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Ive always heard about the 7 year itch in marriages. Now I believe it. After my husband and I have been married 7 years now it seems things are starting to go wrong. We had a great marriage untill about 6 or 7 months ago. Since then things have changed so much between us. Nothing in particular happened to change it so I have no idea what the problem is. We fight constantly and half the time we dont know what we are even mad at. Sometimes I feel like Im just going through the motions with him and acting and not really feeling.
Latley its been worse. And to make matters more complicated Ive meet a very nice man..no, nothing like that has happened, we just talk and etc when he comes in the where I work. But he hints that he would like more and the more I hear him talk the more things I notice my husband lacks. A year ago I would never have even thought about leaving my husband for someone else but now, with our marriage falling in at the seems its starting to look like a better idea. I have no idea what to do any more. I wake up in the mornings feeling confused and just walk about the house playing perfect wife and mom but I cant get this other guy out of my head no matter what I do.
My husband must not notice things are bothring me becaues he just lays on the couch barking out orders to me like Im a waitress.
What should I do?
Ive talked to family and friends but a majority of them are biased because they never liked my husband in the first place. (link)
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this happens but ending it is almost never the right thing. just try to get this other guy out of your head. try talking to your husband and making him understand. the grass isnt greener on the other side. DONT fight anymore with your husband. he will stop fighting when he relizes that hes just fighting himself. you say you dont even know why you fight anymore... it seems like you are both stressed and taking it out on each other. stop going through the motions, change up what you do... do something different even if it makes it harder on you... that will make your husband have to sit up and take notice. i know its hard but you can make things change for the better. marriage is hard but why quit this far in... it can only get better from here. i hope i helped. -liz.
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Is making out with another guy cheating????????? (link)
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yes. no doubt.
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there is this boy that i like...and he likes me...but he isnt looking for a girlfriend right now...he just wants me and him to be "friends with benifits"......what does that mean?...... but it seems like i want more than that....when we are alone he acts like we are boyfriend and girlfriend...but we arent......but when we are at school he doesnt really talk to me that much anymore.......and i want him to........he doesnt give me little sweet kisses, or hugs, or anything like that... someone told me that he is emaressed to be around me and that he doesnt want others to know......but he doesnt seem like that kind of guy...and others are saying that he just wants sex out of me (RUMERS)...i guess i just want to be more than just friends but i dont know how to tell him......because he isnt looking for a girlfriend right know.............
thanks for your helping hands!!!!!!!
baby (link)
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alright well friends with benifits means that he wants to do things with you (e.g. kissing... other things) but not call you his gf and stuff that way if he does something with someone else its not cheating. basicly its him using you for those things. hunnie he just doesnt want to commit to you. he doesnt give you kisses and hugs since he doesnt want other girls to see that and think hes taken when he just wants to be friends with benifits with you. see?
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hey! so my and my boyfriend are going to a school dance this weekend and i have two questions. so i heard from my friend that my boyfriend is gonna wanna grind with me and is gonna wanna french kiss me, and i wanna do that with him too, however i need some tips on how to do these two things, cuz otherwise i won't know how! i rate 5's! THANX IN ADVANCE! (link)
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grinding is easy.... you just move your hips alot and sometimes go up and down. kissing... just follow him.
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So I like this guy in my last class but he has a girlfriend. But he hits on me all the time. Today his hands were never in appropiate places (i was willing so it wasnt like he was being a dick) But he still has a girlfriend. PROBLEM. I also like my ex-boyfriend.. i hit on him a lot but not so much with him hitting on me. I think if i tried i could get this guy back, he was really great. But I dont know what to do. One has a gf the other i've already dated! (link)
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alright i had this problem once! forget the old bf theres a good rule of thumb for these things and its that if it hasnt worked before and he wont hit back on you then its pretty easy to tell that it wont work agian. so this new guy about him. you should tell him that you dont want to be the girl that helps him cheat on his girl and that you like him and that if he wants to break up with his gf thats fine but otherwise you dont want to do anything that could hurt the girl not because you like her since you are trying to steal her boyfriend, but as a girl theres this sort of code and your not going to help a guy cheat since every girl knows how much that hurts. but i wouldnt if i was you consider dating him cuz see if he does this to her and cheats on his gf then wouldnt he cheat on you also? once a cheater always a cheater. so before you have that talk with him consider that. if you want to IM me and talk my aim sn is oxmisslizxo and we can chat about it.
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ok so this guy asked me out. and i dont know if i like him or not. he is really nice and cool and i dont want to hurt his feelings by saying no. but i dont know if i like him!
i dont really know him. i only hung out with him once. im so confused. i dont know what to do!!!!!!
PLEASE HELP!!! ill rate 5's for anything. (link)
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id tell him that your not sure since you dont know him and you want to give it a week or two and get to know him a little better then youll give him an answer.
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I don't usually confront boys about how they feel about me. i've known this one boy for about 3 weeks, and we've talked every single day and before it used to be like we were rushing to talk to each other. we had amazing conversations.
this week, there has been a decline. i can tell that we both don't really put our all into conversations, that there are bigger priorities in terms of people to talk to. so i called him, and asked him what he thought we were, just friends?
he told me "yeah.. we're just friends.. but whatever happens..happens.." "of course we'll be friends, but down the line, i don't know."
what is that supposed to mean? can you break it down for me, because when it happens to me i have such a hard time understanding exactly what he means by that! (link)
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normally when a guy says that he means that he considers you a friend for now but he isnt going to say that you cant be more than that but there is other options for him and he isnt going to commit time to you and make you a priority but if something happens between the two of you at some point... thats fine with him. some guys say that and mean though that they dont want to commit to you but if something happens there more than willing to go with it... but they dont want to date... (sorta like friends with benifits but the benifits arnt garenteed to you or him like he doesnt care. its all him floating up stream for him... as long as it doesnt hurt him its all good.) so it could be either or a little of both... but then agian he could be one of those realllly shy guys that just likes you and is to shy to say it so he hid it by saying that... which do you think it is? i dont really know the guy so i cant say for sure which of the 3 it is but since you know him your gonna have to think of the tone he said it in and how it sounded and which one it is. but thats what it means. :)
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hey ummm this might be long.... ok this guy i really like asked me if i wanted to lose my virginity to him....and i was like asking him questions like if we would ever go out and he said he didnt know maybe.... and he also doesnt want anyone to know about it...which i can see that to because i dont want it getting around school either but i have the feeling that he doesnt like me and he just wants to lose his virginity....but i dont know. and like after we talked about doing it around his birthday and then like all of a sudden he asks my best friend out and im like OMG... and they went out for a couple of days........ but i havent talked to him about it anymore because i havent got the chance to... but i dont think he likes me anymore... so does anyone have any advice?
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alright if your confused about this... why would you ever want to lose your virginity to him?!?!? he seems like an real jerk. dont do it... theres much better guys than him.
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Yesterday I went to PacSun with my friend. I walked into the back of the store, because the hoodies were marked down. As we were browsing, an employee walked past us and sort of stopped. We both looked at him. He went, "Hey!" in the friendlist voice. I was shocked by his charisma, really, I haven't seen anyone so gorgeous. I said "Hi!" back, and we both laughed like little kids. He asked me if I needed any help, and I asked him if he could find a medium for me. When it was time for me to buy it, he looked at me incredulously (but still friendly) and told me he'd hold it for me while I looked around more. I told him that was all I wanted and he kept insisting. Then, you know how you're staring at something so beautiful everything the person is saying is muffled? That's what happened, when I heard him say something about my face. I know it wasn't bad, because he smiled, almost flirtingly. I gave in and looked around more. When I went back, I said that was all I wanted, and he was like, "Are you sure? I mean It's not really the season for hoodies" Please note that when I was talking to him, I was beet red in the face and I was showing all signs of nervousness. He asked if I was alright about 5 times. He was like, "Is it something I did?" I thanked him and walked out of there. A few questions: Do you think he wanted me to stay because he wanted me to buy more, or stay longer because he was attracted? I never asked him his name, and I'm so desperate, I called Pacsun twice, then hung up because a girl picked up! I thought about him and regret how I never asked for his name..or age. I'm 14 years old. I hope to death he is young because If I ever hook up with him, I don't want it to be RAPE! I desperately need help. Pleaseeee. I will rate 5's.
Plus, what can I do when I go back to the store? I want to come back and say something, but I need suggestions. Thank you so much in advance. Sorry for the length. (link)
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try and treat this like a big girl. immaturity is a turn off. just go back to the store on the day that you went before... like if it was a tuesday or something go back on tuesday... ok? since thats prolly when he works. look for him and ask him his name. then say something! just talk to him... and remember... giving him your # would be good. he'll most likely call you that way... seeing as he cant if you dont give it to him. dont be shy!
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Me and my boyfriend broke up. He broke up with me to go out with this one girl but we started talking again and the past 2 nights he has kissed me. He said he is confused and I want to get back with him. Would it be bad if I did? (link)
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depends on why you broke up. if you think you can have a relationship with him... try it. what can it hurt? if you have an answer for what it could hurt... you might not want to go back with him!
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I just got a great new boyfriend. But I'm totally afraid to kiss him because I've never kissed anyone before and everyone's like you'll know how to do and stuff but srsly, I don't know if I go on the top lip, bottom lip, what? I'm so confused. And also, how can I not have bad breath while making out with him? It seems no matter how hard I brush my teeth and stuff I always seem to have bad breath!!! Gum solves the problem but i cant have gum when I make out. Please help, thanks. Love, Chels. (link)
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never gum! gum makes your glands make saliva and that makes bad breath! chewing gum is just a temorary thing that makes it worse... use mints! the reason you may have bad breath could be reflux. talk to a doctor about it... they may can give you a pill that will make it stop. anyway back to kissing. normally the girl kisses his top lip but some guys do it differently. just go with the flow. when it happens it just happens. tell him that you want to kiss him but youve never done it before and if hes never kissed before either then you get to learn together. (sorry hehe) and if he has kissed then im sure hell help yah out!
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me and my boyfriend broke up a month ago. and i just got a new boyfriend a few days ago and i like him a lot. but my ex boyfriend called me lastnight and told me how much he wanted me back and missed me and i just dont know what to do. he treated me bad but i still love him and care about him and dont know if i should be with my current boyfriend. being held by him just doesnt feel the same but i know if i go back to my old boyfriend that nothing will change. can somebody please lemme know what to do? (link)
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try telling him that if things dont change that you cant go back out with him but if he is willing to help make it better then you will. the whole thing is that if you stay with anyone long enough youll get that feeling when they hold you. you can create love and you can earn love. you never really start out with love you can start out with liking someone but once youve been dating them awhile and getting to know who they are when no ones there and you&them open up completely and let them see the real you you get really attached to them and thats what we call love. if you really love your Ex then it sounds like you put in some time with him so talk to him about it tell him how you feel and you could have love with this new guy if you want to stick it out and earn it. so you have a choice your old love and what comes along with it i say go with him if you think you can change him but if you dont think you can just stick it out with this other guy and earn the love. :) hope i helped.
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There's this girl I really like. We'll call her "B." I know some people said "true" love isn't real for teens, but I can feel that I love her. I have since I met her.
Well, she's a few years older than me, and she's dating this guy I haven't really enjoyed being around in the past. I wrote B a letter, but I signed it "Your Secret Admirer." It basically says stuff about how I love her, and things like that. But, I haven't had a chance to sneak it into her backpack or whatever.
The thing is, I think she might sorta like me, but I'm not sure. Should I sneak the letter into her backpack?
Thanks,
-Fyce
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do it! but put as how you sign it "your secret admirer fyce"
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There is this boy I know. I think he likes me because he made me a CD. He has come to all my parties, so I really think he does. He is sorta shy, so I cant really tell. What are some ways that I can get him to fall for me and tell me? Or what are some ways to tell he likes me for sure??? Thanks! 5's for good advice! (link)
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there really is no way to get someone to fall for you besides being yourself and have love and not lust. it does sound like he likes you though. you should call him and try the call back trick... call him and start talking to him then say you have to go but that you want him to call you back the next day but please remember to give him your # even if he already has it... guys are very forgetful! and that way if he calls back you know he cares about you :) just think of creative ways. have fun! hope i helped!
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My ex boyfriend & I have been broken up for about 5-6 months now. We didn't start hanging out until recently. We're closer friends than we've ever been & it seems like we're climbing back up to being more than friends. We flirt alot & he gave me his jacket. When we broke up, it wasn't an earthshattering reason that would prevent us to date again, so there's a possibility for that. I know I like him but I'm not sure if he likes me. Whenever another guy flirts with me or I talk about another guy he gets really jealous. He even asked my friend if I liked my guyfriend, Grant, & told her not to tell me he asked. Does it sound like he could have feelings for me again?
Thanks for reading, will rate!
XO Jane (15/f) (link)
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it sounds like he does. i think you should go for it. :) tell him you still like him.
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So I like one guy. I haven't really talked to him, but I like him A LOT. Now there is this other guy. We have went out a few times, but it was little not-serious things. He also happens to be one of my best friends. Should I go for the new guy, or for my friend? My friend likes someone,but a while ago he said he's always liked me. Ughh. Im desperate. HELP! (link)
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well its better to keep friends just friends... they tend to stay around longer that way :) so id say go with the new guy.
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ok so im going on my first date with my b/f this weekend..we're going to the movies
& im going w/ another one of my friends & this guy that she likes..& he also likes her
but ne ways..
i think my b/f might kiss me but idn
like i want to kiss him but not really in front of my friends..
so what should i do if he tries to? (link)
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im sorry about that. sarcasim is my strong point :) the thing of it is if you want to kiss him and hes not shy about kissing you infront of your friends then what does it matter if they see it? i think that you should just go with it. i doubt that he'd kiss yah infront of them anyways. he'd prolly try it before or after. most guys dont do the first kiss in public just from personal experiance. maybe call him or something and tell him how you feel and your concern and talk to him about it. he'll be glad to know that you'd like to kiss him and will most likely be very happy to come up with a time to do it. sound better?
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I have a boyfriend who I have been with for about a month and a half. He's only a year younger than me but since my birthday is at the start of the month (JAN 06) and his is at the end (NOV 24)it sounds like a bigger age gap (I'm 17 and he's still 15) I really love him and I know he cares about me. But theres this voice in the back of my head telling me its all wrong. Please help me I don't know what to do.
PS I rate really high (link)
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its perfectly fine!
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I've been working with this guy for like 4 months now and we seem to get along quite well. I don't know if he has a girlfriend or not, but the signals he gives me, tells me he does not. The thing is that I am 18 and hes 16. A lot of people have a probelm with the age thing, but i don't, i think hes mature for his age. (thats y i can't ask my friends this) Anyway i don't have his email or anything but we're good friends at work. Would it be weird if i asked him to my prom? and if not how would you ask him? thanks in advance (link)
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he sounds like a great pick! just ask him! tell him something like "i cant think of a cuter/funnier/better/awesomer/sweeter/amazing guy to take to prom! wanna come?"
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Okay, so I broke up with a guy about three months ago. The breakup went prettu well, considering, and we talked a couple of days after it, but once, we ended up fighting and he really upset me. Some things he wrote in a journal, or said, or whatever, kinda scared me.
Everyone I talked to told me to give him three months or so away from me, not to contact him for awhile, but I see him on line every so often and I want to talk to him. I'm friends with all of my exes, and I want to keep that up. I liked him as a person, not just as a boyfriend.
The thing is, he was really kind of heartbroken. I don't want to hurt him again, but I want to talk to him. I want to see if he's okay, I guess. I don't even really have anything to say to him.
Also, like a week after we broke up, he asked me if I had a boyfriend (I didn't then, but now I do), and I have a feeling he'd ask again, and I don't want to tell him, but I don't want to lie either. That's not really my question, though.
I guess I want to know what do you think I should do.
Should I go with my impulses and talk to him even though I don't really have anything to say? Or should I wait 'til he contacts me? His aim is to forget "we" ever happened, so if I do that, he won't.
Proper spelling and grammar is appreciated, thanks. (link)
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i think that if you just give him enough time he'll be fine. as they say 'its odd how when someone breaks your heart you still love them with all the peices' you prolly just broke his heart and of course he will be jealous about this new guy. i have this thing i do after i break up with a guy i always make sure i wait about 5 months so that i can stay friends with them and give them time to be fine when i find anyother guy. just try to give him enough space. k? mkay.
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