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Why is she acting like this??
Hey im 14 and i have this friend. She has been my best friend for like 5 years. This year i dont kno why she is acting really different and i dont know why. She is always acting really immature and not her normal self. I can act immature at my times but she just dosent know the limit. Then some of the things she says and does are just really weird. I want to tell her what i think but she is one of thoses people that take things really personally and i dont want her to get mad at me because i still want to be her friend. plezzz help me!
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You should talk to her. You don't want to be embarassed by her immature behavior. If you're worried about her getting mad at you then just try to talk to her without making it sound like you're mad at her for it so that it doesn't seem so much like your attacking her for her behavior. Very calmly explain to her that you think she's been acting really wierd and that it is bothering you. Talk it out with her and show her that you're not trying to be mean about it you just want it to stop.
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You don't want her to embarrass herself or you with her weird behavior. That being said you need to have her over and tell her about it. No need for her to get mad because she really does need to take it personally. Just tell her there is a time and place to act a little whacky but you think she may be going overboard a little. Explain that you are only saying this to save her embarassment because you are her friend. Then tell her like it is. Good luck. :)
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It's only natuRal foR people to change [especially young teenageRs] and go thRough stages, my advice to you is to wait it out and see if it'll pass. Hope eveRything woRks out! =D
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hey i had a friend like that actually she was my best friend too we became friends in like 4th grade and now we're sophmores in high school...well anywasy we got into a fight about this exact thing and she took it REALLY personally sayin i attcked her and stuff...so if you want to keep her as a friend, my advise is to def no tlak to her in fromnt of a groupd of ppl maybe 1 or evn 2 of her other closest friend that will back you up....but DONT ATTACK her if shes anything like my old best friend she'll flip out and never talk to you again..which wouldnt be good....so yea i hope i helped!
Jen =]
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dont tell her infront of a bunch of people, just ask her if anythings wrong because shes acting different and sort of strange and you wernt sure, and your not trying to hurt her feelings,, hoep i helpedxox
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hey..people change all the time..maybe it's like the people that she's been hanging around that has made her change soo much..but really try talking to her..tell her like not to take it so personal..but people do change as they grow up!..so good luck! :)
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hunnie, the best thing to do is tell her because it will help her in the long run. eventhough she might get mad or upset she will eventually thank you cuz she might not know that she was getting out of comtrol, and other people might have been to afraid to tell her. you are being a great friend if you tell them the truth.
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Well, your friend might be afraid of growing up too fast. Just try to act amture, setting a good example. That should work, so you don't have to hurt her feelings. Hope I helped!
~advicenatekate
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