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wht to do im 15/f...my heads going to explode
there is this boy that i like...and he likes me...but he isnt looking for a girlfriend right now...he just wants me and him to be "friends with benifits"......what does that mean?...... but it seems like i want more than that....when we are alone he acts like we are boyfriend and girlfriend...but we arent......but when we are at school he doesnt really talk to me that much anymore.......and i want him to........he doesnt give me little sweet kisses, or hugs, or anything like that... someone told me that he is emaressed to be around me and that he doesnt want others to know......but he doesnt seem like that kind of guy...and others are saying that he just wants sex out of me (RUMERS)...i guess i just want to be more than just friends but i dont know how to tell him......because he isnt looking for a girlfriend right know.............
thanks for your helping hands!!!!!!!
baby
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I hate to say darling, but as the book says...
He's just not that into you.
Friends with benefits is usually when a guy ad gal angree that they both don't wanna be in a relationship.
This wasn't an agreement, he was just telling you that. It will never become a relationship, because he obviously only wants you for the "booty call" for lack of better term.
Sorry hunny.
I'd dump his ass if I were you.
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He's a jerk. Friends with benefits only means that he wants to have sex with you. And he's already shown you that he doesn't really want to be 'friends'. Real friends would never do that to you.
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Friends with benefits means that he wants you as a sex object basically. He doesn't want commitment with you or to be serious with you. He just wants the sexual activity, so I'd say that everyone who is saying he only wants you for sex is telling you the truth.
If I were you, I wouldn't even talk to him anymore. You should now understand why he isn't looking for a girlfriend.
-TheTeenGirl
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thisismydance is right. Friends with benefits means he gets all the benefits of a girlfriend but no commitment to you at all.
It is not something you want to get into no matter how much you like him and may want to. The only one benefited will be him. You will just suffer watching him hang all over other girls. You will have your heart broken big time.
He will be nice to you and kiss on you (in private) to get what he wants ( including sex) and then ignore you the rest of the time.
If he doesn't care enough about you to make you his girlfriend then forget him. You deserve better than that. :)
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alright well friends with benifits means that he wants to do things with you (e.g. kissing... other things) but not call you his gf and stuff that way if he does something with someone else its not cheating. basicly its him using you for those things. hunnie he just doesnt want to commit to you. he doesnt give you kisses and hugs since he doesnt want other girls to see that and think hes taken when he just wants to be friends with benifits with you. see?
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