Hey there. I'm 18, and my birthday is January 8th, 1988. I have brown hair, blue eyes, and I'm short.
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well my ex boyfriends birthday is coming up and we decided we were gonna spend the day together after school or the following day together! weve been broken up for almost 7 months now! ya i know a really long time! but through it all weve been like best of friends and we talk all the time! and weve hung out twice this summer! well he does tell me he knows we both want to be together but it wont work right now because he is dating another girl but they arent going out cause she cant have a boyfriend! and even after being broke up hes like i love u and i always will! and just last night he said he missed us! and i still really care about him! but anyways for his bday i wanna do something really cute! i was already thinking about making him a cake and decorating it all cute and getting him a card! but i was trying to think of something else special i could do to show him how much i care! any ideas? thanks so much! (link)
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Hey there. I say get him something cute and sexy. lol. The cake and the card is very expected. A good idea, but always expected. Instead why dont you make him a themed mixed CD. Think of what he likes, and dislikes. I cant really tell you what to et him, because I dont know him personally. Anyways, good luck hun.
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hey... well i rly need help with this one. im only 12 and i started to "hump" a pillow when i was like 11. and now i sorta masturbate.. but like i don't go "up" me or ne thing... i just like rub it. please help me. i wanna stop so bad. i havn';tdone it in about a week or something. i rly wanna stop because im scared someone (like my mom) will find out and b mad at me. ive NEVER had sex and i don't plan to ne time soon, or at least untill im married. oh.. and im female =)
plz HELP ME. I WANNA STOP.
from what should i do
ps. dont u feal odd like telling 13 year olds to have sex??? there like rly young and not married. if they believe in God i suggest they at least wait untill like a couple years. just sayin.. (link)
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okay, masturbating is totally normal, and if your mom found out, she shouldnt be mad ... at least it's not sex, right? I hear of lots of girls humping pillows and rubbing and Ive heard of every kind of masturabating out there. Once you start, its hard to stop. I guess it's a whole mind over matter thing. If you really want to stop, then stop. And as for your PS, I do not feel odd giving 13 year old sex advice. I do not tell them to have sex, I have no influence on how they feel in things. If they want to wait until they are older, or mariage, then great, if they want to have sex, and are safe and mature about it, then great. I know lot's of people who have had sex at younger ages and are my age now and they are great people. It is your opinion that you shouldnt have sex until marriage, and I respect that, but you also have to respect the fact that most of the worlds population has sex when they feel it's right, and dont need a ring around their finger to make it offcial. And not everyone believes in god. I respect your opinion, but I will continue to help out those who seek advice, and I will not influence them into trying anything stupid.
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My name is Kelsey (female) and im a freshman in highschool. I have liked this guy named Drew since i was in 7th grade and he was in 8th. We are best friends and can tell each other anything. We help each other out with our love lives all the time. He never thought of me in a girlfriend way. Lately though, he has been saying things like we should hook up and start dating this summer when he gets his license. The other night we were talking bout what if we had sex over the summer. And he made it seem like he wanted to date me. Now he is dating a junior. He holds her hand, walks her down the hall, and looks at her like she is the only person in the room. Am i supposed to move on and forget him? Should i wait around? What do i need to do to make him want me? I need your advice please!!
Sincerely,
Kelsey (link)
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Hey there. Okay, well, girlfriend or not, I would still try to be with him at least. I say your first step is to talk to him. Alone. Ask him what is going on. I find it weird that he would plan to date you in the summer, but starts dating another girl. Can he not wait? That's a good thing to ask him. Your best bet would be to ask anything you need to ask him, things you need to know. If that doesnt work, then I would move on ... i know it will be hard, but it's better to be with someone who wants you back, right?
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ive asked questions on here before and you dont know how much your advice means to me (link)
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hey there. thanks for asking me questions. I love giving advice. OKay, no ... you do not want the reputation of being a slut. Well, it seems like you have a man now that respects you. First I'm going to give you tips on not getting that reputation, and then on sex. The reputation thing, if you want to tell anyone about having sex, tell only trusted friends. And ask your man to do the same thing. Now on sex, there's not really any tips i can give you. Since it's your first time, be on the bottom, for it will be painful, and you dont have to do anything. lol. After your first time you will be comfortable to be on top and try new things. Just make sure your comfortable with everything first, and that your safe.
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OK. See me and my b/f have been going out for a little over three months...everytime i see him all we really do is make out. i mean he has gone up my shirt, but he hasnt tried to go any farther than that. im starting to get tired of the same old thing everytime i see him. why wont he go farther with me? another thing is... i want him to finger me and i know he wants to because he told my friend he wanted to but he never has, and he told her this when we had only been dating a month. if he does finger me tho im scared that he wont like it because i have hair... down there... should i shave it? what do guys perfer? does it really matter? plz answer ill rate sincerely confused (link)
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Okay, most guys prefer it haved. And if you want to go further, why dont you make the first move. Why dont you give him a handjob or blowjob or something. Then he'll probley feel comfortable after to do stuff with you
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ok...ive been with this guy for 3 years now on and off...and im 15 and like i really love him and he claims he loves me and i just dont no what to do hes an complete asshole at times but then he can b the NICEST guy EVER!!...hes nver cheatd on me or en thing..and he goes to a differnt school and it jus gets hard...and like idont no what to do anymore if i should stay with him or not..we made it 3 years ya no...but lately hes jus been a prick...what should i do?
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Well, I think since you have invested 3 years into the relashinship, i think you should stand up for it. Tell him, and make him listen (even if that means pinning him to the ground) that you love him, and if he really loves you, then he'll treat you right and with respect, and not be a prick anymore or you'll have to end it. Remember, guys are complete assholes at times ... belive me, but then they usually bounce back to being normal at times ... its kinda like PMS except for guys. lol.
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ok me and my bf are thinking about sex.... i almost hadsex one time.... i just dunno. should i be on the top or bottom???? (link)
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well ... if you haven't had sex before, i say you should be on the bottom, because it will hurt. plus, it just seems more ... special that way. lol. have fun!
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Hey please help me in any way possible!!
Imma 16 years old and one of my aunts friends is like into me I mean he tells me he loves me and everything I think imma fallin for em but tha thing is hes 26.. so I know what your thing wow thats illegal, yea i know but noone knows bout us juss me and em! we kiss all tha time.. we've never had sex or ne thing! I thought tha maybe he was juss tellin me this stuff so id have sex with em but hes not like tha.. we talked bout it and he said tha he wasn't gonna force me into havin it with em if i wasnt ready*but hes fingered and eat me out*!! He also calls my house and my mom answers but she juss thinks we're really good friends cause of my aunt and he knows my whole family!! So what should I do?? please help me like asap.. Imma so confused!! (link)
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hey htere. hmmm ... this is really confusing. well, if you really think your falling for him, and you dont have one single doubt in your mind that this relashinship is right, then go for it. But if there is even the slightest doubt ... call it off. Maybe you could talk to an older friend and see their opinion as well. hope i helped. ttyl.
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i realy like this guy but he is 5yrs older than me but i dont know why i like him (link)
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Well, if you really like him, go out with him ... unless it's illegal, because you can get him in a lot of trouble.
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how long after a girl has sex does it take for her to notice shes pregnant? hurry please! (link)
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About a month ... wait until your a week late and then take a test.
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*CAN YOU PLEASE HELP ME IMMA SO CONFUSED* ITS LONG BUT PLEASE DONT DELETE*
I have a guy friend and were really close.. hes 18 and imma 15 soon be 16.. but ne ways reclently he gots a gurl friend and they dated for like 2 months and last week i started talkin to *R* this guy from school when he found out he got really mad and wouldnt talk to me, when i ask em whats wrong he said i dont need to be datin.. well em and his gurl friend broke up tha other day and he was at my house last nite and we was in my bed room talkin and he goes you dont need to be talkin to em and all this shit.. i think he was flirtin with me casue he was bitin on me, huggin me and juss doin stuff like tha.. I really like em alot but i dunno what he thinks bout me, i mean does he like me or is he juss playin with me? imma so confused imma cryin!! (link)
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Hey there. Well, from what your telling me, he's into you. Maybe you should just ask him if he's playing or not. That's what I would do. JUst ask him, no matter how much i liked him. lol.
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alright,well i was in a relationship with this boy all summer.and we really have bee on/off for a year.But recently we were going back out.and for some reason he stopeed saying "i love you" to me.i dont get?all before that he said it openly and now on the phone or comp. he just ends our convercations really fast.well, we did break up again this weekend,and he was really mad @ me, but now he acts like nothing even happened?i basically feel like i keep putting myself in the situation were i will get hurt...what do u think? (link)
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I think you should end it permently. A couple of years ago I was in a relashinship just like that. That signal of him no saying i love is telling you it's gotta stop. That fact that he is pretending nothing ever happened is normal. End it now and there will be better men in the future.
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Okay how long should u wait for a guy who says he isn't ready for a relationship because he's busy? he says he likes me! (link)
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don't bother. not to be mean, but the same thing happened to me a year ago and he said he was busy but he likes me, and a week later has had another gf. I'm just basing this on personal experience. He might be actually too busy to have a gf.
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I know I'm in love but I don't know if my parents will except it they think we should be 15 before we date but I don't want to wait til I'm 15 to date the guy I love cuz I don't want him to go out with any one else before the 9th grade in June...What should I do obey my parents or do what's right?
-Jasmine (link)
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the right thing to do
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Ok, I'm 17 and me and my bf broke up and it was this huge drama because i'm not suppose to ever talk to him again. Well, I did. Huge mistake because now he's kinda being weird saying if i don't do what he ask he'll tell my mom that we've been talking. Which knowing him he would and i'm not even suppose to be talking to him. What do I do? (link)
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okay, first of all, i don't know why your mom would be in the middle of your relashinship. lol. All mothers are alike. lol. Now, your ex doesn't seem to want to talk to you. For two reasons maybe. He either still likes you and you talking to him will regenerate those feeling, or he's just not into it anymore. I think you need to get over him. For your own good. If you keep talking to him, you'll get in trouble with your mom, and perhaps irratating him. Your 17, you can make your own decisions about whether or not you want to move on and find a better guy or stay obsessed with the ex. But personally, I think you should move on and life will be good again. No more drama.
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okay, the guy i really like just asked me out. yay. but the down side is hes punk. and im prep. i kno i kno it shouldnt matter. but if i go out with him i kno pplz are gonna look at me different, think im different and treat me different. i cant stand it. i really like this guy help me, should i or shouldnt i go out with him??? (link)
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GO OUT WITH HIM!!!!!! Other people don't matter when it comes to relashinships
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ok there is this guy that i like alotn he likes me but he is one of my brothers friends n my brother would get soo mad if we would go out n he would find out about it n he knows that i like him n everything n i know that he likes me but we dont know if we should go out bc of my brother i talk th this guy on the phone n online but my brother doesnt know that either n i'm afraid that if my brother doesn find out that he will get really mad at me n him n then not be friend with the guy n he will like not talk to me for a while plzz help me!! i'm so confused!! (link)
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You should tell your brother, and if he doesn't like it, then you guys should work out a plan that you can both live with
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Yeahhh... my boyfriend, who I like a lot, is a different race and my parents are racist. That caused some bumps in me just telling my mother that I liked him, and put drama on us already. And I don't see him much, and hes in one of my classes. He says that hae cares about me, and I believe that he does. But how do I know how much he cares about me with out asking him annoying questions? (link)
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with that sorta thing, you just know. I mean, sometimes you have doubts, sure, everyone does, most if most of the time, you can actually feel how much he cares bout you, you'll know he actually does. And about your parents ... screw em. I really don't think your relashinship is any of their buisness. Like you you wanna like, and don't listen to their damn racist comments
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how can i proove to mi boifriend that i love him?..and how can i make him believe me that i didnt cheat on him? (link)
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OKay, well, there are a coupel of ways you can prove to your boyfriend that you love him. Make him a romantic dinner. Candles, YOUR homemade food (not ordered in) and music. Conversation. You can always do the grand gesture thing, like, stand on a table in public, or a chair or whatever, and shout out that you love so and so and will forver. You can also have sex, which is a great way to prove your love to him. And the cheating thing, well, you'll just have to tell him over and over again, that you love him and would never cheat on him.
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Agh... I'm so agitated and confused and depressed at the same time I can barely type this...! Anyways... my gf and I have been going out for about 10 days. My friends and I and her hang out all the time. Well it started last night. My friend was just joking around and he said "I'm like a star in the sky!" (Yeah we're pretty weird sometimes.) And my gf said "If you are then I will love you haha" and this kind of got me down, even though she said she was just kidding. Also, the same day, my friend was just like "My butt hurts." Then she says "Haha let me check that out for you then", and she touched it lightly... In a joking way, but it still didn't feel right.Another thing is, today, when my friend and I were walking towards her, she was like "Hey (friends name)!" And I was thinking to myself... "Eh? :( She didn't even say hi to me..." But... my gf said that she is crazy about me and she really loves me and everything like that, and she said that like the 7th night we were going out... but on msn. =\ Anyways, my question is, does she still like me? Or could she be liking my friend, and not me? I mean, she says she's worried that I will like another girl and dump her in the near future, and she also says that she's afraid to get hurt again, so maybe she will hurt me, and everything will be fine for her? I don't know, but we still held hands and hugged and all the normal stuff we do like that, but it still made me sad... please help... and thanks for reading... (link)
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Hey hun. Okay. I'm not going to say you shouldn't or should be with her. She most likely has feeling for you friend though. You really should bring your girlfriend around your friends unless you really trust her and you know you love each other a lot. But it sounds like she likes your friend. If you want to get her back, hang out just the two of you. And about the first move thing, some girls are shy, and don't really want to do it. lol
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