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are they going to ditch me?
ok sry this is long
here it goes...at the beginning of junior high (7th grade) there was five in our group lets call them k,j,b,a,and s (a is me) lol
that year we were unseperable i was the crazy stupid blonde k was the smart one j was the hyper one b was the one who kept us out of trouble and s was the drama queen we sometimes fought (mostly s fault) but it never tore us appart (we were the second most popular group) but in 8th grade things started to suck see k has a twin sis who is like the most popular girl in school (well almost).... me j and b started to hang out by ourselves because s and k started to hang out with the popular girls they left us out of a ton of stuff like parties.. we barley do things with them...now j and b have been kind of leaving me out and i dont know what to do it makes me feel really bad (they always make fun of me) i know if they make me feel bad they really arnt my friends but they are and if i didnt have them there would be no one else to hang out with theyve just been rude lately and i feel if i tell them they will make fun of me so what im asking is do you think there going to ditch me like s and k did us?
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I really don't mean to be the one to bring the bad news. But yes, its a possibility. That exact thing happened to me. I had two VERY close friends. In 8th and 9th grade we began to fall apart. I still talk to the one a lil n hang on weekends, but the other one never. But now i have new friends. They are more than i could ever ask for. I dont mean to rant on about myself, but this isnt necessarily a bad thing. ur not going to have the same five friends for life hun!! Just dont change urself for them. you;ll find new friends. even if it doesnt seem like that now
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