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How do I make my mom understand what she wants isn't me!
Okay I personally am a dark person. I love vampires and reading musty books and listening to goth music and I like wearing the color black. Now heres the problem my mom won't let me buy black clothes and I don't know what to do. She won't let me get black nail polish or let me wear eyeliner but I really want to. What should I do? Also my room is really disgusting. In the morning I have very very very very light pink walls and in the evening it looks coffee with creme curtains how do I make it look more gothic or punk. I really want to show my mom that I'm not a normal kid and that she can't change it.
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Just sneak the eyeliner to school or borrow a friend's and put it on there. About your room, explain to your mom how you want to redo it and if she doesn't let you, expalin that it would give you a sense of belonging.
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Just tell your mom that's who you are. It's kind of like coming out of the "closet" but not in that way. Tell your parents that's who you are, and they can't change that. And if the object, just keep doing what you are. After a while, they'll realize you are serious and they should let you be.
<p> That does sound sort of gothic, but you could try a dark blue or a dark purple comforter instead of green unless you want your bed to stand out.<p>
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Put up pictures of goth images and bands. Buy a bunch of black lamps/accents for your room and put them everywhere.
Start subtly doing your makeup darkly, maybe just rim the bottom of of your eyes black and gradually make it darker and darker. You could also use markers to colour your nails black.
You also need to have a talk with your mum to tell her you're different. If you want to, you should tell her it's probably a phase, that always helps my mother.
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You can always go against what she says and buy your clothes on your own with your own money [if you can afford it]. Or 'rebel', keep bugging her until she gives in, annoy her about it. The silent treatment works no matter how old you are, even though it may seem silly.
Paint your room yourself. Once again buy it yourself if you can afford it. Take the curtains down, hang a sheet up or something. Maybe none at all if you don't want.
As far as your nails, use a black sharpie. It fades fast though and it's kind of annoying. Otherwise it isn't that expensive you could get it on your own too.
If you can show her how bad you wanna be this 'dark person' the maybe she'll see it and give in.
Good luckk
=] Evy
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well, you could put up some posters, drawings are also very good. also, make up posters with quotes you like, and lyrics to some of your favorite songs.
take things very slow at a time, with the clothing and everything. she'll be more used to everything if you do it this way.
good luck
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