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i've been more than you think for a 14 year old.

"never judge a book by its cover,inside on those pages could be the best love story in the world"- lea ellen

advice

there is this guy that i like and he says he likes me to and we have been talking for about two months and we act like we are datin ans everyone thinks we are but were not. why hasent he asked me out ?

he probably hasnt asked you out because yall are acting like your going out with out any strings attaching you two. so, if/or when he was tired of you, he could just start hanging out with another girl without having to actually break up with you.

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Does anyone know how i can ask the following q's to a girl in away that wont make girls wonder why im asking it.Can you give me a sneakier way of asking the following q's

What do you like to find in a friend?
what kind of guy do you like?
Who are your friends?

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How can you find out stuff on a girl? Not like gossip but more like her fave movies and bands, ect.

by being straight forward and honest.
when a guy approaches me, i am totally fine with him asking me questions...as long as they arent about like..sex or something that would be just plain weird to talk about if you just met the person.

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ok theres this boy who is my friend and we've been friends for a while and i found out that for a little while he liked me, like a few weeks. Now he doesnt and he likes this girl, alot, and they're going out and she doesnt like him at all. shes only going out with him for a joke. I wanna tell him but I don't because then her friend might start shit with me. Also the more I think about it the more I begin to think I like him. What should I do, tell him in a way without really telling him about this girl or not and have him find out I knew and hate me??????

I'll rate high for good answers!!!

btw im f

i would tell him the truth. tell him that you care about him and you think he's gonna get hurt by this girl and that shes not good enough for him, tell him that he deserves better than that. if//when they break up, just make sure you are there for him, cause you are his friend and thats what friends do.
it kinda sounds like you are a little jealous... maybe you dont want him as more than a friend, but you've been friends for so long you feel that he's kinda yours and you feel jealous that he's going with another girl.. thats whats happend to me before..
what ever you do, dont be blunt. because being too blunt might hurt him, and then he'd get dumped by her and feel even worse. you dont have to lie to him, just DONT be like.."the girls a bitch, she's just screwin with you as a joke so.. get with me". just be like, "i dont think shes could for you, because, i've heard that shes just going with you as a prank..so if i were you, just be careful ok?" that should work out pretty well.
~hope i helpd a lil bit.~

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do girls like the smell axe or tag.

i personally hate the smell of both.. but out of the two.. some axes..

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Last saturday I went on a "date" with my guy friend Jake. After we went out to eat, we sat in his car for a few minutes and just talked. I've never hugged him, or anything. But we were sitting there, and I put my head down to pick something up when he touched my hair and said, I love your hair. you look so beautiful with it. After that I was like, omgosh he's the best guy ever! Is this normal? Like just from him touching my hair and telling me I look beautiful - like I think I'm really starting to like him.

Sorry if this sounds cheesy.

aww he sounds wonderful. yes that is perfectly normal. you should get to know him better, and DEFINATELY let him touch your hair more..hehe.. maybe more dates with him, will get ya'll alot closer.

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ive been going out with a guy for two weeks and now i want to dump him because i just dont like him anymore and liked the way it was before but this whole week we have been fighting because i cant seem to act normal around him and i dont kno how to dump him because he gets this look in his eyes and i just cant what should i do to break up with him?i rate high!

ok.. i know this is gonna sound mean,but if you want to avoid seeing his eyes (and i know the look, i've had it happen to me, and i can do it) call him and break up..or write him a note and give it to him as he's leaving school.
just make sure to tell him,that you still want to be friends.

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theres a boy whos 3½ years older than me and we both like eachother a lot and we want to go out and stuff. hes scared tho because we are against
the law and idk what to say to make him feel better. any suggestions?

tell him that its only against the law if you have sex. so.. either just dont have sex.. or dont let any adults (especially the ones that dont like him) know that you are having sex. cause they could press charges. but if ya'll arent going to have sex, its perfectly fine
to go out with each other.

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Well heres my problem theres this one guy lets call him Joe. Well i've known Joe since like the 7th grade (im in 10th grade now) and i've always had a huge crush on him! it sux. well i think he knows and he's always like hinting at me that he likes me too. But, i dont want to get attached or become his girlfriend (he's asked me before) because he's got a rep of breaking girls hearts. But, i cant get him outta my head and i wanna get over him. but its so hard! what can i do to get over him? or should i go out with him and see what happens? but i dont want to get my heart broken i've been through it a lot. someone plz help

definitly go out with him. give him a chance. maybe he likes you enough not to break your heart. plus.. what if he is "the one" and you didnt think to give him a chance.. and he slips away.

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Is it just me or is Ryan Quentn(home and away,summerland)absolutely gorgeous!!!!!

no hes definitly gorgeious...

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I have been going out with a guy i've liked forever as of yesterday. He is already saying I love you and I said it back. Are we both just saying it or what?

do you really love him? you may just love the idea of him. loving someone is a big step so you might want to take it a little slower than that. it kinda sounds like yall are just saying it to say it..

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Okay so theres this new guy to our school and hes a Junior and Im a sophmore and hes the classic bad boy he's been in trouble with the law, hes not a virgin (i am)he parties ALL the time. But hes really sweet and i truly try and stop myself from getting wrapped up in him bc to him im probably just another "girl" well whenever i get online hes the first screen name i look for and in the hallways i always look for him. But hes a major flirt and i know you guys are gonna tell me to just forget about him and i know IM TRYING. =/ basically, what im trying to say is should i even give him a chance to see me for who i really am or just give up while my hearts all mine? Like and sometimes i think hes too bad for me. He asked me this weekend to go with him to street racing with him and he doesnt have his license or permit it got taken away and i made up an excuse. Should i hang out with him?

aww he sounds soo wonderful.
give him a shot!! let him see the real you, if he doesnt like it, too bad for him.
much love
lea♥

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I love my boyfriend so much but he is always grounded And the only time I get to see him is at school and we live in the same naiborhood too. so its so gay He gets grounded for stupid resoms to (because his step dad is a dick) We the thing is, i want to break up with him because I never get to see him we dont have any classes together or anything. but the problem is I dont know how and I would like to be friends with him after words. how can I break up with him and stay friends
14 female

ask him before you break up if you did ever break up if you'd still be close. thats what i did with my boyfriend,cause i still love him,cause he's soo awesome but i dont want to be with him. my new boyfriend totally understands too.then tell your boyfriend why you want to break up and that maybe when you were older you could hang out more.
*i hope everything works out*

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i am 13/f and i want sex is that wrong

no alot of girls start thinking about sex that young...and thats ok but just.. dont have sex... cause you should wait.. a while... like till your married.

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how do you know when your in love or what is love?

love- like a brother or sister, or best friend or a parent.
being in love- over the moon happy, thinking about the girl/boy every second of everyday. wanting to be with them for the rest of your life, only happy when you are with them or thinking about them.
if you need it in more detail, just im me!it should be on my column

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I have wrote previous storys on here and this is a new one. I am so used to being by myself. Like I haven't dated in 5 years!!!! Im not a looser. I just don't like guys all around me. I like being alone. I have a boyfriend and I feel soo weird around him. Like ' Omg I can't stand him now, i just want to be friends'. I have always been like that. Its like the older I get the worser it gets. Its it just me or is it who i like. I have No idea. And if this helps. I have been very depressed latley.

theres nothing wrong with being alone, and it sounds like its a little of who you like and you. if that makes since...
maybe you should just start hanging out with a different group of people, maybe then you'll find someone that you arent weird around.
and if you haven't already, break up with your boyfriend. if you are so weird around him, there isnt really a point in keeping him as a boyfriend.
is not having a boyfriend depressing you? because thats what it sounds like,
i hope i helped at least a little...it probly doesnt, but i hope it does..
rate on my advice please, not on anything else... someone gave me a three because of my age....

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when i really really like someone im soo excited when they ask me out that my stomach hurts. but then after about an hour i dont want to go out with them anymore because i think of everything wrong with them. wuts wrong with me? its really annoying. like im SO picky..

if you like them enough to say yes when you go out with them, you odviously forget their wrongs.but you dont have to totally forget their wrongs, just barely acknowledge them just like you barely acknowledge some of the wrong things about you.

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my friend really likes this guy and never shuts up talking bout him. for three nights in a row he was in my dreams but heres the wierd thing....i dont like him at all not even as a friend! wat do you think dis means?xoxo

it doesnt mean anything but that you may have been thinking about him when you went to bed.

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Okay i asked something like this last night but i need to add to it and i think it'll help you guys to answer it. So i was at an orchestral rehearsal and there's the girl. ( i'm 15/f bi and i'm not sure how old she its). But she's gorgeous but i can't get up the nerve to go say hi. All i can do is stare. I still couldn't focus tonight, it even got worse. Knowing my luck, she isn't bi and probably doesnt even know i exist. What should i do?!?! I feel like i should just get over her. Should i?!?! I'll rate!!!!!

well, before you try to get over her, see if you've got a shot with her first. just start hanging out with her first, and get to know her preferences.
then just ask her, if you don't, there is always that chance that she was the one and you let her slip away.

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Hey I was just wondering...where does it start, that is, STDs. If a guy and a girl are both virgins, is there still a chance? How does it like begin, because it doesn't seem to make sence. If its not infection by spreading it, then what starts them? Thanks - will rate.

if the guy and girl are both virgins then they havent had sex yet, if they havent had sex yet then they didnt have sex with someone who had aids or hiv or any other std.
if you have a std and you have unprotected sex, your partner will most likely get the std too.

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i know that it's fine if my boyfriend has [girl]friends, there's nothing wrong with that. but how can you tell when the friendship has gone too far?

when he spends more time with her than he does with you.
when he has more cute nicknames for her than you.
basically, when she has more something than you do.

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