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Hello. My name Is Solemnstar.
I'm a fifteen year old (assumed) male-to-female Transexual.
I want to help, plain and simple.
I like plain and simple, I like to catergorize people, ptu them into nice little boxes in my head.
and I LOVE figuring out the ones that don't fit.

Chatspeak annoys me, It takes an extra two seconds to type the real words.


I don't anwser advice as often as I should. Mainly because of School.

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I've thought a lot about death lately, and have found myself very freaked out about what it would be like to not exist and that this is my only life. Dying and being nothing and not even knowing for forever scares me a lot.


Any advice or reassurance would be nice. Anything concerning Jesus will automatically get your question rated a 1 and your face ripped off.

Death is.. the end... it's nothingness not like sleeping... no awareness, no dreams... it's the end.
A friend of mine attempted suicide, and was dead from blood loss for about 4 minutes. She told me that is how it felt... it felt like nothing.

I am also afraid of not knowing death

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If god loves every one then why dose it seem that being gay is wrong. im a big gay rights person and i dont understand how in most religions its like one of the bigest sins

according to mot christian faiths, god created humanity to be man and women, but because we have free will, we can fall to satan's lies, such and bisexuality and homosexuality.Satan wouls try to corrupt God greatest creation by changing them against what god has made them for, and thus, the serve another, and cannot enter heaven..

So it's seen as wrong to keep us out of hell. however it's much more likely that that was just spread because the dominat religion before chrianity, paganism, accepted( muc more than the new faith) such behaviour, and that would keep many things too simaler.

christmas, is celebrated as jesus birth, which was in april-may(i'm not sure exactly when) because that was the time of the week long hoiliday Yule. Easter was a hoiliday celebrating the awaking of the goddess. it was jsut to make the transition to the new faith eaiser on some.

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I need to know some web adresses I can go to to get some pagan rituals and spells from. I'm studying neopaganism (specifically wicca), and I want to know of some educational sites that also provide experiments and spellwork I can try. Thanks in advance!

i've got:
http://www.spellsandmagic.com has a great spell achive
http://mind-n-magick.com the forum is good for almost anything.

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I'm so messed up I'm agnostic thinking about turning back into a christian or turn into an athiest.. I'm so scared if I turned into an athiest I'll go to hell If there really is a god... If I turn into a christian I'll be believein in something that may not be real? I cried about this.. Should I just turn into an athiest and if there really is a god go to hell for it.. Or should I turn into a christian and believe and god and maybe go to heaven if god is real?

agnostic? thats where you think there's something there but don't know, don't care?
assuming my idea is around correct:
I've never understood the concept of hell: an omnipotent god, able to forgive can't save you from someone who he cast out of heaven? but then that interfers with 1.we have our free will,and 2. that satan, has any power at all.
if the latter is true, it explains how you can go to hell. If the former is true, and we still go to hell, it is because we choose to.
i find christianity is full of contidictions like this. i have nothing against the faith, or the people in it, and i love the concept, of a wholly forgiving god, and the personification of darkness, because it means our actions are not our own. I think the problem lies in the bible, because of the fact that its english translations, are far from the untranlated versions, perhaps because the people who first translated it had very little knoladge of the language they were translating it into.
if this issue causes you so much grief, i say you are narrowing your choices, because you see atheism and christianity as your only choices. there are other faiths, ones i would reccomend include buhddism, and paganism.

Solemnstar

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Im not anti-christian, infact im christian myself but, why do christians think that witchcraft is wrong? Its another religion just like Buhdism and christianity itself.

if you have the time, read the da vinci code prequel "angels and deamons" alot of the information in it has to do with this subject.

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Let me ask you all reading my post right now: What is it called when you take a piece of a living being to create another living being? 'Playing GOD' right? We all know it better as Cloning! So lets speculate that a higher life form manipulates the DNA of a primate by adding their own DNA, or "creating them in their own image". Then they take a piece of their creation, lets just say "a rib" for example and make another one just like it only the opposite gender, (so they can reproduce naturally). That's creation, and with creation comes a natural side effect, evolution. Evolution is adaptation to survive in your surroundings. Please do not comment on my question if you are going to tell me that this is absurd. I have read the bible many times and have been a Christian, a Catholic, a Protestant and a Mormon. I have studied many other religions and they all confirm that God created Adam in his own image, God took a rib from Adam to make Eve. Thousands of years of history prove that we are evolving with every generation. So what religion am I if I believe in creation and evolution?

wicca belives in all life being of "the one" but to simpify it for the human mind its said to be a god and goddess

it focuses on nature and its power how all life needs other life to exist. and its good if you dont even want to use magick cause its not a neccacary part of the religion.cause its very open endend religion.i personally study magick more then use it.

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God says that he refuses to prove himself, because that would deny faith, and without faith he is nothing, so if someone were to find proof, then by gods own reasoning he couldnt exist-is this plausible

it is so that he cannot be put into smaller terms for man to comprehend

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I am often called evil for being an atheist. Why is it that christians who supposedly want to spread good will have no problem calling me an immoral godless person?

athiest are better in thier eyes then wiccans tho you are right the religion is too strong on its belifs

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i need help in my spirtul life with god. im a christian an all that but i wan to grow mor with god!
how can i get closer to god?

live for the moment use the mantra "work like youll live forever but live like youll die tommoro" as in be kind share things that you had limited amounts of befriend uppopular poeple.love life

Solemnstar

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I'm questioning my faith
i'm not sure what it was in the first place really
um... but I think i'm just kind of having a bit of a crisis, not sure where to turn
I come from a semi-Christian background

I think you should turn to wicca if u awnser yes to these questions

1do you often feel there is a greater force that controls you all that you can influence

2do you often contamplate things

3do you feel confined by religion.

Solemnstar

if not i figure you should find out about other religions or just not follow 1 its your say in the matter

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Okay this is really effed up and totally embarrasing but last night i had a dream. Im a 15 year old girl and it was about me and my father. We had just married or something and we were both in my room together..okay..and so i took everything iff except my underwear and he was fully clothes and he was laying on top of me and i was really horny but he didnt take off my underwear and then all he did was kiss me on my lips like you know a dad would usually do if he was going to work or something, anyways and in my dream all he did was tell me that he loves me. I'm really grossed out and scared and i dont know wehat to do, and i dont ever wanna go to sleep again because im afraid il get another dream! Plz help!

dreams are dreams ignore it like your mom would when you were little and had a nightmare
Solemnstar

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Teen christianity is becoming an enormous problem. In hordes normal children are being brainwashed into believing their elders that the world will end within their lifetimes.
As a result kids aren't just kids anymore. Everything that used to be "fun" is suddenly a "sin." We're busy thinking about heaven and our church before we hardly even had a chance to see the world, and we're waiting for the "world to end."
What a crock of sh**. I personally don't even want to go with Jesus if there is an apocolypse. I never was attracted to Christianity. Your parents shove it down your throats before you even have a chance to thin for yourselves. It's a religion created by old men, for old men, and against personal gain or women in general. Well, being an AMBITIOUS woman and a FEMINIST I want nothing to do with this faith. I know I'll be getting some violent attacks from all of you brainwashed little turds about how right you are and wrong I am, and I'll sit here and sigh and understand because you're in a box that you didn't necessarily put yourself in.
So here is my question- what makes you believe anyway?

nadda im wiccan and even though your right in that sense but its still wrong to hate people for it
Solemnstar

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Many religions believe that the world is going to end soon, and we are living our last days because of all the crime, hate, and everyone being open about their sexuality, what are your opinions on this?

the world will end in a nucular war started by Bush or a firery explosion neather will happen for atleast another 10 months

Solemnstar

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i'm 13 and i'm a Christian i'm really big on holding grudges and not forgiving people. i know i know its bad but i'm praying about it and working on it!! bible verses help me alot but lately i cant find any!! i need help on finding bible verses about forgiving..know any?? please help!!

i dunno maybe a priest could help you like the one at your church they read from there alot i'll bet
Solemnstar

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Are ghosts real? only if you know the answer then answer my question. only if you're sure.

yes and just cause i say that dont awnser those axe-muderer emails out of fear cause im pretty sure none of those exist(maybe 5-10)and the proof is thats science teaches us that you can destroy energy only manipulate it so what happens that the energy your body makes?
GHOSTS

Solemnstar

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here is something i dont understand and i sont know if anyone here understands it. Why are we here just why i dont understand it we were put here by god but why it makes no sense. i mean think we live just so we can die it makes no sense so i dont understan why we would be put here by god it makes no sense because one day we could be alive and the next we could be dead just why.

we are here just to do the best we can in life and live your life improving others

Solemnstar

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okay i believe in god but i guess i doubt it somtimes, i get scared of "what if there isnt one" and is there a heaven :/ i think i should go to church to build up more faith but then again i dont get how that could actually help... I really get upset over this, any suggestions?

I dont belive in heaven or god myself so i cant really help you but my family make me go to church and it seems to help them so by all means go for it

bored but caring
Solemnstar

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