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hello. so you want to know a little about me?? well im 14 years old. i ♥ to make people laugh, cheer them up and give them advice. it is just a part of me and i can't help it!! lol. i love sports, my fave is basketball and dancing. wierd combo?? i know. lol. as you can tell i love to laugh as well. i write songs and am pretty good at singing. writing the songs is basically writing poetry which i think is pretty cool. this is my opinion but i think that people rating other people is low themselves because some people put prank questions and rate you low for 'trying' to answer. so sometimes im tired of answering stupid questions. but if you truely need advice im happy to answer. so feel free to add me as a friend or ask me a question or just ask me questions to try to get to know me!! have a nice day!! :]

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is there anyway to improve my kissing?

Practice makes perfect. But I dont think there is any way you can improve, your kiss is your kiss. Sorry for not helping much.

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heyy umm me and my friend both liked this guy and he liked her when we first met him and stuff .. soo a couple of days ago he started to like me and she went away and just found out over the phone .. and now shes all upset about it .. and after she found out she called me and was like complaining to me about how upset she was .. but like i helped her and stuff .. but like when i use to like this guy they both went to a prom and danced and stuff and he started to like her and he kissed her by the end of the night .. and she told me she sorta kissed him back .. and when i got madd she gave me like an attitude like oh my god its not my fault or w.e .. soo now like i dont know if should like be together w. this guy that we both like or not.. cause like i really really like him too soo i dont know if its okk help!

sorry i didn't reply sooner. but i think you should forget about him. he is only gonna cause your friendship with this girl. it sounds like he can't decide on who he likes. i dont really know what else to tell ya because its up to you. but basically just let him have her, and sorta back off. i am sure it won't last then she will come back to you and it will all be normal again. good luck!

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Okay, well my name is Beccah and i really like this boy named Alex and in the 6th grade he had a girfriend named Jen and he had liked her since the 2nd grade and she finally started liking him in the 6th grade and he asked her out and they went out for about 5 months and then he dumped her and a few months later is when i started liking him and he was such a jerk to me and then in the 7th grade we became really good friends and i was finally over him for a good 5 months or so and in that period of time he went on and off liking me and then towards the end of the year i started liking him again and he liked me too and we would kiss and hug but he never asked me out and he was never my "boyfriend" and the last day of school we made it clear that we didnt want to go out over summer and we would see what would happen between us when school starts again and over the summer its really easy for me to concentrate on other things.. seeing how i travel a lot and i do summer basketball and im always with my friends, but now that school is starting and we have 3 classes together and because our lockers are close its going to be hard for me to get my mind off him. I already know that he doesnt like me anymore he made it clear and he says that i should get over him because there is better guys out there for me and hes not the one. I need advice.. should i continue liking him and see if everything i've done in the past was worth waiting for? or should i just try to stop thinking about him and try to find someone else for me? I'm graduating this year and after this, there is a good chance i wont see him anyways. But i just really want to be with him. Everyone tells me that hes not over Jen yet and she never really got over him either and i see it too.. Urghh i just need help.

i dont wanna sound mean or anything but he doesn't seem worth it. i mean he goes on and off about liking you, was a jerk for a period of time, never asked you out even when he liked you or w/e, and isn't over his ex that HE dumped. so my advice would be to look for someone new, and anyway your not going to see him you said so whats the point. well its up to you and whatever you decide to do, good luck. hope i helped!

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ok well, im going out with this guy named james and i really like him. but lately whenever we talk on the phone its really boring and he is really prude so it sucks. so these two guys like me named john and nick. and they think i should break up with him becasue they dont think he is going to change and they think i desurve more. so john asked me if i thought going to a dance with someone im not going out with would be considered cheating. and i said no so he asked me to the dance. and i said yes. so now i dont know if my bf will be mad at me or not. should i break up with him? should i tell him about the dance? what should i do? PLEASE HELP ME!

well typically you should go to the dance with your boyfriend. i mean look at it from your bf's shoes. if he went with another girl and you didn't have a date. it would make you feel bad huh? yeah. so my advice would be to break up with him, but its up to you. good luck!

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I know this one girl, lets call her Natasha. Natasha goes to this high school that's pretty close to my high school so i see her pretty often. I really like her alot, but it seems like she never notices me. we met once but i don't think she remembers. She's always hanging around these other people i know who are also my friends. How am i gonna get her to notice me?

first off start hanging out with her and her friends. get to know her and stuff. then once you are pretty good friends just straight out ask her out. believe me its better then just drooling over a girl from afar. im a girl and i like guys who wanna hang out, and dont do that thing where they tell their friend to tell me they like me. i like it when the guys tells me so remember that.

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about what age do boys and girls start french kissing?

Once you hit middle school is when it starts, but whenever it feels right is the right time. have fun..!

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Since its summer I never see my boyfriend. My mom doesnt want us going out on dates actually she doesnt even want me having a boyfriend. Im 13!!!!!! It is so unfair. Anyway how can we see each other more without my mom finding out?

you could sneak out but your not old enough to drive so i guess that wouldn't work. just tell your mom your going to the movies with a friend. then have your friend invite her bf or a guy and your bf and double. it worked for me when i was like 12 and 13. good luck!

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I have a boyfriend and he is starting to get on my nearves.The other problem is is that i like someone else who doesn't even know i exsist!I need help figuring out how to tell my boyfriend I dont want to go out anymore and i need help figuring out how to get my crushes attention.And what if my boyfriend finds out that i dumped him for another guy?

please help!

well first of all, does it matter if he find out that you dumped him for another guy? no. because thats what happenes in this world, that is mostly why people dump eachother. and just say i think it would be better if we saw other people. and for getting your crushes attention. there are a MILLION ways. i say just flat out tell him. its the best way to get a guys attention and you never know he probably likes you back. good luck!

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Hello. Im in love. Soooo....Ive told two of my close guy friends that I like him (they are pretty good friends with "him" too) and I've been hanging out A LOT with "him" this summer. Both of my guy friends say I should tell him I like him and one of them says that we "radiate" and guessed we liked eachother before I got the chance to tell him that the me-liking-him part was true. I get strong feelings that he likes me back a lot but at the same time i get insecure that he doesnt with some of his actions.

So....Summary:
I dont know if I should tell this guy or not that I like him. Dont guys make the first move? I really want something to happen but Ive had my heart broken before and I dont really want that to happen again. If he liked me wouldnt he be doing something?
Ive been hanging out with him for about 3 months but the whole crush thing started about a month ago.
THANKS FOR YOUR HELP!!!! YOU GUYS ARE THE BEST!!!

okay the term 'guys making the first move' is like kissing and stuff. YOU have to tell him you like him FIRST. guys are way to shy, well most of them. so just casually bring it up because obviously he likes you back and if not, then there are plenty of other guys out there. good luck!

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this is for my bff, im trying to help him through this...14/m. well my gf & i have been together for almost 6 months. we rarely see each other because we are so busy & when we do, she ignores me or hangs out with everyone but me even if its my party. she doesnt hug me a whole lot either & we've never kissed. i was away from her & during that time i saw & hung out with my gal pal that i hadnt seen in about a year. she likes me a lot & she does more things than my gf does (she hugs me, thats it!) & gives me attention & really cares about me so i got to like her as more than a friend now. i was planning on breaking up with my gf but after i saw her again yesterday, i fell in love with her all over again. i had loved this girl for several years & this was my chance but then she doesnt treat me right & there are other girls out there who really do care about me. what should i do? my gf i have loved for a long time & the girl that likes me gave me a heart that can be easily broken.

*info on the ladies: the gf is a bit of a tease & needs the attitude adjustment thats long over-due but she can be ok at times.
the other girl is a lot like a gf the guy had that ended up being a huge mistake...shes a bit older, more experienced & she knows he's vunerable. she also likes almost every guy i can think of.
*parents view: mom used to be FOR the breaking up but since the other girl showed up (which she doesnt want him to get involved with) she wants them to stay together.
dad doesnt want him to do anything until school starts so no one knows why he broke up with his gf.
*the bffs view: the other girl isnt my favorite (i agree with the parents) & i dont want to be responsible for the break up...i got them together & i didnt know it would end up like this. the gf was my friend but now not only does he treat him like crap but shes mean to me too.

*PLEASE, ANYTHING WILL HELP! WE REALLY NEED YOU!*

im kinda confused but ill try anyway. to me it sounds like you like both of them but your not sure which one to choose. it also sounds like the 'gal pal' as you say, acts like a way better girlfriend. and your own girlfriend right now doesn't really even hug you. so i would say break up with your girlfriend and try to hook up with that girl. try something new and if it doesn't work out you could always break up with her because there are A LOT more girls out there. but..it is up to you. so try to make the best decision and good luck!

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okay i'm going out with this one guy and he's got a lot of friends but i guess i never knew how many people didn't really like him but then i went out with him a time before too and he's like the best boyfriend you could ever ask for i mean he likes me for who i am and stuff and a lot of the other guys that like me just want me because i'm "hot" but whatever..and like there's 4 guys that just piss me off because they like me (not to be conceited or anything) but they just get mad at me because i'm going out with him and they want to beat him up because he's going out with me..and i don't even like the guys that like me besides my boyfriend..so if they beat him up i'd like them less anyways..i don't know why they want to beat them up and i always have to stick up for my boyfriend (i mean i want to lol) but what do i say to them to not beat him up?! please help me!! =( i'll rate high if its a good answer!!

be like 'you know what? i dont like you and never will. and by beating up my boyfriend im gonna hate you even more!!' kinda harsh but something like that. good luck!

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okay heres the downlow. Whenever my boyfriend is around girls he always flirts with them, even if i'm right there. then when i talk to him about he'll either say i never did that or oh i'm sorry i won't do it again, but he never changes! I don't know what i should do. Part of me wants to break up with him and another part of me doesn't! So what should i do!!??

I'm 13,Female

i dont think you should break up with him. its in a guys blood to flirt with a girl he thinks is cute. he cant help it and doesnt know he is doing it. most likely you flirt with some guys that you think are cute every once in a while even though he is your boyfriend. so you already tried talking to him, so here is another idea. when he is flirting with them try to break it up or take him the other direction when there is a cute girl around. good luck!

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ok i love this girl sooooo much i think im crazy. We are going to a movie 2 weeks from now with friends. I need someone OLDER LIKE 16 & UP to answer this- what should i do? should i put my arm around her and for how long-should i try to hold hands?? i am almost positive that she would do whatever back (holding hands, putting her arm around me etc.,)PLLLLLLLEEEEEEEEEEEEZ help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

-wondering

i love it when a guy puts his arm around me or holds my hand and when they just go for it and don't do it all slowly. so remember that cause its not like she doesn't know what your doing anyway. DO NOT do that yawning stretch arm thing, just put your arm around her like its casual. you should see a scary movie too, that would make it better. good luck!

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this is for the guys out there with good advice : whats the best way for a girl to let a guy know that shes ready to kiss him. because me & my bf have been goin out for almost 2 and a half months and we never kissed but i think he oesnt want to kiss me because he thinks i dont want to kiss him. help please.

hey sorry im not a guy. but you just gotta make the first move. he most likely DOES want to kiss you but wont make a move on you because he thinks you dont want to so just remember that. i would say start hugging a lot and if you already are then thats good. then give him a peck on that cheek. then after a little while kiss on the lips and so on with whatever you would like to do. once you kiss him he will kiss you back. believe me. have fun!

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I think my gf is gonna break up with me, but i dont know. i rewally like her. but i dont think she likes me that much, thanks in advance.



13/m

i dont get what your asking, but just talk to her and if she says she doesn't like you anymore just find someone new but if it was something you said then just try to fix it. good luck!

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I recently just got braces, and I have a boyfriend and we've been going out for a few months now and we haven't kissed yet.
Well I'm afraid now that since I have braces he won't want to kiss me.
I don't know, this is just something that worries me. But should I be worried about this?

No you shouldn't. I have braces and that doesn't stop guys from wanting to makeout or kiss. it doesn't really make a difference with them on and off. have fun! :]

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hi, ive been going out wih my girlfriend for like 4 months now. we are in love. now i know what your gonna say, its only been four months. well, screw you. if your gonna say stuff like that please dont answer, because you dont know the whole story. anyway, im a virgin, and i want us to make love. i am waiting until i am sure who i want the first person to be, and ive found her. im not nervous of i or anything, but i want to know it is a good idea. I mean i love her, i really do, and i dont want things to get screwed up because of this. shes had sex before, so she warns me that you can take back your first time, and i know that. but im sure, i just want outside input... thanks

If your in love and you want her to be your first then go for it. Just remember to be safe. Have fun with that!

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My friend that I have known for four years has a cousin who likes me and I kind of like him the only problem is my friend has just told me that he likes me. What should I do I don't want to come between them?

Okay, you have 3 choices...
1. Go out with the person you like more.
2. Go out with your friend because you will most likely see him more then his cousin and become closer.
3. Go out with his cousin, but you most likely see your friend a lot because its his cousin so that might not be such a good idea.
Its up to you just think about if this was happening to your friend and you were gonna give her advice then take your own advice. Good Luck!

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me and my boyfriend are going to be going out for 1 year tommorw is there anything i can do thats supersweet?

Plan a romantic night, unless he remembered he might've planned something already. Just buy him something that is romantic/sweet that you know he will like and most likely he planned a special night for you two.

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my boyfriend and i have been dating for long than a month and couple weeks and he hasnt even kissed me yet. i kissed him once on the cheek but that doesnt matter. what is he doing????

He is probably just shy and scared. So try making the first move.

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