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Im so scared
ok sorry if this is long and confusing but here it is....ok well my friend lets call her amy invited me to her house and she was also having another friend over, amy didnt go to my school at the time. well to cut the story short she said that girls at her school made out with other girls at parties house ect... and its no big deal and then they pressured me into making out with them too. well now amy now goes to my school and im afraid everyday that shes going to tell and eveyone will think im like a lesbian but im not becuase i like this guy alot like alot alot. the reason i think she is going to tell is becuase she told about a girl at her old school and everyone thought she was lesbian and stuff. o by the way im 14/f and i live in ny thanks for the help who ever is brave enough to answer this ques. i will rate a 5 for everyone who gives me a good answers thanxs. o yeah and by the way dont tell me something like go talk to her and shell understand cause shes not that kind of person
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This girl sounds kinda nuts and I don't think you should hang out with her. That said, she is the new girl in school and if she starts shooting her mouth off about that whole event, shrug and be like, whatever, I don't tell people who you kiss and its gross that you do. (let people ponder what that means).
Also, being 14 makes it kind of intense, but really these things happen and they aren't really reputation wreckers. Just hold your head high and don't stoop to her level. She probably won't tell anyone anyways because she has more to lose than you do.
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Hi,
Sometimes it's easier to seethe in silence when someone does something to wind you up, but that doesn't make the issue go away. If anything, bottling up your feelings like this just makes the problem seem worse. It means you risk a situation where your mate steps just slightly out of line and you explode right in front of them - which doesn't solve anything.
Whether your friend's just being annoying without realising, or she's done something terrible that's totally wound you up, it's always wise to pick a good time to talk - preferably when you're feeling calm and there's nobody else around to chip in or stir things up for you.
Your aim here is to encourage this person to see things from your point of view. If your mate can see the upset they've caused for themselves, they'll be more likely to change their behaviour towards you.
Nobody likes to feel as if they're being attacked, or that somehow they have to defend their actions, so don't lay into them - it'll only risk a fistfight (or that slappy-scrap thing girls do sometimes).
You can't expect them to change their behaviour straight away, especially if you're both feeling a bit self-conscious after getting things out in the open. Instead, give them some time and space to process the problem and act upon it. If they value your friendship, you should see a new improved mate in no time.
Goodluck
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Well i was going to suggest to talk to her. lol. But i guess not. Try to see who see tells and tell those people that she was begging you to make out with her. Because then they would think shes a lesbian. Good 4 you. Bad 4 her!
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GOOD LUCK
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Peace.
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Ok well to start with she may not even tell anyone so look on the bright side! However if she is a nasty piece of work as you expect and she does tell everyone here's what i reckon you should do: Say to everyone that you're not you just did it because she made you. Say you didn't want to but it was just easier to go along with it at the time. Add in that it was HER that made you kiss her so surely people should be calling her a lesbian and not you?? That should do the trick! Good luck
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