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ok im 14 and im a girl my problems is well to understand my whole problem i will have to go bac lil while ok so my mom and dad were never married but when i was 4 they broke up and i lived with my grandma with my dad and MY MOM dated this guY his name was dawayne AND when i was like 5 my mom took me away from my dad and i missed him alot and i neVer saw him again till i was 11 and then i started seeing him and he lived with his new wife and her kids i felt really bad i felt like he didnt care about me anymore or sumthin but then he talked to me about it and i was fine then when i was 13 one of my friends moved to her cuzins house((WHO WAS ALSO ONE OF MY FRIENDS)) b-ciz she got abused and my dad got a divore with his wife and then my mom got a divorce with her husband and i missed my step sister very much and i feel really bad inside i feel like crying all the time and my friend that got aBUSED IS MOVING BAC WITH HER DAD (WHO ABUSED HER) and just want every thing to be they way it was b 4 i moved out of my old house
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Wow, you've lived quite a life. It sound tough.. but you'll get though it. Find ways to relax yourself such as listeing to you favorite music, going to a spa or something, hanging out with a good friend, have a movie marathon an play all you rfavorite movies, play a favorite sport, ect. Talk with your parents, tell them how you are hurting inside. Tell your friend that any moment that her dad seems like he will abuse her again to get out of there. I hope this works and your life gets better.
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I know right now things seem sad and lonely. But you are not alone. talk to your parents and your friends. Let them know how you feel. It will make you feel better to talk it out.
Also, start a diary or journal. Write down what you are feeling and why.
If you find it too hard to talk to people face to face write it down in a letter. Let them know how you are feeling and what you feel like you are going through right now. And then give it to them and they will be able to help you.
It is never easy dealing with problems by yourself and the sooner you talk to someone the sooner you will see that they can give you the support and reassurance you need.
They may even have the same feelings you have about the situation.
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You'll have to begin understanding that things aren't going to be the same. Things will always change and in your situation, these changes are not going back to the way things were.
I think that you need to let your mom or dad know that you've been feeling depressed lately about the way things are. If you can't bring yourself to talk to one of them, then you should see the school counselor or someone else who can help you with these feelings. There isn't much to say except to talk to someone about it.
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