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hey..i forgot how to add people on my buddy list thangy..can u tell me cuz i would like to add you cuz we have the same problem about our boyfriends..hmm..i havent talked to u in a while.are u still with him? i would like to add ya...thanks- Bethers5143 (link)
hey sweetie! you go to the top of your buddy list where it says "help" then you go to "new user wizard" then click in the box where it says "add/find a buddy" then just add my s/n in the white box (attitudechick777) then just click "Next" then "finish" and then your done! tell me your s/n and i'll add you to my buddy list so then i can IM you! well lets see..i've had a couple bf's through the past months or so! now i have a b/f named andrew! we started going out on November 4th* and then i was going out with this guy named Ryan, then my longtime ex's name was kevin and he treated me really bad! so just tell me which one your talkin about or just tell me your problem and i'll definitly help yooh! thanks for leaving me a question in my inbox! leave me a comment in there anytime! rate me please!


My best friend likes this boy alot and they went out but then they broke up and now he likes me but i mean hes cute and everything but i really honestly dont have feelings for him like a boyfriend and she thinks i do! AND..he told her that we werent gunna go out b/c of her, and i never said that!.. but that is 1 reason but another reason is that i dont even like him! im soo mad b/c i hate having her mad at me b/c shes my best friend.. i tired talking to her but i know she doesnt believe me..what esle should i do ? (link)
hey hun! thats a tough situation! maybe you should just try to avoid this boy as much as you can to prove to your best friend that you don't like him! and just tell her repeatly that you would choose her over him! of course b/c its chicks over d*cks! lol i just hope it all works out for you! i'm hear anytime ya need me!

xo chels


my ex-gf and i broke up a while ago and we both moved on with our lives. now every time i see her, i realize how much i wasn't over her. i'm pretty sure she doesn't like me as more than a friend, but she might(probably not). sometimes i really wish i could just tell her how i feel and win her back, but i don't think that would work. wut should i do? (link)
try talking to her and telling her how you feel! maybe she does feel the same way but your never gonna know unless you have a personal conversation with her! i hope everything works out for you! and if she doesn't feel the same way..then go out with all your guy friends and pick up some more girls! your probably an attractive guy so go out and have a great time! =) don't worry hun you'll find someone!
i hope i helped



Hello, i just broke up with my boyfriend not to long ago about some thing stupid, but i still like him and i wanna go out with him again...i cant seem to talk to him though because i broke up with him but we talked once after 2 weeks of our break up and i sounded stupid what should i do??????.............


Nikki (link)
haha you sound kinda like my ex b/f andrew's g/f! and you even have the same name as her! lol well just try explaining to him that you want him back and apoligize for being so stupid! lol and just make sure everything you say comes from the heart

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ok i have 2 questions

1. my ex-boyfriends when we broke up he said 4 me to promise to call him everyday still (we dont go to the same school) what does this mean??

2.we or he still says "i love you" and is always askin me out but then after he says sumthin he'll tell about this girl at his school how he walks her to class and holds her hand and it makes me sooo SAD that im not that girl....is he trying to make me jealous???...cz its workin!!

3. how can i tell him that i still care 4 him and why he keeps makin me jealous and that its hurtin me ...bad...too!?? (link)
1= that means he probably still wants to be friends and talk to you

2=he still likes you but guys are dumb so they try to get you jealous! and the best thing to do is to make it act like your not!

3=the best thing to do is just come straight out and tell him how you feel!

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I've been dating this guy for a year..and i love him with all my heart..But my mom doesnt approve and she doesnt want me being around him without her around..She doesnt trust me at all..what could i do to get her trust back?..i really need help!! (link)
just try sitting down and having a calm chat with her! and try to help her understand! i hope i helped! rate me please!



Ok,I've been going out with this guy fro 5 months now and he has been really sweet and he is nice to every1 even people who tease him. But lately he has been making some mean jokes about me and the only person who has been there to help me has been my ex-boyfriend! I also found out that my boyfriends ec still likes him but i dont know if he knows.The weird thing is he has always been nice and sweet to me but all of the sudden he changed and now i have the feeling my ex-boyfriend cares more about me then he does.I donno what to do! I'm sooooo confused and frustrated pleaz help! (link)
hey hun! well the best thing to do is probably to stay with your boyfriend now for a LITTLE bit longer..and if he doesn't change back to his sweet self..dump him! and with your ex b/f..what was the reason why you guys broke up?! hum...well if you think your ex b/f is the right one for you and treats you with the kindness and respect you deserve..then maybe its best to try again with him! just make sure you are getting treated right! time heals all wounds! so just go with the flo..and just hope you don't get hurt! =) i'm here for you hun! talk to me anytime!



Hey guys =) I was just wondering if any of you know any sites I can put pictures on, that's free.. anything besides, picturetrail and photobucket. Thanks so much! (link)
this is an awesome one...its www.fotki.com

you can put pics on that in several different albums you make! i hope i helped! rate me please!



I'm 13 years old and female, and almost everybody in my grade has had a boyfriend / girlfriend or at least someone who likes them. Not me! I'm going into 8th grade, I have freckles and pale skin and I'm a redhead. I have friends, but boys like to tease me or they avoid me. help?

< I r a t e > (link)
hunni..the right guy will come along and he will love you for you! you sound pretti for a girl..and don't let anyone bring you down! its the inside that counts! not the outterside! =)
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whats a good site to make icons? not the gay doll ones, but the ones that you can download pictures you have and make that into an icon (link)
www.originalicons.com

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ok ive known this guy for like 4 years.. he says im too young..hes only 15 and im 13 going on 14..
i love him a lot, but i dont think hes sees that..he knows though! i want to be with him so bad. its not fair..what do i do? i need help ! (link)
well you can't make someone love you..if its meant to be..it'll happen! in the meantime..go out and have fun with your girls n party! just stay safe and go with the flo n all will be good! =)



I am a 14 year old guy and I like a 10 year old girl, is this ok?? (link)
yea..even if people make fun of you..heck with them! lol age is just a number hun! as long as this kid is mature..treats you with respect..and has a great personality..there is nothin wrong with you liking/dating her! just dont listen to what people say! =)



I'm looking for a guy that woud fit me well but each time i go out with the guys i fing something i hate about them right away...what should i do? (link)
just wait for love..don't go out looking! the right one will come along soon enough! just have fun with all your girl friends and party! lol



We've been going out for 2 years and her birthday's coming up. What should i do? (link)
dinner..movie..amusement park..beach..hotel..a moonlite walk through the park..the best thing to do is make it romantic! =) i hope i helped! rate me please!



What are some things that me and my boyfriend can do to spend time together that doesnt cost money or at least is cheap? ...he lives like 40 min away so he comes over or i go over there and we meet half way. Either that or we go to the mall, movies, bowling, KD, and stuff like that. Anymore ideas? please help! :o) (link)
go for a walk in a park..maybe go out for ice cream..maybe a friends party..or go to a under 17 club..or just other fun stuff like that! i hope i helped! good luck!



I met this guy online. I have been takling to him for like 8 months. I like him and he likes me. We live in diffrent states. What should i do!? (link)
well first of all..BE CAREFUL! for all you know he could be some 80 year old raper! i wouldn't meet him in person unless you have an adult with you! but you should also try to find someone in the same state until your older n can drive! rate me please!



okay i love my boyfriend like sooo much and i know he loves me too...but he gets these mood swings where one day he acts like he cant live without me and the next day he acts like im just another bump in the road...what should i do? thanx so much~!
>*BaiLeY*> (link)
just have a calm conversation with him and just talk to him about that! and if he is a realli good boyfriend he'll understand and try to change that if he wants to stay with you! but just remember to try and accept him for who he is! rate me please! good luck! =)



is it weird that i don't like anyone? i mean all my friends obsess over who they like, but i seriously can't think of anyone that i like. and im 14! (link)
nope! thats a good quality that you have! it means your laid back! its perfectly normal! don't worry hun!



Ok im 13 and ive never made out wit a guy (ima gurl) and my best friend always does things b4 meh and she just made out wit sum1 and now i feel like a loner. wat do i do (link)
don't worry hun about only being 13 and never being kissed! its perfectly normal! just wait for the right guy and make that first kiss special! =) don't just waste it on anyone! make it a person you'll remember forever! your not a loner cause your not alone..many girls are 13 and have never been kissed! you'll be alright! i promise! =)



ok well me and my bf say we love each other and have been 2gether for a while... but he told me he still has feelings for his x *loves her still* but i no tht he loves me and i no tht they were 2gether for a long tym but she treated him so badly and it hurts me 2 no tht and so i dont no y he loves her but i no being 2gether tht long tht he is still gonna have feelngs for her... so can someone help me out w/ some suggestions on how 2 talk 2 him about this, and should i be jealous tht he still has feelings for her? (link)
hey hun! well most of the time people still have some feelings for their ex's! its perfectly normal as long as he doesn't break up with you for her..but if he does..then he's a loser and you can do better! =) i'm here if ya need to talk!





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