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My friend that I have known for four years has a cousin who likes me and I kind of like him the only problem is my friend has just told me that he likes me. What should I do I don't want to come between them?
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you need to tell who ever likes you that you dont want to start nothing you need to ask that friend would he mind if you went out with him and see what he says!!!!!!!!! i mean my b/f just exspeacts me to hang around him all the time im really populear and everything i just sometimes dont have time i mean i love him but im not 2 people so what you need to do is tell your friend that you really like himim 16 and im in 10th grade i like to be by myself i dont get to really so you need to say what ever yiu are thinking iun your mind dont be afraid he cant stop you for who ever you like your chioice!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
tiffany harrison
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This is a tough one. Measure your feelings, see how much you like your friends cousin. You don't want to end a four-year relationship with your friend over this, because he's hurt, but you don't want to come between he and his cousin, either. Here's what I'd do: Talk to your friend, and tell him that you really value the friendship, but that you look at him as a friend, and not a boyfriend. Make sure you're clear and honest, and don't get persuaded to go down a direction you don't want to go. Then, wait a while until you think your friend has reasonably gotten over it, and talk to him about his cousin. Ask him if he would be hurt if you went out with him, and talk to his cousin too.
I had a similar situation with my two best guy friends, who were also best friends with eachother. I didn't handle it very well, and now they hate eachother, but I am still friends with both. I might regret that something I was involved in ended a friendship, but I also realize that if I hadn't gotten involved at all, I wouldn't be with the person that I love more than anyone right now.
So, don't give up on the cousin completely, follow your heart, but try to handle it diplomatically so that no one gets hurt. Good luck :)
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You should just come clean and tell your it is better tellin her the true then liein to your best friend
Hope I helped you
~AskElyssa~
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You should just tell your friend you don't want to come betweeen them but just say like i kind of have feeling for your cousin. Don't worry she won't be mad. maybe later in the future she can acually have you guys hooked up & goin out! haha
Well hope it all turns out good.
you know you love me,
Nicole <3
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which one do you like? I thought the same thing when iwas going out with my ex- boyfriend, my best friend who is my ex-boyfrinds cousin had feelings for me and wanted be more than friends, but at one point i thouhgt that i would come between them too but i had to look at it like this they are cousins they are always going to be cousins they have to deal with each other at family gatherings,etc.so if they let a girl come between them something wasn't right to begin witi wouldn't let no guy come between me and my cousin/sister i'll tell her she can have him but it might be better if you just remain friends with both of them
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Okay, you have 3 choices...
1. Go out with the person you like more.
2. Go out with your friend because you will most likely see him more then his cousin and become closer.
3. Go out with his cousin, but you most likely see your friend a lot because its his cousin so that might not be such a good idea.
Its up to you just think about if this was happening to your friend and you were gonna give her advice then take your own advice. Good Luck!
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