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my best friend is acting werid! she got mad at me because i told her i wanted my straightner back and she got all mad and didnt talk to me for the rest of the day and took me out of her profile.. what should i do?

I know the exact correct answer to this. My friend had these gay troubles too. Leave her. Obviously shes obnoxious and not a good friend. If you choose not to, just remember your life will be ruined.
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My best friend and i got into a fight. a really bad fight. one when we don't talk to each other for a month. my mom knos about the problem. now my x best calls and apologizes. we have gotten into so many fights i can't even count. so i told her we would talk a bout it in the morning. i don't want my mom to think we are friends because she don't like her. i don't like her. but i don't want to be mean or be enemies wat should i do?????????

Dont even TRY to make things better if you hate her !!! My friend had problmes with a girl like that im middle school. She would get mad at my friend for things like playing with a friend of hers just because shes her "best friend". Well if you do decide to make it better than you're making a big mistake. You'll miss out on fun times. Instead, you'll be worrying about getting in other silly fights. I suggest you tell her "sorry you're great and all but i think its better when we are not friends because we wont get into dumb fights."
M a k e T h e R i g h t C h o i c e !
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Hi, I have this friend, lets call her Taylor. Well, Taylor is really annoying. We went to the fair last night. ( 4 peoples ) We I wanted to spend time with a friend I rarely see. Taylor got really mad. I don't really know why though. Well, I try to cheer people up when the get mad at me telling jokes, buying them junk, ect. Well we have had many fights. I don't really like Taylor that much anymore. I am trying to break away from he but whenever I try she pulls me in closer. I am getting tired of this. It is like she is living off me. Also she has zero respect for anybody, her mom, me, rules, friends, even little chilren. I don't know what to do anymore. I think my PMS is getting to me. I don't really know.

- Breaking Away

Tell her exactly what you told me!! Tell her you need a little break. She might get mad but it'll be worth it !!

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hey guys.. well pretty soon my friend is having a keg party(drinking) and inviting everyone because her moms going to be out of town that night.. and i want to go but im scared that the cops will come and we all will get busted.. shes done a lot before and never gotten caught by her mom or anything but since its this big of a party im not sure if i should go or not it would be a ton of fun but i dont want to get totally screwed.. so let me know what i should do, thanks...

I dont think you should go. My guy friend had a party, and the cops came. EVERYONE got in trouble, no matter what !! Please do the right thing !!
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If you don't look at somebody in the eyes...do they get upset or something or feel like they did something wrong? Im really bad at eye contact. It makes me feel weird knowing somebodys eyes are staring right at me..

Eye contact is really important in a conversation. They might get a little upset because if you dont give them eye contact, they'll think you're not paying attention. Try practicing eye contact.
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13/f
okay,so there's this guy that I like, and I really want him to notice me,but I'm not sure how to do that without making it obvious you know?Please please help give me some ideas!

Be confident, and be yourself. FLIRT alot so he knows you like him without using words. And you could try to hang out with him more so you become closer friends. Then he'll REALLY notice you after you become friends.
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Ok. this year I am trying to be friends with everyone. there is this one girl i had a crush on 7 years ago and when everyone found out they made fun of her. Part of my conscience says she hates me now. I would like to start over just as friends, but, she's avoiding me and I am too nervous to talk to her.
What should I do?
I will give you five stars if you try.

Awe. Thats :(. Well, try to like start a conversation out of nowhere with her (i know it sound weird). Like you could bump into her and say "omg ____ (her name) haven't seen you in a while. Wanna hang out some time?" Or like when you pass by her and be like "hey ___ (her name) wanna hang out some time?" If she says no, its not your fault. She just doesn't get over things.
Hope it Works Out :)
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ok sorry if this is long and confusing but here it is....ok well my friend lets call her amy invited me to her house and she was also having another friend over, amy didnt go to my school at the time. well to cut the story short she said that girls at her school made out with other girls at parties house ect... and its no big deal and then they pressured me into making out with them too. well now amy now goes to my school and im afraid everyday that shes going to tell and eveyone will think im like a lesbian but im not becuase i like this guy alot like alot alot. the reason i think she is going to tell is becuase she told about a girl at her old school and everyone thought she was lesbian and stuff. o by the way im 14/f and i live in ny thanks for the help who ever is brave enough to answer this ques. i will rate a 5 for everyone who gives me a good answers thanxs. o yeah and by the way dont tell me something like go talk to her and shell understand cause shes not that kind of person

Well i was going to suggest to talk to her. lol. But i guess not. Try to see who see tells and tell those people that she was begging you to make out with her. Because then they would think shes a lesbian. Good 4 you. Bad 4 her!
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