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Ok im 13 and I have had sex twice....I know that I want to tell my mom....but i know that if I tell my mom she will tell my dad and I KNOW that he will flip out....But I had ses with a guy that i have been goin out with for 2 years already and we are still going out...so I dont think it is that big of deal...but how do I tell my parents without them like killing me??? Also do you think I am considered a slut or something because a couple people at my school do...
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if your a slut for havin* sex 2 times.. then i dont kno* what the hell i am.. ive had it maybe over.. um.. lets see 10 times haha a lot more but with the same guy.. and dont listen to that other bitch that she said like yeah i consider you as a slut.. its like look up the word bitch.. slut means sleeping around with OTHER guys.. first off you had sex with um hmm ONE guy.. and had it TWO times.. after TWO years of goin* out.. so she need to shut the fuck up..
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i fell realli bad for mi twin sis.. she studys hard and dose all of her homework and dose everything she can to try and keep her grades up...she cant get above a C and then she looks at me i dont do my homework or pay atention in school or study for tets i guess on themm.. and i get straight A's adnd i wish there was something could do you kno.. if you have anyideas or advice pleaseee help i rate well!!!
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I think you should study with her because like you said your getting straight A's so I think that would be a smart idea. Even if your not learning the same type of things still help your sister out. Or you could find her a tutor. Hope I helped. Sorry if I didn't.
Buh Bye,
ShanN*
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heyy all i need your help im scared of my dad everytime he yells i start crying also when he yells at me i always think he is going to do something to me like hit me he also calls me names and it really hurts my feelings i love my mom more then i love my dad because he does it i hate my life and i wish i could die please give me good advice what should i do. (link)
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I think you should just ignore it. You are the only person that knows who you really are and your friends rarely know who you really are no matter how close you are. My mom calls me a Bitch, Slut, Whore, and I think some more I just tune her out most of the time. It works I usually cry a lot because I'm really sensitive if someone makes fun of me in school (I used to cry) now that I tune em out I confront them myself and ask them why do they have to say shit and that they should look in the mirror. I mean god my own sister in law, her name is Shannon too, said I'm a slut and shouldn't be wearing half the things I wear at my age. So I told my mom to tell her she shouldn't be saying shit about me when she weighs like 100 more pounds than I do and that she should look in the mirror and lose some pounds by getting off her ass instead of sitting at home and watching Sope's all day (Or however you spell it) and when she loses about 50 to 100 pounds she can say whatever she wants til' then she needs to shut her mouth and have fun fucking my brother
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i just came back from my friends sleepover and so im really tired and was in the car with my mom and first shes like "your always so blah" and then shes like "why are you always so snoty to me" and im like im not and shes like "you dont act like this to mark (my stepdad)" and shes like "your only nice when you want something" (which she used to say to my older sister also) but im like "no" because that not true its just that she is always yelling at me and i am very sensative and it makes me cry. like whenever my parents fight my mom is all mean and so i stay with mark and watch tv with him and hes nice. or the other day i decided to hose off the deck to get the dirt off around 6ish when the sun was going down and i accidently got a chair cover wet inside and outside and my mom got all mad and i didnt mean to i was just trying to help. or when my omm decided to take a kickboxing class so i knew that it started before my firends birthdat party so i wasl ike can you still take me and the shes like "you girls always want me to take you places and i just wanna do one tihng for me.. blah blah" and thats not true, in fact its like only te second time iv asked her to take me anywhere ALL SUMMER (i usually ask mark, not that i even ask him that much but w/e) and then yesterday my mom was like "did you get acard" and i was like no b/c mark was supposedto take me and i figured he could stop on the way there and she was like well hes working outside rite now building our deck so i guess that means i have to take you (all nasty) and she was like you shouldve walked and gotten one and i was like ok i will now with keri (my older sis) and shesl ike no ill take you. and now im really upset because im not snoty so what do i do, by the way, the last thing i want to do is talk to her b/c if i tell her this shell just defend herself and yell at me and then ill cry and ill get yelled at again so please help (im 14/f) (link)
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I think since your all buddy buddy with Mark and that you like him because he's nice. I'd talk to him about it and tell him if he could talk to your mom for you. Tell him that you don't enjoy crying almost everyday because of something I didn't do and that you are that sensitive and don't really want to tell your mom yourself because she will try to defend herself and yell at you and blame you for what she's doing and that will make you cry being all sensitive. I really need your help Mark so please just do this and help me out. Tell him you'd really appreciate it if he could do that for you and that if he does you'll repay him one day. Hope I helped. Sorry about your mom. Yeah I know I have a mom like that well one that bitches a lot and I'm very sensitive as well, I usually hold the tears til' when I'm alone or in my room with the door shut. Don't worry sensitivity is something we'll both get over ha, ha. Sorry if I didn't help it's just something I'd do.
Buh Bye,
ShanN*
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My dad cheated on my mom with her best friend..my paretns got divorced and my dad got marries to my moms best friend..i hate her for doind that...when i want to go places with my dad and my brother she always comes along..i know they are married but how do i tell her i want to be with my dad and brother..or how do i tell my dad?
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I think you need to talk to your dad about that one. I mean he obviously knows how to talk to her I mean geesh he got married to her. Tell your dad that it bugs you when you want to do things with only your dad, yourself, and your brother and that does not include on his wife. It bugs me because I never have alone time with my own father and I think I need that. And that your not trying to be rude but can you talk to your wife about this situation I would really appreciate that. Hope I helped. It's my opinion on what I would do just remember that.
Buh Bye,
ShanN*
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OK...sorry, this will be quite long.
Well, my parents are divorced and I live with my mother. I don't see my father any more, because he got married to this lady called Karen, and she sends me loads of horrible emails, accusing me and my mother of all sorts of crap. I'm perfectly happy with not seeing him because I never got on with him, so that's not my question.
The thing is, my mother still wants me to see my father's parents. I really don't like them and all they do is complain at/about me while I'm there and I never enjoy any time I spend with them. My mother keeps going 'oh well you should do what you want I'm not forcing you to see them', but if I mention not wanting to go and see them, she moans at me and says I really should or whatever. She is really adamant that she hasn't influenced me or told me what to do in any of this business with seeing my father and his parents, but she is forcing me into seeing my grandparents!! They always talk about me not seeing my father while I'm there as well and it's driving me mad.
What can I do about this?? My mother swears she isn't MAKING me see them, but she complains at me if I don't go, or punishes me by not letting me go out at the weekend or something. How do I make her see that she IS influencing my choices over seeing that side of my family?
No answers saying that I should see my family please!! That's not my question and I don't want that answer thanks. I'm very aware that they are my family, thank you very much, and that most people see theirs. Well I'm not most people, so no preaching if you guys don't mind! Thanks! (link)
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Honestly, I think you should go see your dad's side of the family, but wait.. I'm not finished. I think you should tell them straight up that you don't appreciate them always complaining about you and everything little thing you do, do. And that it's not your fault that you don't want to see your dad. Tell them that he's the one that left and got married to some other woman who sends me and my mom emails that we are rotten people or whatever the emails do say. (If you don't say something to them then they will think that they can always treat you like shit. They are stepping all over you and you don't deserve that, of the way you sound.) And one last thing you can say to them is that it's also not my choice of coming here. Do you really think I like to hear bad things about me? And I'd talk to your mother about that. Say something like Mom look I get it I should see family but I don't like them making rude remarks to me I can't stand it when I'm sitting/standing right there hearing complaints about myself. And that if your mom wants to prove that she's not (trying) to influence you to see them then she shouldn't complain about not seeing them nor punish you for not wanting to see people that make you feel like crap 99.9% of the time (I know where you are coming from, not with the whole dad situation but like my family sometimes makes me feel like shit most of the time like that that's why I'm not a big family person I hate seeing my family I don't care for them, I don't like to see them, I just don't appreciate seeing them more than twice in 5 years ha, ha). Hope I helped! You don't have to take my advice it's only a suggestion always remember that.
Buh Bye,
ShanN*
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I asked this question about one year ago. I moved in my 8th grade year. I miss my friends terribly and I still see them and talk to them almost on a daily basis. My grandmother who lives in the town I moved from said that if I really wanted I could live with her. Now that sounds so easy but my parents are the problem. I get in fights with my mom about almost anything and she has thrown things at me in the past. And my dad only listens to what my mom says. My dad lies to me so I won't move back to my grandmother`s. When we talk about it he always tells me family is more important then I think. It's just that it is no fun for me were I'm living. But I wonder if I could live without them.A part of me wants to go to my grandmother's with all my friends I think right now I just need to convince the other side. It's the summer now and if I'm going to move back I have to make a desicion soon. Please help me I need it. P.S I am 13,female (link)
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Well I think you need time away from your mother and father. I'm the exact same way with my mom she bugs the hell out of me I wish I could move down to Virginia with my dad he listens to me and he's just always there for me when I need him and not when I don't. So it works out. My mom is always there when I don't need her, I mean jesus I never need her she's no help to me anyways so yeah. I think you should go live with your grandmother for a while. I mean come on what do you have to lose it's not like your mom and dad won't ever want to see you again, I mean geesh there your mom and dad. If they don't you need new parents. Time away is always gonna be int he back of your head. Just go down and live with grams and try and clear your head about everything else. Hope I helped!
Buh Bye,
ShanN*
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why do people pretend to be others? Like someone on her stole my sn but dropped a 1.. plz I am so sick of fakers!! grr does anyone agree?
XoXo
Julia (link)
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I agree. People do it because they are jealous of something you have, do, your personality or what not. Don't worry about it they will understand later that being themselves is their highest and best quality.
Buh Bye,
ShanN*
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Hi
I want to get the cartillage on my ear peirced but i'm 15 years old so i cannot get it done without a parent. The problem is I do not think they will let me because I had to argue just to get my ears periced normaly. What is the best way i can persuade my parents into letting me have this done.
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Tell them that your old enough to make your own descisions about having peircings. It's your body not their's. I know my mom and dad are the same way but I win those kind of arguements and get my way just by saying that. Hope I helped!
Buh Bye,
ShanN*
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