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falling for her again. Is it smart to get back together with your ex?
my ex-gf and i broke up a while ago and we both moved on with our lives. now every time i see her, i realize how much i wasn't over her. i'm pretty sure she doesn't like me as more than a friend, but she might(probably not). sometimes i really wish i could just tell her how i feel and win her back, but i don't think that would work. wut should i do?
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Believe me, I identify with you more than you know. My ex broke up with me a little over a month ago but I'm still madly in love with her. We've kissed a few times since then and on occasion it's like we never really broke up. But I realized the feeling is more or less gone.
Getting back together with an ex is a bad idea 9 times out of 10. If you broke up in the first place, there was most likely a reason for it, and it could easily come up again. However if you still have feelings for her, you really should tell her. If you just hold it in it will only continue to bother you. If nothing else, just tell her so you can feel the weight lifting off your shoulders. Don't expect her to melt and fall in love with you again. (Although, that may be possible.) Just let her know you still love her and she will always hold a special place in your heart, and leave it at that.
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If she has a boyfriend then don't say anything to her about it because she probably really moved on. That could be a sign that you should move on too,I know its really hard to do but it is possible. If she isn't going out with anyone then you should bring it up to her. If she's really your friend she'll be considerate and kind about it. You never know, girls are really good at hiding their feelings, so she could be interested in you still. I really think she should know though because then she'll at least know how much she meant to you. Tell her you'd like to be friends no matter what though, because you dont want to lose her completely. But on the other hand that could be the best way for you to get over her. Good luck hun! I know .. Breaking up sucks a lot. Trust me though, there's going to be other girls who wont break your heart, love hurts but thats what makes true love so beautiful!!
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Alrighty. Well, just try talking to her and act how you were before you two started going out. See if she enjoys it. If she does, do whatever you did last time to make her fall in love with you. She might be over you now, but you can always win her back. Or, you could always just get her alone and tell her that you still really like her and you are sorry for whatever you did wrong last time and that you want to try it again. See how she reacts. But if I were you, I would go with the first suggestion ;-) Good Luck!!
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try talking to her and telling her how you feel! maybe she does feel the same way but your never gonna know unless you have a personal conversation with her! i hope everything works out for you! and if she doesn't feel the same way..then go out with all your guy friends and pick up some more girls! your probably an attractive guy so go out and have a great time! =) don't worry hun you'll find someone!
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Go over to her one day and give her one single rose and ask her out for lunch or dinner and see what she is thinking about while u r on a get together date.Also ask her how does she feel about you both breaking up.
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wut i think you should do no metter if she does feel da same or doesnt...i think you should let her now how you still feel her and how much you want her bak...after all u never know...she might pretend liking u just as a friend...b/c she might think u like her just as a friend...so one day...whenever u feel ready to talk to her bout it...call her up or face to face...w/e is more comfortable for u...and tell her how you feel...tell her that u missed each and every min u spend wit her...and you miss everything and that you love her very much :) tell her...at the end that you just wanted to let her kno...and if she feels that way...then u would b more then happy to recive her bak...but if she doesnt its ok...and that u understand b/c u wouldnt want her to b bak wit u b/c she felt bak would u?...dats rite! didnt think so! so...just tell her basically how u feel :) i'm sure everything gonna b better... :) xoxo effy
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aw im sry to hear that, breakups r usually pretty tough. if she doesn't seem into getting back tgoether then i guess ull hve to try and move on and find soe other girls to try to go out with. But if ur getting a little vibe that she mite u could start to hang with her again and subtly mention it and see how she reacts..hope i helped :)
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Make your wish come true. No one else will be able to. Tell her you still have feelings for her, and really miss her. Now that she's gone you've realized what you lost and you want to give it another try.
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I really think its worth try. I mean, I'm not all about making the first move type of girl but If I were you, yes. Just walk up to her and tell her you'd like to talk to her sometime and get together and find out if she still feels for you. Its a possible yes. It take a lot of girls a loooooonnnngggg time to get over their ex. So just cross your fingers and pray ;)
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i think u should stay positive and just tell her how u feel!!! chances are she'll feel the same, and if she doesnt, then u'll kno and will be able to move on knowing will happen between the two of you.... i hope things work out tho!! GOOD LUCK!
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