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okay so i've liked this kid .. we'll call him joe for months now. and he's screwed around with my head and dragged me along .. but i still couldn't get over him. and recently i've been on a site called e-spinthebottle. and i met a guy .. we`ll call him tom. well tom is so nice we've talked on espin and on aim. and he called me last night .. hes like 10x better than any guy i know and i know he's a REAL guy no some perv. he has a myspace with friends and comments and all that stuff. but like i dont know what to do .. i finally am over joe only to like someone who lives like 4 states away from me .. this isn`t exactly how i pictured getting over joe .. by gettin stuck on another guy i cant have ..
help .. please ...
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im glad you got over joe but you have to realize that dating a guy 4 states away is going to make things complicated. i have a friend whio met a guy on myspace and they always talk about going out he always calls her and they really want to do out but he lives 3 hours away and they decided tht going out would just makes things soooo hard in a relasionship. because when your with a guy all you think about is him mostly so you dont want to have a boyfriend sooo far away and not be able to see him. i think you guys should just be friends as hard as it is for me to say because you guys going out would just complicate things for the two of you and him being sooo far away i dont know this guy but it would be easy for him to cheat one you with you not knowing.im sorry but just think of what could happen and is it worth going out with this guy so far away. just ask youself that.
if u still want to talk always mesage me in my inbox and ill give you my aim or something if u need to talk.
im always on!
xo Brittany
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how can i hide a hicky from my parents..i dont have really long hair so that wont work and i dont wear turtlenecks so yeah i need help (link)
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uhm take coverup (like the liquid kind) and dab it on the spot that you have a hickey then take like the powered kind like a lighter color and put thta over so it completly covers it up. and if u dont have a light powder is u have like a light eyes shadow in like light pink a light tan or even yellowy orange would be fine.
i hope things work out
xo Brittany
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I'm jsut wonder exacally what i should expect from my boyfriend. How much time he shoudl spend on me, what he should do and stuff like that. I've never gone to school with one of my boyfriends before so this is kind of a new thign for me. Also what so u deam "appropriate" for a 14 year old girl and a 15 year old guy to do? (link)
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well i mean i know that im 14 and that people our age do alot of stuff that i dont think is appropriate but like spending time holding hands kissing makeing out and stuff but i mean i know people if serious relasionships take it farther and stuff but thats a little diffrent just relax do whats confortable for you everyone thinks diffrently about relasionships
have fun and be safe
xo brittany
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ok so me and my ex girlfriend broke up over a month ago now, but i still like her a lot, and i kno she likes me to, but shes said she wants to wait until 2 weeks into school before decide if she wants to get back together, but she also said if she misses me she will come back after the 2 weeks. i still talk to her everynight on either AIM or phone, and i think im just ruining my chances....should i stop talking to her or should i ruin my chance and just continue wat im doing?
plz help
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well........ if you really like her just be there for her show her that there is no way she can have any1 better than you. be there for her. talk to her and stuff like you have but i also want you to realize that she is like well ill see after two weeks in school and maybe ill go back out with you. i mean i dunno because it seems to me that from my point of view that she is saying "well hey, if no one asks me out in 2 weeks then ill go out with you again i guess." you know what i mean? i mean it just seems like your a rebound boyfriend that if nothing better comes around she knows you'll be there personally if i were a guy and if i were you i would maybe still talk to her but not as much and all but i mean if she wants to go back out tell her that you guys had a chance going back out but like she wanted to move on and that nuthin came here way she wants to go back out it seems to me that she isnt ready for a serious relasionship. by what it seems you are a great guy and you really care about your ex-girlfriend which alot of guys like you are really hard to find. you can do so much better. your girlfriend should care about you. and if you wanna go back out with her she shouldnt say basically "hey if nuthin better comes along i guess ill go out with you." if i were you i would try to be friends and move on but if its more serious of a relasionship thats its hard to not want her back mail me again. but mail me back on your opinion maybe i could help trust me ive had the same situation.
mail me back
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what is the best way for love to happen? i've heard that love for sight is just lust. i think love is build on friendship, is this true? (link)
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love can not be found at a specific moment at a specific point it time. it can not be found at eye contact at a split second but looking into someones eyes and seeing them looking into yours is the greatest feeling.love can not be expressed in words but you have to experiance it on your own. love is the one time where everyone else around you dissappears and that u and your love and together. love is hard to explain the rush but it will find you when you are ready.
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my best friend 15 and her ex 15 me 14 and his best friend 15 please help i really need advice!!!!
ok my best friend and her bf broke up really harsh her parents didnt want them together so her parents warned her to stay away with him and they set me and his friend up on a date and we were at the date and her mom found notes from her bf saying how we were all goingto meet at the movies. and came and caught us.so then her parents found out all this stuff about them having sex and her sneeking out to see him and her and her bf. so the skool said they couldnt be together snce they got in a big fight about her parents finding out and they talked about how much they hated eachother and before she would yell at him about stuff and he would still try to get together but recently his new gf after 2 weeks broke up. welll recently my best friend came ovr and we talked about him and she told me how much she missed him and having him close to her. then she turned on "im lost without you" but blink 182 and started rying because that was there song. and i felt soooo bad for her. i really want them to get back together because they were perfect for eachother. until his friends came in saying shit and they smoke pot and her bf got into it and thats when the problems started. but he stoped for her but she didnt go back to him ehich i felt really bad about. and i asked her my she would yell at him all the time if she still loved him and she said she'd rather yell at him then cry in front of him . and we started crying the whole night she came ovr at 6 and she left at 11pm and thats what we talked about all night.
well my best friend wants to tell him how she feels and that shes srry . if you were him would u still be mad at her. because he told me he wants her to at least apoligize. she at least wants to be friends with him and maybe later they can go bac to the way they were. (since they has to break up a 11 month relasionship so quickly) and she was in love with him and it was the last person they each loved. please help!!! (link)
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all i can say is that he probley still thinks about her so he might be a little sensitive to the subject so jusr make sure you have ur friend watch how she puts it when he tells her. Like that she watches how she puts it because he might be mad. so just make sure fights dont start again maybe u should be with her when she tells him. she might fell better pouring her heart out when shes go some1 with her.
hope it helps
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Ok, so there is this guy that I met online a few years ago. But we didn't really talk until around last Thanksgiving. He lives in North Carolina and I live in Minnesota. We've talked every single day on the computer and on the phone since Thanksgiving. I want to be with him so bad. But im only 15 and I have school right now. And there's like no possible way I can see him. It's getting to the point, where it's like hurting me. I'm aching to see him. I love him so much and have never had these kind of feelings for somebody before. I lay in bed every single night for hours thinking about him and crying. Somebody help. I really need it. (link)
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during the summer meet up somewhere i had this problem and we met up at six flags in between. but just realize he might not be the perfect guy he seems to be.
ask again {im always on}
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How do I ask a very popular boy (Im not that popular) to slow dance with me? I really like him and we flirt alot, Im just so afraid of rejection! Hes popular but hes never had a gf (And ive never had a bf) Should I ask him to dance? What do i do if he says no??? WHat do i say? (link)
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just say hi and start talking to him if the conversation goes well you should take a risk of asking. what would life be without a risk or challange in your life. beisdes if it wasnt for the bad stuff the good stuff wont be that great.
ask me again (im always on!)
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Okay, to put it plainly me and this guy have been really close for a long time and we ended up breaking up because of this really long story. But he was really close to me and all that jazz. We were friends before and he always knew I liked him but he was going out with his boyfriend at the time, and...yeah. Lets call his boyfriend Bob. Well Bob broke his heart a billion and one times and finally we started to date. I was the only one there for him he was the only one there for me. Well my ex begged for me back and I was stuck inbetween them, I had no clue what to do and I waited to long to decide on what I needed to do and by the time I did decide the guy dumped me. So we got in this huge fight, and didn't talk for a while and I was back with my ex. All this other stuff came out and blah blah blah about my ex and I started to try to talk to him(the guy who would not talk to me) But he wanted nothing at all to do with me. So I cried and all that shit over it but to make a long story short he was abused and shit, and he stayed in it to be here for me and now he can't get out because it is too late.
Well. Anyway...I moved on now and have a new boyfriend I care about a lot. It isn't love yet- I don't think my heart is actually ready to love another person at the moment. But the guy(lets just call him Ed) is really depressed and never talks to anyone and is always by himself and has gotten into bad stuff. I want to let go of Ed because I have someone new that is healing all of my scars. But I can't because...I made that promise to always be there for him because we were always there for each other.
So now I don't know what to do. I don't want to be with Ed again, I just want to help him and get him to talk to me but I seriously don't know how. I want to get over him completely and have no more feelings for him. But I don't know how. I'm sorry this is long and the question is not quite clear. But basicly. What do I do? All of this is my fault, and I can't let myself fully love my new boyfriend because he is always there, a little voice in the back of my head blaming me on what happened to him. (which it is my fault). I want to get over him. I want to get him out of my life because he knows how to get to me and everytime I help I always end up crying. Please.. Someone can you help me? I'm sorry this is really long. (link)
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i think you need to talk to ed about everything and how you feel and are starting to feel about this new guy. and how your ready to move on but tell him lightly so he wont try to commit sucide again and that your always there for him and stuff but you need to move on.
tell me how it works out. {im always on!}
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ok... well i have a boyfriend.. and well not alot of guys like me at my school (i mean like bc they are stupid im not like a nerd or anything!) and then like everyone was makin fun of us and stuff and when me and my friend went to his house he was all like flirting with her.. what should i do (I GOT PISSED!)
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you should tell him that this is upsetting you and you should never have to fight for your boyfriends attention. other wise hes not work it. trust me if he asked you out why do you have to fight for him. tell your friend also and how this is pissing you off.
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Ok, here goes. This might be a long one so please bear with me!
My friend Mike and I were at this school event called History Day (Science Fair except for history). I was bored, so I was hanging out with him and his friends. Then, his friend asked em if I like him and I said I don't know...and shrugged my shoulders. As I walked away, I looked back, and he was smiling at me. It's really obvious (though I haven't said it directly) that I really like him, but out fear of rejection, I semi-denied it. Do you think that I sent I like you vibes or I hate you vibes...and guys, what would you think of me now? Also, we flirt a LOT every day!! Thank you so much! (link)
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i sense i like you vibes because your leading him on so he wonders. especially if he flirts with you your just making him wonder what it would be like to date you and more.
tell me what happenes
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Hi, I like the group ICP and my girlfriend doesn't, she doesn't like it because it has killing in it, she hates it. Should I stop liking it or just keep listening to it, I just wanna make her happy, what should I do?? (link)
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you have to have your diffrence but just explore other thing just dont give yourself up for some1 else compleatly.
tell me how it works out
luv britt
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sorry if this is long, but there is this guy that i like and we used to go out. he now has a girlfriend but i dont care, i still like him. This one girl likes him, so someone asked if he would ever go out with her and he said no. but then this girl asked if he would ever go back out with me and he smiled nad said "umm .. i gotta get to class" so the next day the girl asked again and so he was like "umm .. i gotta girlfriend" so he didnt say yes or no. Do you htink i still have a chance? (link)
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watch out for what you do you dont want to ruin sumthing for him if your not the one
tell me what you decide
luv britt
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ok, my bf gets boners when im with him, i know this because hes told me ,i was just wondering if there is anything i could do? (link)
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it just means that you found a guy who really loves you or it means thats hes really perverted so if i were you i would just wait and see tell me if it gets out of hand and if you need my sn just ask for more help.
luv britt
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hey it's me again britt, i was just wondering if you knew any cute ways i could play with him, w/o takin clothes or anything cuz im saving sex for marraige and stuff, but if you know any plz tell, i rate high, thanks (link)
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just prolong your makeout sessions and kiss but dont maeout and then go into a full makeout sessions thats what i would do if i was you. you can play with his hair and sit on his lap and stuff like that. just do sumthing new.
tell me how it works out {im always on!}
luv britt
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Me and my girlfriend just broke up and i was kinda glad that we broke up at first but noe i miss her really bad and i am not sure if she likes me so what should i do? (link)
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talk to her because chances are that she kinda lost part of your trust when you broke up so just talk about it. because talking is key in relasionships.
tell me how it works out {im always on!}
luv britt
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ok me and this guy have been going out for about 4 months, im 14, female, and i luv him soo much! We have made-out and been to each others houses, also hes looked down my shirt and lil things nuthing totally taking clothes off or anything, i definately dont want to have sex because im a christian and ive made that promise so what should we do if i want more than just making out? (link)
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well i mean theyre isnt alot u can do i mean you could get fingured or give a blowjob but from what ive heard that leads to sex. so what i would do is stick to what you belive in and your morals and you could wait in between makeout sessions which will make it exciting everytime especially for him since guys get horney kinda easilly lol. so kinda hint at him like kiss and stuff but make it exciting everytime.
tell me if it helps or if it isnt sepacific enough. tell me how it works out! { ask again if you need help! im always on!}
luv britt
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well last saturday i went to my cousins daughters birthday party and i was downstairs with my grandmothers neighbors grandson and we were hanging out, and we were watching TV and i had my head resting on his shoulder and my legs were on his lap and he had his arm around me.. and then my brother came down and was like.. ahh u like her!! to him and he pushed me off and stood up and he was like, no i dont, we were just watching TV. and then he went upstairs and i have NO IDEA what he's thinking now, because he sent mixed signals. and now i like this other kid and he's REALLY funny and pretty cute, and i pretty much cant get my mind off him.. but i dont know what do do... i have mised feelings. (link)
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i bet that the guy you were hanging out with is thinking about you to because he probley cant get the situation off his mind so talk to him so you know hes worth your time and you dont want to find out a month later that you wasted your time thinking about it. trust me it will dribve you crazy. follow your heart as corney as that sounds.
tell me houw it works out { and if you need anything just ask im always on!}
luv britt
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(16/f) I've been going out with my boyfriend for 6 months now and I really do love him. Its just that he doesnt trust me at all. Just because of things people tell him. People dont like the fact that we're going out because we're in an inter-racial relationship. So they make things up to try to get us to break up. I know that they're lying but he doesnt. He just doesnt trust me and I'm constantly telling him not to believe them and " No I didnt flirt with so-and-so today." Im so sick of trying to get him to believe me. He also makes me feel guilty for things I did before we started going out. Im tired of it and I try telling him this but he just doesnt stop. It's getting to the point where we're fighting most of the time instead of getting along. I love him so much and I dont want to have to break up but I want to be happy instead of being sad all the time now. I just dont know if its at the point where I should end it or not. Please help me out I dont know what to do... thanks in advance. (link)
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relasionships are really tougfh especially with trust because it is the most important thing in a relasionship. my bffl had a inter-racial relasionship and she didnt trust him and they just tried to avoid it and they broke up but they still act like they r going out and they fight so if you want things to go good have a 1 on 1 time with him and just put it all down.
tell me how it ends out! {and if u need anything just ask!}
luv britt
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i am a freshmore(15) any ways moving on i have a boyfriend whome i love very much and i assume he loves me to anyways hes the greatest any ways we had sex recently for the first time and now evrey time i see him he i guess think he want s to go that far evy time but i dont know..... i love him (an dim on birth control and he uses condoms) but im still scared. ami i just over reacting... and i know its not cause im not sure if i like him because i know i would give up every thing for him and he would give any thing for me so what shouls i do.......
apoolgy for it bing so long
~lauren~ (link)
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my best friend had the same problem sex changes everything. it makes your feelings stronger and more powerful. but as lucky for my bets friend they werent honest with theyre feelinds about eachother and were scared to talk to eachother dont make yourself seem easy if you dont want to have sex put it down on the table. my friend was pushed into sex and came back to me crying and how much she wishes they talked they broke up and they talk but they fight way to much just be open to talk and dont hold anything back communication is big in relasionships, and it is key. please tell me how it works out.
{if u have anything else just ask}
luv Britt
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