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is it wrong? ill rate 5s
ok well, im going out with this guy named james and i really like him. but lately whenever we talk on the phone its really boring and he is really prude so it sucks. so these two guys like me named john and nick. and they think i should break up with him becasue they dont think he is going to change and they think i desurve more. so john asked me if i thought going to a dance with someone im not going out with would be considered cheating. and i said no so he asked me to the dance. and i said yes. so now i dont know if my bf will be mad at me or not. should i break up with him? should i tell him about the dance? what should i do? PLEASE HELP ME!
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well typically you should go to the dance with your boyfriend. i mean look at it from your bf's shoes. if he went with another girl and you didn't have a date. it would make you feel bad huh? yeah. so my advice would be to break up with him, but its up to you. good luck!
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It depends. Is he worth it? Do you like him that much? He could either take the dance thing the good way or the bad way. he could think you're jsut friends, or more then friends. He could get jealous, so I'd beware. So jsut ask yourself this: Is he worth it?
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the first thing in a relationship is honesty, so yes, you should tell your boyfriend about the dance. dont lie about it or keep it from him. you need to come right out and tell him, even if you think he'll get mad. if he treats you like dirt and gets mad that you went to a dance with another guy when your own boyfriend didnt even ask you, then break up with him and go out with John. good luck with your decision!
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No, i dont think it would be wrong....but i would just see where your at wit ur bf 1st....
Well hope i helped
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i would do what you wanna do but tell him before you go to the dance that your breaking up with him if you do breakup with him
hope i helped
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well, if you really like him you should stay with him, but if you don't then there are other guys out there, John & Nick seem to like you, I don't think its wrong, the last girlfriend I had we had boring phone conversations... but now that were friends they are more interesting, so maby your both just nervous
hope I helped
-Cameron
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I would figure out what it is you really like about this James guy. It sounds to me, that you can do better than him. And maybe one of these other guys likes you. Go to the dance with this other guy and see what happens. If you're not having fun with James, I would say break it off. There are many other guys out there (including John and Nick). Good luck!
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if you really like this guy you would deal with the fact that he's prude. but if you dont like him that much then break up with him but do it easily that way you are a free gurl and you can do wut ever you want. have fun at the dance!!
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ok if you dont like the way your boyfriend has been acting then talk to him about it and tell him how you feel. NEVER keep anything away from your boyfriend.. it is better to tell him the truth then to have him find out the hard way... i mean you would want to know if he is going to the dance with another girl or if you sound werid or stupid on the phone.. get me?? if you dont like the way your boyfriend is then dump him. but you know guys arent really supposed to be able to talk to girls on the phone it really isnt there thing. if you noe what i mean..and to a sertain degreee going to the dance with another guy is cheating because you know he IS your boyfriend. think of it like this say for instance James is your husband and you decide to go to a club with a guy that likes you. do you think that would be right??? hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*
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You should break up with him if you're planning to go with a dance with another guy because James does not deserve it he is the guy who you are going out with you don't want to hurt him by doing that to him.If you want to be with more than one guy you have to choose one and with that person you feel who you want to be with the most.Follow your heart.Do the right thing.In the first place John shouldn't have asked you knowing you are going out with someone he should wait until you break up with him that is if you choose to.And what a concidence I know three guys with those names!But one of those names has the name of a great friend and whose name is John.
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if you are currently in a relationship then you should be going with your boyfriend to the dance not another guy because your boyfriend might consider that as cheating
if your not happy in the relationship your in then just break up with him
its not right staying in a relationship where one person is not happy
goodluck if you need anything else drop one in my inbox ♥
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You should just totally be straight forward with your bf. Tell him you arent trying to cheat on him and he should know that John is just your friend and you had no intention on him thinking you were cheating. But if you feel that James is being TOO prude and you arent finding any fun at all in yall's relationship then go with your gut about the seperating situation. i suggest break up with him there might be some chemistry between you and John since he asked you to a dance so you have to like him enough to say yes! :) Maybe John will be the guy willing to give you more than James and make you happier and make your life more exciting kay? Well the best of luck to you girl! 'kiss' PrettyLady16
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