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confused gurl!


Question Posted Monday January 17 2005, 11:15 am

well my ex boyfriend and me were off and on, and, we recently broke up(prolly 3-4 weeks ago) He says i'm the only girl he can trust and i'm easy to talk to, and i'm his closest friend other then his bis bff*D*, and his cuzint *J*! He says i'm his first girl, and he's my first guy. That'll never change. I honestly believed it. But yesterday, i went to my friends house, which is his friends too. Well i went over there, and i didn't know if he knew i was comming over but, Zach((our friend,the person house we went to)) was like yea *B* and *DC* and*JAY* are upstairs with these two other chix, so i went up there thinking nuttins wrong, but when i walked in, *DC* was under the blankets with some chik, and muh ex*B* was in bed, under the blankets with another girl. Zach said it was like a make-out party up there. my question is, why is he doing this to me? after he said all those "crap" to me. Oh also, he said he couldn't get over me,dat's why he broke up with this junior he dated(they went out for like 2 weeks) he said he couldn't stop thinking of me. Also a bunch of ppl at our school thought we were going to be High School Sweethearts. but after this i'm really confused. What is he trying to prove? Does he hate me now? why did he kiss her in front of me? Thanx so much in advance, and i'm SOOO sorry this is so long.
.:*confused EX*:.


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xxhotsexycutiexx answered Monday January 17 2005, 1:20 pm:
hi, wow, i'm really sorry about what is happining to you right now...i totally understand the feelings...but let me get this streight, you guys were eachothers first boyfriend and girlfriend...and you guys been going on and off...and then you guys broke up 3-4 weeks before the party, right? and you said he told you he loves you and he cant get over you and so on,right? and then you go to the party and you see him with another girl....under blankets....well, my opinion is,that he might love you and cant get over you and since you guys broken up he is tryin to get over you by tryin to find another girl...or guys say alot of bullshit to get what they want....so...he might b b/s-ing u!just think of it this way, guys dont think with their brains they think with their d**k, its the way they are...or, he might just do this cuz he doesnt want to look soft in his friends eyes...you kno how guys are...if they say they love a girl and w/e...their friends will b like "dude, you sound so gay" you kno what i mean...i'm sure ur confused right now and its a horrible feeling and i totally understand...but try to think things through...and talk to him about it...:) things will b ok no worrys...i'm sure...best luck xoxo effy!

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