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i have a bunch of friends and all. we hang out together a lot, but there is one problem. whenever i'm in a group situation, i always am the one left out - i guess you could call me the odd man out. i think my friends take me for granted, knowing that i'll always be there for them whenever they need help or whatnot, and that's the only time i feel like they care about me, when they have a problem they need help with. is there any way i could get my friends to realize that they're treating me like crap without actually saying it to them or acting really rude or whiny? thanks so much. i rate :D
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I know how you feel but me and my friends sorted it all out, we talked about it and it turned out that we all felt left out in some way. try to make them include you more and dont drag behind them and tell them if your stil unhappy if they continue to leave you out then find some new friends to hang around with that way they know that you wont allow them to use them anymore.#
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I know how you feel sometimes when I'm with my friends and at first I didn't know what to do so I just acted like it didn't bother me. Then I tried to show them that I wasn't happy with it by being quieter and not saying as much. They started to ask me what was wrong and I just explained how I felt. They said that they didn't mean to make me feel that way and it changed. The best thing you can do is let them know how you feel. They're your friends I'm sure that they'll listen to you and try to make you feel less left out.
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I feel the same way in a group. I simply talked to my best friends and they apologized and promised to try harder. Now if I ever feel left out I pull them aside and they help me get into the activitey! &hearts Kymmy
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Im sry you feel that way i know how you feel. Well i think you should just go to them and say "Hey, i kinda feel left out...is it me or do guys ignore me?" or something like that. Or you could just ignore them wen they need your help so they know how you feel. Then they'll will come bak to you and they wikk treat u better!
Dont forget to rate me! Hope things work out!
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well dont act really happy when they are doing it because then theyll think oh shes fine. just try and take part and talk about alot of things with them, goodluck♥
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Refuse to let yourself be left out. Jump right into the conversation or start a new one. Be a little more aggressive and see if that helps you. :)
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