about

hi, im marissa, and im HXC, and im a hippie, and im opinionated, and im fucking crazy. and i have gone through alot of shit in my life, so i have answers to some problems from personal expirence. im almost 16, but i want out of my house. im in a relationship, and its been going on for over a year. he means the world to me. i love my life, and i cherish it. but i do live on the edge, and i like to go fast. i know breaking laws is bad, but its like an addiction to me. i am the treasurer of my schools gay straight aliance, and i get alot of shit for it. but it dosent affect me. i havee alot of friends. and im with them 24'7. and i would not have it any other way. im always faced with tough decisions and fears... long story. but im a pretty interesting person.

advice

what are some of the scariest movies you've ever seen? i need a really scary one! thankss =)

um... hostel is scary, but like half of it is porn. and then like a gore fest. um the saw movies are pretty scary. the omen was scary, i think. scream movie, they dont scare me, but my friends get scared by them. 28 days later && 28 weeks later. (i never saw this one but i heard it was scary, cold creek manor). texas chainsaw massacar (obvious). the decent. house of wax. (wasnt uber scary, but i loved it, cry wolf). wolf creek. an american haunting(SPELLING?). black christmas. rest stop. stuff like that. hope i helped.

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i just made an account there, and i have two questions.
1. does it allow virgin mobile?
2. when i was putting my number in i put 1716 and nwo it thinks 171 is my area code and 716 is! so my number is ALL wrong how can i fix it!?

hey. im pretty sure it dosnt do virgin mobil(SP?). but my friend signed up for that site, and after getting the 4 free ringtones, she started getting charger 9.99 a month. i hope i helped. oh and i dont think you can fix it...sorry

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I have been looking for some books for summer reading and have yet to find one that sounds interesting. I was wondering if anyone had some suggestions or recommendations. :]

um some books i like are... prep (AMAZING). crank (good but confussing). the knife (one of fear street books). tithe (AMAZING). summer boys, and the sequal, next summer (really good). speak (sad, but moving). i hope i helped.

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on myspace how do you put pictures in your about me section?

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i was wondering if girls like it when you shave your balls or not cause i am debateing if i want to shave them

heyy. honestly. i think its good for some guys to do it. and i use to think it was better when guys shaved down there. but now on certain guys i think its creepy. umm i like it sometimes shaved on guys. but i would just keep it trim. i hope i helped :]

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I used to have quite a few freckles on my face but now I have like none. If you never go outside do they go away? If I go outside in the sun more will they come back? I like freckles. :)

lol. i use to have soooooooo many freckles. and now they ussaully only show up when its summer. yeah the sun ussaully effects it. hope i helped

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uhh how long is a guys penis when he's 16?

umm theres not really like a certain size, but average size is 6 inches. so probably like around there. hope i helped

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are girls supposed to buy guy anything for valintines day?

hi! personaly i always get my valentine some kind of little gift. and like it really depends on the relationship. but most girls tht i know get boys a gift. but yeah i would get him one. hope i helped.

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I am really bored.People tell me to get a life.How do I do that.Please tell me how I should get a life,get rid of my boredom,meet new people and make new friends. Any answers are appreciated

hey. hmmm this is kinda hard to answer. but i will try. try and find a hobby, maybe go out for a sports team, or maybe take like a class, like a art class. i would deff look around like some arts stores, cause you can find like ANYTHING there. if you have a lot of pictures, try scrapbookin. lol hope i helped.

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I'm really bored.I like to try new things and start fun projects like combining archietecture,photoghraphy and sculpture into a single art work.I just want to have fun.Please could you think of something fun for me to do.Any suggestions are appreciated.

hmm i would try to make like art like drawings then take pictures and then like photo edit. lol its fun, i think. but like maybe take like a photography class or art class. and i would deff. check out like your nearest like arts and craft store. but when i think about it, i would try scarp booking. lol hope i helped

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There's this guy in a couple of my classes, we talk and stuff. He's one of the "popular" kids, but everyone makes fun of him for being ugly. He is kinda..... But, I don't really care. I don't like him like that I don't think but I still want to flirt with him and stuff. I don't know why, I just have an urge to even though he's not attractive. Any advice?

hey. who carees if hes ugly. your young, live life. life is about taking risks. talk to him more. try a friend ship, maybe more. but who cares what people think about him, that dosent mean you cant flirt with him. hope i helped

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this guy is really bothering mee. he always IMs me and says really nasty and perverted things to me. i tried blocking him, but he got my other screename and got mad at me for blocking him. i don't want to be really mean, but it's gross and he tells me he like wants to have sex with me and stuff. then, when i don't respond on IM (i usually don't really say anything) he messages me on myspace and stufff. i don't know what to do. how do i like show him i'm not interested? i already tried blocking him and not really talking to him but he doesn't stop.. it's been going on since the summer.

uhm thats kinda serious. like if your in school, like middle, high, or even college, and hes in the same school. you could tell guidence, he would get in a shit load of trouble. or even tell the cops, just say its really creeping you out. or if you dont want to take it that serious, just be like "f.ck you, i dont like you"

if hes saying shit like that to you since summer, he has had enough time for you to be nice, be mean about it.

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Ok, everyone at my school is saying bipolar and i have no clue what it is! Can some one tell me? Cuz lyk is it a problem or something? Tell me plz. Thankz!

its a inbalence in the brain. my mom has it. and sometimes its really hard to deal with. cause one second she will be happy. the next she will be like godzilla.

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i want to start babysitting for money bc i need money haha but my parents said i need to take a class to learn how to do cpr and all that before i babysit. is this true?

its a good idea. Red Cross has a babysitting class. i took it, it dosent cost alot. i took it, and im a certified babysitter. and because im certified i get 10 bucks an hour. which is alot for baby sitting. a uncertified baby sitter gets only 4 to 6 bucks a hours. but its not nessacary. hope i helped.

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I'm in nineth grade and I write songs and poetry.
I want to read a poem I wrote about my ex boyfriend in front of the whole school.

But the problem is, I get nervous easily.
I read it for my mom and I kept running out of breath and stopping. and when I was done reading, I was shaking.
If I can't read it in front of my mom, how can I read it to 3,000 people?

any advice on how I can overcome this?
I have always wanted to do this but I'm scared.
And I don't want to mess this up in front of everyone.

i get nervous uber easily. just think about it this way... you could mess up, or theres a 50% chance you can do it perfectly. practice it around other people. see how that works. =] hope i helped

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Me and my boyfriend want to have sex 14/f. i am a virgin, and i dont know where we will have it. please dont say im too young, im really ready, but i just dont know where to do it.

so i was wondering if you could share stories from your first time

hey.
i dont think your too young at all. but dont say your ready cause once virginty is gone... its gone. think about these questions, do you really love him? would you die for him? if he jumped off a cliff would you jump to?
its up to you what you choose to do. just think about it this way... virginty is like a bubble once its gone, its gone.
im a virgin, and i choose to be... maybe its because im not ready, or maybe its becuase i dont want to have a boyfriend.
okay so, i hope everything works out. and i hope i helped. have fun with whatever happens. use a condom =] bye

ps. certain condoms make your mouth numb. lol




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im editing my answer. i was just trying to help. if you dont know where to do it, then you might not be ready. sorry if i dident help.

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