Ok, so I'm a cheerleader. After my game I went to the other one and a kid purposely got nacho cheese all over me. Everyone was laughing at me. I slapped him. Also, I have to go back to get my pictures taken. What should I do? Ignore them?
Yeah, ignore the idiots. All they wanted was a reaction and they got it. Next time you go take a friend with you or something so you have someone to talk to. If they try to do something, just go away from it and act like it doesn't bother you. Or laugh with them if you want to. I can already tell though, they aren't worth worrying over.
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do hit that and tap that mean the same thing (have sex with..)??
Yep
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at what age do you have to get that checkup the gyno one? and im young and i am not a virgin. And i dont want the doctor to know that. But just what age?
Alot of girls start going when they're around 16-18. It's up to you though, just don't wait forever. And don't worry about the doctor knowing about it, it's not their place to tell anyone.
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I am 16 years old and got my driver's permit a few months ago. I really do try to be a good driver- I don't use my cell phone, I focus on the road, heck, I don't even turn on the radio! But it's hopeless- no matter how hard I try, I am a TERRIBLE driver, a threat to myself and others on the road. You see, I'm a pretty good student, I mostly get A's- but I'm a very slow thinker. I'm always the last one to hand in my test; I think about all my decisions carefully and thoroughly. The main problem is that I can't think at 55 mph (heck, even 30 mph!) and it's ESPECIALLY hard to focus with my dad, whom you'll read about below.
My dad takes me to practice every week. However, while I am admittedly a bad driver to begin with, his lessons really aren't helpful at all. I know parents are supposed to give constructive criticism while driving- that's expected. However, he critiques EVERY SINGLE MOVE I MAKE-and that's no exaggeration at all, I swear- every time I press the gas pedal, tap the brake, or move the steering wheel, he criticizes me. Not nicely, either. This makes me extremely tense throughout the whole nightmare of a lesson, and it's very difficult for me to focus on his yelling and the road at the same time.
A typical excerpt from our lessons:
(Red light at an intersection, in the right-turn lane)
Dad (rushed, aggrevated tone): You can make a right on red, go!
Me: (turns, doesn't notice other car going straight)
Dad: STOP!!
Me: (slams on brake)
Dad: *(&#@^%!
Now, I freely admit that it was my fault for not seeing the other car, but as you can see it was rather difficult to focus and our lessons really aren't very productive at all. I HATE driving and sometimes after our lessons I just go to my room and cry. Driving is terrifying, and at this rate I'll never get my license. Heck, I don't even WANT a license at the moment- I'm sure I'll die in a crash.
The problem is, my dad is the only available teacher- I don't know anyone else nearby who has their license and is over 21 who could help me drive. However, my dad is the big, scary, "don't-mess-with-me" type, and if I told him to calm down and not criticize me as much, this would surely be seen as 'talking back' and he would have a FIT.
I know the old saying- "practice makes perfect". This makes sense when playing an instrument, learning to tie your shoes, or just about anything else. However, with driving, you basically risk your life every time you practice! That's a huge difference!
I wish I could just give up on driving and rely on public transportation the rest of my life, but when I grow up I want to be independent and go where I want, when I want. Any tips on being a better driver and not letting my dad's yelling break my focus? Thanks!
PS: Sorry for such a long letter, I just wanted to explain the situation as thoroughly as possible for the best advice. Thanks again.
Honestly, you recently got your permit, it's expected for you not to be the best driver. And it's ok not to be!
Don't think about how bad you are, just think about how much better you can be if you keep doing it, and sooner or later you won't need your dad there anymore!
At times it will be tough no matter what you do because you're there and he's there, no gettin out of it. But just remember he's only trying to help you and everyone gets a little frustrated at times.
Good luck!
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I got my first real tatto about a month ago. Now, the artist never gave me a real talking to about it. He just said rub ointment on it for the first 2 days, then, keep putting lotion on it. Well, to make a long story short, it scabbed over & it looked horrible! I know this sounds stupid, but, I didn't think it would look normal, so, I did pick at it a little & now I lost some of the color. What can I do now? Is the only way to make it better is to go back to the artist & have a retouch. If so, will he have to do it all over again? Thanks.
You aren't supposed to touch the scab at all, unless of course you're putting medicine on it or something.
If you go back they'll most likely just do a touch up and only have to go over the parts that need it. [unless it's the whole thing you picked at, then it shouldn't be all of it].
Tell them what happened though, and they can tell you any more info about how to keep it taken care of and help it heal.
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Okay I personally am a dark person. I love vampires and reading musty books and listening to goth music and I like wearing the color black. Now heres the problem my mom won't let me buy black clothes and I don't know what to do. She won't let me get black nail polish or let me wear eyeliner but I really want to. What should I do? Also my room is really disgusting. In the morning I have very very very very light pink walls and in the evening it looks coffee with creme curtains how do I make it look more gothic or punk. I really want to show my mom that I'm not a normal kid and that she can't change it.
You can always go against what she says and buy your clothes on your own with your own money [if you can afford it]. Or 'rebel', keep bugging her until she gives in, annoy her about it. The silent treatment works no matter how old you are, even though it may seem silly.
Paint your room yourself. Once again buy it yourself if you can afford it. Take the curtains down, hang a sheet up or something. Maybe none at all if you don't want.
As far as your nails, use a black sharpie. It fades fast though and it's kind of annoying. Otherwise it isn't that expensive you could get it on your own too.
If you can show her how bad you wanna be this 'dark person' the maybe she'll see it and give in.
Good luckk
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14/f. i'm turning 15 in september, but i can't have my party until late october. i'm thinking of inviting 7 girls, so that would make 8 including me. i really need some good fun party ideas. i think that a fortune teller would be fun but two other girls already had that for their parties, so i don't want to copy. and two years ago i had a Mary Kay makeup consultent come to my house and do everybody's makeup. and then last year i brought 4 girls to Ocean City, NJ for the weekend and we stayed in my house and had lots of fun. so i feel like this year i need to do something that will be remembered. but it can't be expensive.
1) do you have any good party ideas?
2) i thought about have the girls sleep over and then we would go out to get manicures and pedicures. but if it was too expensive, then we would just get manicures. but that might be too hard to fit us all in one place, and it might be boring.
THANKS SO MUCH!!
You guys could rent a trunk full of a certain type of clothes. My little cousin did that when she was 12 but it was still way fun haha. Then take pictures of all of you dressed up or something. Maybe make it like a photoshoot, or videos.
Or something simple, you could all go out to a nice dinner and go bowling afterwards, and go back to your house and watch movies!
Have fun!
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alright so i was wondering if any of you girls knew of where to buy some kind of pill or something that can make me grow upstairs if you know what i mean. im not completly flat i would just like to feel more confident and better about the way i look. i know theres such thing as a pill for it but im not sure if it works or how much it cost or where to get it. please help
Those pills you see aren't what you wanna take. They'd probably hurt you more than they could help. You're probbaly still growing, give it time. Otherwise get on birth control, it could/can help you grow, but for some people the side effects are different.
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So my schools starting next week and i actually managed to get a locker this year. The problem is, because last year i shared a locker with a friend, i cant remember my own lock combo. I had the lock the year before last year when i had my own locker, but after sharing a locker with my friend, i completely forgot it! i just remember the numbers are all even and im pretty sure theres a 14 in the middle and maybe 36 somewhere.. is there any way to find out my combo or will i have to keep guessing or buy a new lock??? please help o_O;
Maybe the person you shared it with can remember, if not as said before your teacher should give you one, but mine was always on my schedule, so try looking there. And if that doesn't work I'm sure they have it on file in one of the main offices!
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i didnt know which category to put this is but
school starts the 29th and i wanted to know if anyone had any fun ideas for me to do before school starts.
Have a swimming party, go out to eat with several friends, have a sleepover, rent movies, go to the lake, take a few friends and go to a park and take alotta pictures, camp out, and I agree with the person below me, deff sleep.
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I am on the depo-provera (sp?) But not even two days after i had gotten the shot i had un prottected sex and the guy came inside me. I was wondering what the chance of me getting preg is and what are some signs i would see within the first 3 weeks to a month?
Please help im really scared!
Depo-Provera is one of the most effective forms of hormonal birth control. On average, the failure rate is only 0.5%. I wouldn't freak out yet, and even if you miss a period don't jump to conclusions that you're pregnant. It normally causes most girls periods to be irregular, and it can take up to 14 weeks to wear off.
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hi. i have heaps of hangers like think 100 + and their all shop hangers and they looks so ugly in my wardrobe. any tips on how to do them up n make them pretty? i dont want to buy more because it would be expensive and dont have the money at the moment. im willing to concider anything. thanx
I don't think anyone's gonna care what your hangers look like, but if you wanna get crafty here's a website that tells you what to do..
http://jas.familyfun.go.com/crafts?page=CraftDisplay&craftid=11337
Or you could just simply write on them or paint them to your liking!
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Well....I come from Puerto rico and in Puerto rico there is a tradition when you turn 15....Well...I want to make a BIG and Huge Sweet 15 Celebration and I need lots of money to save.......So this is my question!!!!!
Umm How can I save money because I cant get a Job...So How Can I get Money and Save it!!!!!!
I dont get Allowance!!!
HELP,HELP,HELP,HELP,HELP,HELP!!!!!!!
If your parents won't give you money, try babysitting, walking dogs, cleaning other peoples houses, garage sell, bake sell. Save every penny you get, change adds up pretty fast too.
good luck!
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whenever i send a text message it says "service not available" i have verizon and i had 3 bars when i sent the text message so service wasn't a problem. does that mean texts are blocked on my phone?
Yeah either that or the person you were trying to send it to wasn't able to recieve texts.
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How do you get rid of a really bad sunburn in one day? Is it even possible?
I don't think so. You need to keep it dehydrated though. Put aloe on it every chance you get. Use the spray kind if it hurts too much to touch it. And if you drink alot of water it'll help it heal better.
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Ok...so when im online i basically go on myspace and thats about it...i have nothing else to do what do you do when your online...like as far as what websites you go on?
www.facebook.com
That's pretty much all I do too! Besides this site and clothing stores n stuff like that! You could always go to yahoo, listen to music and play games n other things.
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a few days ago, this guy IMed me as a prank! well, i kinda knew it was him, so i said a whole bunch of funny stuff. well, my mom read it! now, she's been on my case about it for like two weeks. i need a valid excuse showing that:
- i was not the one talking to this guy. that it was someone else pretending to be me
- i also need a reason of why i didn't want to tell her before that it wasn't me
PLEASE PLEASE
I BEG YOU
I REALLY NEED TO KNOW WHAT TO SAY
I NEED A PERFECTLY GOOD, BELIEVABLE EXCUSE
THANK YOU
Well how did she read it? Did you print it or something? If so, and you've had a friend spend the night recently, tell her it's from when ______ was there staying with you and they talked to him on your sn just messing around.
Or try telling her that your friend got on your sn because she liked the boy and she was too shy to talk to him herself. So she pretended to be you and find out if he liked her or not.
If all else fails, just be honest with her, she'll forget it eventually.
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are there any websites like tinypic that let you just upload pictures without registering for an account or something?
http://www.imageshack.us
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can anyone explain the game beer pong to me??
thankss
Beer Pong is a drinking game that involves propelling a table-tennis ball across a table with the goal of making the ball hit or land in one of several cups of beer.
The goal of the game is to smack the other player's cup with the ping pong ball, assuming the regular rules of your average ping pong game. Each time that your cup is hit, you have to drink. Naturally. If the other player knocks your cup over with a particularly powerful smash, you have to clean the mess, get a fresh cup of beer, and down the entire contents.
You can make up your own special rules. You can keep score, but generally, a person loses when they have to drink the entire cup. Or if you have a large number of people eager to play, you should keep score and play to, say, 10.
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How can I give myself a bruise? This is a VERY important question. I hope it doesn't get deleted by the moderators. Don't ask why, but I REALLY need to know how to give myself a bruise.
Give yourself a hickey till it turns purple, or hit yourself in the same spot over and over again.
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