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Its kind of long but please read this! i need advice!
Okay, well my name is Beccah and i really like this boy named Alex and in the 6th grade he had a girfriend named Jen and he had liked her since the 2nd grade and she finally started liking him in the 6th grade and he asked her out and they went out for about 5 months and then he dumped her and a few months later is when i started liking him and he was such a jerk to me and then in the 7th grade we became really good friends and i was finally over him for a good 5 months or so and in that period of time he went on and off liking me and then towards the end of the year i started liking him again and he liked me too and we would kiss and hug but he never asked me out and he was never my "boyfriend" and the last day of school we made it clear that we didnt want to go out over summer and we would see what would happen between us when school starts again and over the summer its really easy for me to concentrate on other things.. seeing how i travel a lot and i do summer basketball and im always with my friends, but now that school is starting and we have 3 classes together and because our lockers are close its going to be hard for me to get my mind off him. I already know that he doesnt like me anymore he made it clear and he says that i should get over him because there is better guys out there for me and hes not the one. I need advice.. should i continue liking him and see if everything i've done in the past was worth waiting for? or should i just try to stop thinking about him and try to find someone else for me? I'm graduating this year and after this, there is a good chance i wont see him anyways. But i just really want to be with him. Everyone tells me that hes not over Jen yet and she never really got over him either and i see it too.. Urghh i just need help.
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i dont wanna sound mean or anything but he doesn't seem worth it. i mean he goes on and off about liking you, was a jerk for a period of time, never asked you out even when he liked you or w/e, and isn't over his ex that HE dumped. so my advice would be to look for someone new, and anyway your not going to see him you said so whats the point. well its up to you and whatever you decide to do, good luck. hope i helped!
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aww! if i guy made it clear to me that he didnt like me after everything that happened between the two of us then i would be heartbroken..lol... but anyways back to you. you need to forget this guy. he sint worth your time and he shouldnt be treating like shit and telling you stuff like that but if he still isnt over his ex from 2 years ago then this guy really needs to hit reality soon.. because he was the one who broke with her... omg i hate it when people do that.. they break up with someone and then they feel all heartbroken it is like damn then why did you break up with them if you need them that much.. but hey that isnt me so yea..
my advice is to 4get him and move on.. yea it will be hard but it is for the best.. i mean you dont want to like someone if they dont liek you back and waste time.. you know what i mean?? hope this helps you out. and if you still cant figure it out LISTEN AND FALLOW YOUR HEART it will show you the way.
*~Stephanie~*
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Yea, it might be tough keeping your mind off of him this year, since he'll be around a lot. If he's told you that he's not the one for you, then the best thing to do is to move on. And if you see that he's not over Jen, then yea... move on. In the mean time, I'd say... still be friends with him. I don't think having him as a friend would hurt. Just remember that he's not into you and he still might be into Jen. One of these days a guy will come around that you'll like and he'll like you for you. Just be patient.
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