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hiiii my name is valdet I'm from prishtina kosovo and I saw you in myspace before n I think that u are very beautiful so I wanna ask you haw to get in touch wit you cus I wanna to get to know you better, I like you =))
peace Valdet..... byeeeeeeeee=)) (link)
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lol i'm sorry...no can do..but thanks for the compliments though
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alright me and this boy lets call him "a" have been going out for a year and 7 months.he lives in georgia and i live in conneticut. we lived in the same state then moved. well i started getting worried because he is now in a band and is always being wanted by chicks. well i called him one morning and he thought i was checking up on him so he wanted a break. we had a break and he did alot to uncalled stuff with like 2 chicks. he didnt have sex tho. he says hes waiting for me. anyway we talked it all out and he bought me a ticket to go see him so we can be together because after all this thats just what we needed. the thing is while on the break i did stuff with a guy here that really likes me. he asked me out and i had to say no because i still love "a" so now everything is good with me and "a" but people here are saying i should just break up with him because hes not here and the stuff he did while on a break. (what he did was worse then what i did) i have no idea what to do. i like this other guy but i am in love with "a" and i dont want to just end a almost 2 year relationship on something that might not even last a week. what should i do? (link)
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ok well honeslty, you cant call a freaking long distance relationship a relationship...you can but you cant...in your case you cant because you both did stuff with other people and if you 2 really had strong feeligns for eachother...he would keep his "D" in his pants and you would hold your horses...kapish? my point is...he's far...god knows what he does...dont belive guys...they say bunch a shit just to make you feel special and just have you there whenever they need you...i mean i dont doubt he prolly feels something for you...but its not whatever he says...i think you should give the chance to the guy you like that its up close to you...to a guy that you could actually see, touch or feel or whatever...instead of keeping a imaginary b/f that might do stuff behind your back...you know what i mean? i'm not trying to b mean i'm not trying to make your day be shitty..i'm just trying to bring out the facts...now its you're life...its your decision..make the right one so you wouldnt get hurt in the end...and like i said dont trust guys to much they full of shit trust me!
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K today this guy i like , came up to me and hugged me. He held me for atleast 5 minutes. Then when we got of the buss after school, he kept huggin me, and he asked me if he could hold my hand , and i said yes. So he did, then he asked if he could kiss me , and i didnt know what to say. So i kept quiet. Then my friends walked me home from their house, and he followed us. My friends are saying he likes me, but I dont think he does. What should i do?!?!?!?! i rate high. Please help. oo and hes 15/m and im 14/f (link)
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well from the way he's acting he prolly likes you...you never know with lil kids though...they might do that just for the hell of it...may b cuz he knows u like him who knows...the thing is...if you like him go for it...i mean if he does all this then he prolly likes u...but then again...b careful...dont give in 2 quick b smart bout it :) xoxo effy
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it sems like every guy that i like on the internet and they like me i eather go off on them for some rason or the stop talk ing to me what is wrong with me (link)
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forget interent guyz...there's nothing wrong wit you they're just assholes...the thing is...there are some nice ones...that will actually tell you the truth...most of the bullshit so forget them and get someone whos close to you :) xoxo effy
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My boyfriend and I have been together for nearly a year and we are very much in love. We do not attend the same highschool so not seeing him everyday does make it hard, but other than that, we have a very good relationship. He has a myspace and there is this girl that comments all the time saying how he's "An awesome kid" and she wishes they could hang out more. I checked out her myspace and in a few of her pictures, HIS pictures are in there with her. Not just him by himself, but him with her and another one of their friends. He's been spending wayy too much time with her and I don't know what to think. I've been cheated on by every boyfriend I had and I thought this one would be different. I don't know what to do. Can anyone help me out? (link)
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wow...hmmm well if i was in your position i would worry about it too. but also you should trust him...or talk to him about it...what i would do is talk to him and i would tell him what i feel and how things go in my head...see his reaction or what he says or whatever...if you want to talk more bout this...im me xxhotsexycutiexx!...
but also it might just be a girl that he just got to know and recently he's been haning out wit her...the pictures dont mean anything...takin a picture with someone dont mean shit so i say dont worry bout that. hmmm just talk to him...and see his reaction...u can tell me about it in aim and i can help you! xoxo effy
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Hey effy
Do u like hairy guys? I think my body has a lot of hair but I'm not sure. Anyways, how comes that some guys have a hairy body and some not? I think a lot of girls don't like hairy guys, So... I would like to shave my body. Can u help me with some "special parts"? :-)
Much love
Kemo D. (link)
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hi,hmmm well its better if the guy has no hair,but when the guy or the girl has hair... means that he/she its very horney (thats what i've hurd). lol anyways shaving its a good idea but then your going to have to shave all the time...ask for nancys idea :-P...see what she thinks too...and hmmm also since i'm not there nancy could do those "special parts too" lol xoxo take care
effy
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my boyfriend and me have been going out for a lil over a month and i still dont feel anything for him, hes totally obssesed with me and i dunno what to say to him without hurting him because hes a really good friend of mine! I feel like im just stuck in a bad relationship. Some people keep saying stuff like i cheat on him all the time which i dont, im just a natural flirt and i cant help it!..id really just rather be single for awhile because spring breaks coming up and i dont wanna have to be tied down! Does anybody know what i could say to him that wouldnt hurt his feelings? :( (link)
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hi, well i'm sorry to break this down to you this way, but no matter what you say to the person he is going to get hurt no matter what...but if you want to hurt him less as possible without being mean or anything like that...hmm i would say something like "i'm sorry but i dont think this is working, we're kinda to different from eachother and i see you more as a friend then as a boyfriend. i care about you a lot but i think it will be better if each goes their ways. i would like to still be your friend but if its hard for you now, i understand!" he might ask you why? what did i do wrong, or whatever...so like i said no matter what he is going to get hurt...just i dont know let him down as easly as possible...but sometimes just saying the truth streight up without giving excuses its better because a lot of guys prefear that so you could just be like "i'm sorry i dont see this is going anywhere...i dont really feel about you the way i use to..." or something like that. good luck..xoxo effy
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i.have.to.type.like.this.cuz.my.keyboard.isnt.working..sorry....but.anyways..im.dating.this.boy.named.barry.we've.only.been.dating.for.about.a.week.but.b4.we.started.dating.we.were.best.friends.with.benifits..well.he's.already.fingered.me.and.we'll.kissed.and.stuff.but.now.he's.talking.about.having.sex..we've.been.together.(has.friends/lovers).for.about.a.year.do.you.think.we.should.start.having.sex.plus.im.only.15..plus.do.you.think.he's.only.using.me.for.sex???
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hey, listen i totally think you shouldnt have sex with him, i dont know his intentions but i dont think they're so good...just give it time and wait u kno whats the rush? Plus i've been there and i didnt have a good experience so...just give it a lil time dont do anything 2 serious wit him just hook up...if he doesnt get serious and he doesnt ask u out or w/e..then dont do anything ;) xoxo effy (thats my opinion) hope i helped
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this is a stupid question but i'll ask it anyway. What should you tell a guy if he ask you if you're a virgin? Evereyone is telling me different. some of my male friends tell me that you should defenetly tell them that your a virgin because all guys like the girls to be like pure and clean and stuff (i dont know, thats what they tell me) and that if your a virgin they will like you more because it will be like a big deal for them..you know, to get a virgin to lose her virginity is big, it will make them proud of them selves or something. And some of my friends tell me that they always go for girls that lost their virginity already because that would make them more experienced and stuff.And it will make the sex better.. And that it wont be as gross as having sex with a virgin..I dont know im soo confused! I dont want the guy to think that im a slut! but should i tell him that ive already done it so he likes me more? please don tell me to tell him the truth! tell me the truth, what do most guys like? Thank you! (K) (link)
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hi, you asked for the truth...i'll tell you the truth...for most of the guys now a days its not like a big deal if you're not a vergin...but- but...there are some guys that will like more a vergin girl, because they'll be the first ones in her life, and they'll feel special and proud of what they got in the side, because no other guy will look and b like "yah i fucked her"...you know what i mean? its like they wont get left overs..you know? but there's some guys that they dont really care...because now a dayz its so hard to find a vergin girl..it will be a miracle you know...so most of them dont really care that much...but they also dont want a girl who has done it with everybody you know...at least wit one guy or 2...with the ones that she loved...they'll understand...so in my opinion its better if you tell him that you have done it...you know...because guys look on the qualitys of the girl 2,her personality, honesty,etc. because if he finds out that you've done it he wont see you the same way. but if you tell him he'll trust you! plus its true that some guys likes the girl to b experienced so they wont have to deal wit virgin shit. but like i said, they dont really like the girl if she's been round you know what i mean...so be careful! i say you should tell him that you're not a vergin...and that you've done it with this one person you loved because you thought you would be with him for a long long time...things didnt work out...but the verginity got lost. i dont think telling him that ur a vergin and lieing to him will make him like u more...if you want a good relationship then you should start from being honest...and the guys should like you for who you are not for someone you're not...hope i helped...xoxo effy
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Hi I really ned help! Ok well u know the shooting that happened in minnesota? Ya well me and my bf go to that skool and he was one of the victims! Ah! and he's in the hospital and they say he might die! he's in a coma and wont wake up! I strted freaking out when I heard his name on the list of the shot! They said he was still living but it was a 80% chance of dieing! He is the love of my life and I do not know what to do! Help me some one plz? (link)
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be next to him, tell him even if he cant hear u...tell him how much he means to you...b with him now dont let it slide...u never know...pray for him to be safe and everything...i'm really sorry about whats going on...i really hope he lives...and u guys could be together again ...have hope dont give up...xoxo effy
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I was going out with brian but he randomly wouldnt call me and my computer was broken. so i asked him online when i was at my friends and he was like im sorry i forgot. (mostly because he smokes everyday, i hate it) we wopul hangout on sundays and it sucked, i didnt want to hangout with someone once a week when he lives down the street. but hes different, hes the only guy im shy around, i dont know why. but he called me friday and told me he couldnt hangout because he was going to his friends. he called me latr and told me he went to the mall (why couldnt he of asked me?) so he called me saturday morning and said hed call me later to hangout he did but said he couldnt because his parents were out ( why couldnt he ask me over) so i sad my mom culd pick him up and stuff and he didnt seem intrested and was like lets just hangout tomorrow so i was like no, its not working, sorry an he said alright. he goes to my friends school so he was like i really like her i dont know why she dumped me so i talked to him yesteday and h was like ell i cant ay i liked you a wicked lot because we didn really talk alot but i dontknow why im so shy around you but i definetly like you an what i know s far, so i uess we're going back out. what can i say to tell him i dont like how he smokes so muc and we need to hangout more? and how can i not be so shy and what should i say on the phone? thank you (link)
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hi wow...thats a lot of stuff there...lmaoo :) but its alright...thats what i'm here for :) anyways, from what you told me...hmm it seemed a little weird to me to that he didnt ask you and he didnt chill wit you all those times that he could...but he might be shy 2...and he might have feelings for you that he doesnt know how to deal with...the thing is when you talk to him, tell him how you feel, and everything, tell him that you dont really like it when he smokes...and that you would love to hangout with him more and get to know him more because u really like him...if i was you...i mean me, in relationships, i usually tell the guy whatever i feel and whatever its in my head...if i was you i was even going to tell him that "i dunno with you i feel different because i'm not usually a shy gurl, but with you i've feelings that make me shy and not knowing how to act" now if you say that it will flatter him ofcourse, and it will kinda break the ice between you 2...i dunno thats what i do...i always tell them how i feel...if they understand me and so on..they're worth going for...if not..then :) hey there's plenty of guys out there who could understand you and everything...but if you really like him and you just wanna stick to him...i guess just talk to him,open up and tell him what you feel :) alright hope i helped xoxo effy
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Ok, I have this guy I really, really like. I mean... I think I love him and he always tells me he loves me, but we have a delima. Well I have a delima. We talk online alot, but then when we get to school he's just like fine dont talk to me and Im standing right there to talk to him. Well my question is, is this his form of flirting or does he not like me at all. I really need some help. I will rate high for appropriate answers. (link)
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hahaha :) hmm gurly i think thats his way of flirting...like guys, play round and say "oh go ahead fine, dont talk dont say anything" lol i do that sometimes 2 just playin round...flirting and stuff...so he defenetly likes u...and he's prolly trying to break the ice...so u both could feel more confortable to talk face to face...just flirt wit him bak and stuff i dunno but i bet he likes u...xoxo effy
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ok me and this guy have been going out for about 4 months, im 14, female, and i luv him soo much! We have made-out and been to each others houses, also hes looked down my shirt and lil things nuthing totally taking clothes off or anything, i definately dont want to have sex because im a christian and ive made that promise so what should we do if i want more than just making out? (link)
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hmmmm, listen i've had that experience already with one guy. if you want more then makin out with him then you should let him know. because if he doesnt want the same thing...then why bother and get hurt in the end?!?! there are guys that just wanna hook up here and there and take nothing seriously, or they just not ready for relationship, so i think you should have a lil chit-chat wit him, and tell him how you feel see what he thinks and then do what your heart tells you too...hope i helped...xoxo effy
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I want my boyfriend to kiss me first. But I think he wants me to kiss him first. And I dunno what to do. His best friend keeps telling me to give him a kiss, but I kinda wanna wait til he kisses me! I am really confused about it tho lol. I might just give him a kiss tomorrow and see what happens. What do you guys think I should do? If it helps I'm 13 (link)
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its better if he kisses you first or at least meet you half way...but either way...you kno whatever happens even if you kiss him first is not such a big deal...there are some guys that prefear the girls to be takin over this stuff...or prefear the girls to make the first move...lol they might be either shy or that's how they are...so i guess since he's your b/f do what you got to do :) xoxo effy
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what is a hicky exactly? I mean all I know is it's like, well I dunno! lol I mea n, I know it like leaves a bruise, but I don't know what it is...
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when someone sucks on u...and the blood gets all in one place..so it becomes reddish...dark reddish color...the time when it goes off it depends on how big the hicky is...to help takin it off...put a lil ice and the bak of the spoon helps...to get if off sooner!...xoxo effy!
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To the most amazing, beautiful, important person in my life I caused such pain because of my insecurities. Fact is that I Love her with all my heart. I want to know what it takes, what sacrifice i have to make, what i have to do to heal. at the moment i was so blinded by my own feelings that i thought of nothing bout me without knowing what i was doing and what pain i would cause. help me please... (link)
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hi, i'm sorry i will put no comments to this! we'll talk later! xoxo effy
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hey it's me again, but like the thing is, his friends know's how he feels. they alwayz talk bout girls like who they like, and what's goin on. It seems like when he goies out with me, he show the real him, he act's normal, he doesn't change his personality or act differ. what i meant by i'm his first girl, and he's my first guy, is like doin things. He's my first real love and wutnot and vise-versa. But thanx for trying and i do know what u mean. it's just really complicating, andi can't stand to look at him without having that image of him and that girl. or look him in the eyes without having tears..u know? i just wnat to do sutitn to get my mind off of him. thanx a bunch for replying tho. (link)
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hi, i relly understand you and if you cant see him the same way...you should try to forget about him...go out with friends...meet new people...always have something to do...keep your self bussy so you wont think of him as much...when you meet new people and meet new guys...you wont think of him as much..(hopefullY) just try to live ur life to the fullest dont think 2 much cuz life is 2 short ;) xoxo effy
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well my ex boyfriend and me were off and on, and, we recently broke up(prolly 3-4 weeks ago) He says i'm the only girl he can trust and i'm easy to talk to, and i'm his closest friend other then his bis bff*D*, and his cuzint *J*! He says i'm his first girl, and he's my first guy. That'll never change. I honestly believed it. But yesterday, i went to my friends house, which is his friends too. Well i went over there, and i didn't know if he knew i was comming over but, Zach((our friend,the person house we went to)) was like yea *B* and *DC* and*JAY* are upstairs with these two other chix, so i went up there thinking nuttins wrong, but when i walked in, *DC* was under the blankets with some chik, and muh ex*B* was in bed, under the blankets with another girl. Zach said it was like a make-out party up there. my question is, why is he doing this to me? after he said all those "crap" to me. Oh also, he said he couldn't get over me,dat's why he broke up with this junior he dated(they went out for like 2 weeks) he said he couldn't stop thinking of me. Also a bunch of ppl at our school thought we were going to be High School Sweethearts. but after this i'm really confused. What is he trying to prove? Does he hate me now? why did he kiss her in front of me? Thanx so much in advance, and i'm SOOO sorry this is so long.
.:*confused EX*:.
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hi, wow, i'm really sorry about what is happining to you right now...i totally understand the feelings...but let me get this streight, you guys were eachothers first boyfriend and girlfriend...and you guys been going on and off...and then you guys broke up 3-4 weeks before the party, right? and you said he told you he loves you and he cant get over you and so on,right? and then you go to the party and you see him with another girl....under blankets....well, my opinion is,that he might love you and cant get over you and since you guys broken up he is tryin to get over you by tryin to find another girl...or guys say alot of bullshit to get what they want....so...he might b b/s-ing u!just think of it this way, guys dont think with their brains they think with their d**k, its the way they are...or, he might just do this cuz he doesnt want to look soft in his friends eyes...you kno how guys are...if they say they love a girl and w/e...their friends will b like "dude, you sound so gay" you kno what i mean...i'm sure ur confused right now and its a horrible feeling and i totally understand...but try to think things through...and talk to him about it...:) things will b ok no worrys...i'm sure...best luck xoxo effy!
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I have a really hot boyfiend thats cute,funny,nice and caring but I have the biggest feeling that he's cheating on me and I don't wanna be hurt what should I do? (link)
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no trust,no relationship...if you cant trust him it will get worst and worst...the best think you can do (i think) is talk to him and tell him what you feel...and how you feel about the whole situation...if you doubt him then...i'm sorry but if i was you i would dumbp him! xoxo effy
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I don't mind when guys grab my butt or touch me like that. I also made out with a guy I didn't know very well. Does this make me a slut?
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not minding guys grabing u in parts of body that they shouldnt...hmmm i'm sorry but....that kinda makes you sluty...hookin up wit a guy that you dont kno that well its ight...you can always get to kno him better and that can lead in to a serious relationship...or in to a good friendship...xoxo effy
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