very nervous coming into freshman year. i mean just be friendly and talk to people nicely. maybe join a sports teams or clubs (activiites including people) hope i helpedxoxo
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ok, im almost in love with this guy. not obsessed, but getting close.
he's gorgeous && incredibly sweet.
but there are problems;;
1)i cannot talk to him
2)he likes someone else
3)he's a druggie
now, i know what you're going to say about him doing drugs.. but hey! sometimes, a bad boy is good for a girl..you know??lmao
so what can i do??
should i just sit around && hope he gets over this other girl??
or should i talk to him??..conversation starters???
will rate high ;D
♥ thank yooou
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Im just gunna be honest. whatever he does drugs i dont care, that cant change for the feelings you have for him , its just his ways.
you have to talk to him, just straight up do it. when you see him just smile and stuff. do u talk to him at all? if you do just seirously bring up the popular "music" pickup line what music he likes.. if he likes snowboardin tell him youve always wnated to try. and you are going to have to give him a hint your into him because honestly some guys are dumb and dont get hints. so suggest seeing a movie or goin to a party together. if hes still with this girl still talk to him and brign the flirtyness up a few notches
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I'mm stuck in the middle of my two friends... they always get in fights and its extremely annoying...i m better friends with one then the other, but i dont wanna take sides... wat do i do to stop this?
thx.
annoyed & in the middle (link)
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tell them how you feel and you want to be 3 best friends again and when they fight talk to them about whats gunna get out of the fight, seriously theyre only gunna lose a friendsship over a stupid fight
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we'll call her leslie...we used to be best friends, until this year, i made a ton of new friends(being involved in a lot of stuff helps) and well she doesnt get involved in anything, and she complains about people all the time and talks trash about people, and is obsessed with really retarded things, like TPing is like her favorite thing and she keeps asking me to go TPing or spray painting with her, and well shes kinda childish...we're both 16 but im the only one who has the liscense and if we hang out i always have to drive and gas is really expensive, and overall shes just really annoying. how should i let her know that we're not really best friends anymore? (link)
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just tell her how you feel and maybe she'll get that those things arent just fun anymore and introduce her to your new friends
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i've only known my friend since this year and we became really good friends but i think shes been a terrible friend lately.If I tell her something she said she goes off saying 'omg! you're putting words in my mouth!' when other people were there to hear her say what i told her she said.i do so much stuff for her and still shes mean.i put my hair in a parted ponytail and she's like, 'i see you tried my hairstyle' i got so annoyed when she said that because why would i want to be like her! she thinks im competing with her too because i've been doing my hair nicer.I told her my parents were looking to move and she gets all pissed saying'you promised you were going to the same high school as me!' instead of getting mad wouldnt a real friend be sad?If I have a pimple she points it out like I don't already know.It seems like she goes out of her way to make me feel bad.This has just been building up and I'm tired of her and her drama. I just need some advice this girl thinks she's god and has all the answers, but I think it's all in her head.Help?!
should we still be friends?If so, how can I change her for the better? (link)
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some people are stubborn and you cant change them wiithout them getting bitchy.. maybe you should give her a taste of her own medicine.. xox goodluck
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i have a bunch of friends and all. we hang out together a lot, but there is one problem. whenever i'm in a group situation, i always am the one left out - i guess you could call me the odd man out. i think my friends take me for granted, knowing that i'll always be there for them whenever they need help or whatnot, and that's the only time i feel like they care about me, when they have a problem they need help with. is there any way i could get my friends to realize that they're treating me like crap without actually saying it to them or acting really rude or whiny? thanks so much. i rate :D (link)
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well dont act really happy when they are doing it because then theyll think oh shes fine. just try and take part and talk about alot of things with them, goodluck♥
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a used to have this friend (E) and she was nice, but now she is mad at me and my friend (S) for no reason. and she has been mad at S for two days, and today she got mad at me. all of us, me, S, and E, were going to do something for the lipsync, but now she has turned trator and joined (L)'s team with a song she doesnt even like just so she wouldent have to be w/ us!!! and now for a school project we are in the same group!!! and to say the least she is being a b****!!!!!! i keep telling myself it will blow over but now i m unsure!!!
~amanda
PS: sorry for the length!!! (link)
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thats weird, shes not worth it if shes gunna get mad at you randomly for no reason at time, say something to her, goodluckkkxoxo
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Hey im 14 and i have this friend. She has been my best friend for like 5 years. This year i dont kno why she is acting really different and i dont know why. She is always acting really immature and not her normal self. I can act immature at my times but she just dosent know the limit. Then some of the things she says and does are just really weird. I want to tell her what i think but she is one of thoses people that take things really personally and i dont want her to get mad at me because i still want to be her friend. plezzz help me! (link)
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dont tell her infront of a bunch of people, just ask her if anythings wrong because shes acting different and sort of strange and you wernt sure, and your not trying to hurt her feelings,, hoep i helpedxox
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Well.. i have 2 friends.. names Erin and Arielle.. they've been best friends since about 3rd grade and this year, me and my best friend meg have gotten really close with them. We also have another friend who is not exactly as close. Well anyways Erin asked Arielle to go to the mall with her... but Arielle said she cant. then later she called back confessing that she lied and that she didnt want to go because she was with the other girl whos not as tite (Britt). THEN even later she called erin again saying she actually wasnt just hangin out with Britt they were goin out then stayin at Britt's house... this made Erin very upset because lately her and Arielle have been drifting apart... i feel her pain, but i dont know what to do. Erin thinks this is the end of their friendship... Arielle has Taken it 2 far now.. theyve been getting into ALOT of fites lately and this is just the bigger of the many. I dont want to lose Arielle as my friend, but i'm here for Erin and i feel her pain and i also think that it was pretty low of Arielle and Britt to do that. Are we overreacting or not? What should i do to save this friendship that they've had forever?
xoxo thanks --- i rate high! (link)
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talk about it to them and tell them itd be so much cooler if you all hungout and were a big group!
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Ok, I like one my best guy friends and my BFF and I think he likes me as well..but he is too shy. I want to kiss him, without doing it outta no where and freaking him out. Are there are some suggestions of signals that I could send to show that I would like to be kissed?- thx (link)
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aww thats cute.. hangout with him alone and look into his eyes alot and let him notice your lips , try to lean close too!
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ok sry this is long
here it goes...at the beginning of junior high (7th grade) there was five in our group lets call them k,j,b,a,and s (a is me) lol
that year we were unseperable i was the crazy stupid blonde k was the smart one j was the hyper one b was the one who kept us out of trouble and s was the drama queen we sometimes fought (mostly s fault) but it never tore us appart (we were the second most popular group) but in 8th grade things started to suck see k has a twin sis who is like the most popular girl in school (well almost).... me j and b started to hang out by ourselves because s and k started to hang out with the popular girls they left us out of a ton of stuff like parties.. we barley do things with them...now j and b have been kind of leaving me out and i dont know what to do it makes me feel really bad (they always make fun of me) i know if they make me feel bad they really arnt my friends but they are and if i didnt have them there would be no one else to hang out with theyve just been rude lately and i feel if i tell them they will make fun of me so what im asking is do you think there going to ditch me like s and k did us? (link)
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talk to them and say i dont want us to go down hill like we all did before, and if they continue then find new friends!
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I am friends with the most popular girls in school but sometimes it seems like they dont want me around. I dont know what im doing wrong. I have always wanted to be friends with them. My best friend doesnt talk to me when they're around and i dont know why.How can i be better friends with them? (link)
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dont ditch your best friend to be popular.. friends are forever and trust me the popular girls arent gunna be forever.. but if you want to be friends with them then get their screennames and IM them and ask to hangout and stuff.. hope i helpedd
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I'm so fed up. A year ago I moved house and I hate it where I am now. My 'friends' hate me, they're always making fun of me and sneering at me and saying stuff about me which isn't even true. They're just so immature and I don't join in with the childish things they do. So they call me boring. I never go out, I just stay at my computer at weekends because I have no friends to go out with. I hate my life so much. I used to have the best friends in the world, and sometimes I cry because I miss them so much. although I sort of keep in contact I've only seen them twice and I can't get used to not seeing them everyday at school like before. I want to move back to where I came from because my friends hate me, but my mum likes it here and won't move back even though she knows I hate it. She says I'll get used to it and she doesn't understand. I think I have social anxiety anyway but she doubts it, it's like she thinks bad things can't happen to us or something. It's not really the actual place, just the fact that I have no friends, no life and my old friends are so far away and I miss them so much. I can't make new friends because I'm way too shy, I can't just go up to people and start talking, they probably hate me anyway. I often think about dying and stuff but I'm too much of a wimp to actually do anything though. Please help, I need to get my old life back, but how can I when I have no friends and I can't make any more? Thanks x (link)
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hey hun, i know exactly how you feel. i was part of the pretty, cool girls i guess in most of middle school then they completly ditched me so i was with a bunch of weird girls who were juet immature. so i chose to stay in and sit infront of the computer. i think that u should be on a sports team or go to the movies or mall and youll definetly find friends.. IM me sometime to talk xox
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Yeah...so my friend is staying at my house for a week because her parents are out of town. But my house is so....BORING! And the TV is broken, so that pretty much stinks. =( Any ideas what we can do??? ITS SOOOO BORING!!!! lol
13/f (both of us) (link)
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go to the movies , listen to music or make up a dance, go to a friends house, have some friends over or even go to the mall. doing friends hair and makeup can be fun sometimes too.. and if not all your tvs are broken watch a movie on another
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One of my old friends' never talked about guys. Like, we would be on the fone, and i would be talking about the guy i liked, and shed kinda just, "push away" the subject. She always said she never likes anyone, and she dosent think that anyone is "cute" or "Hot". I think thats kind of weird. Then one day, we were talking online, and she told me she was a lesbian. It was really awkward, and i really started to believe her, and then when i saw her the next day at school, she was like "omg that was hilarous last night! i was joking!"....I dont know but this kind of looks strange to me..Any ideas on why she might not like to talk about guys? oh by the way..i dont want to talk or ask her about this. thanks! (link)
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i think that you should talk about one of your guy friends and say i think he has the hots for you or soemthing and see her response, but honestly the best way is to approach her about it, just say it wouldnt matter to me, your still like my best friend through alot of things, or if u dont wanna tell her u wanna set her up with this really hot boy and see her reaction
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A really good friend of mine is going to the movies with this guy,tomorow, and i know all there gonna do is make out and touch eachother and stuff, it happened last time. She wants me to go, and i really wanna go too, and she said "bring one of your guy friends, itl be a double date!", and i said "okay!", but the truth is..i really dont have any. None..actually. I really wana go, and il feel akward if im really alone, and i dont want to tell her that im a loser! I dont know what to do, and i cant make any at school because i go to a school where theres no boys, and im really ugly so i cant really make any guy friends that want to kiss me. This makes me feel really bad, and shes so pretty so she could get like any guy..i dont know what to do. Ne suggestions, please? (link)
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just say "oh all of my guy friends are busy, im so mad" and then be like hook me up with one of your guys friends, itd be fun
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