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is he more than friend
ok theres this boy who is my friend and we've been friends for a while and i found out that for a little while he liked me, like a few weeks. Now he doesnt and he likes this girl, alot, and they're going out and she doesnt like him at all. shes only going out with him for a joke. I wanna tell him but I don't because then her friend might start shit with me. Also the more I think about it the more I begin to think I like him. What should I do, tell him in a way without really telling him about this girl or not and have him find out I knew and hate me??????
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btw im f
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well first off if this guy you really like and he's a good friend. would you rather have him find out the hard way from somebody else or you tell him and make him feel better? As long as you are strong this girl can not get to you. If she starts stuff ignore it. I know thats hard, but if it gets out of hand talk to her and explain to her that wat she did was wrong. If she still is mad write her notes telling her your sorry don't write to many though. she might get annoyed. Sometime or later she will apoligize and realize she is the one who messed up!
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i would tell him the truth. tell him that you care about him and you think he's gonna get hurt by this girl and that shes not good enough for him, tell him that he deserves better than that. if//when they break up, just make sure you are there for him, cause you are his friend and thats what friends do.
it kinda sounds like you are a little jealous... maybe you dont want him as more than a friend, but you've been friends for so long you feel that he's kinda yours and you feel jealous that he's going with another girl.. thats whats happend to me before..
what ever you do, dont be blunt. because being too blunt might hurt him, and then he'd get dumped by her and feel even worse. you dont have to lie to him, just DONT be like.."the girls a bitch, she's just screwin with you as a joke so.. get with me". just be like, "i dont think shes could for you, because, i've heard that shes just going with you as a prank..so if i were you, just be careful ok?" that should work out pretty well.
~hope i helpd a lil bit.~
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omgosh thats horrible!! && you need to tell this guy that b/c first off are you even friends with the girl who is doing that to the guy ?? and i would put yourself in his positiion...i mean would you want somebody to tell you if this guy you really like is only going out with you as a joke!! i would and i bet if you tell the guy about it he will like you and you guys will proubley even be more then friends or maybe even best friends and you guys will tell eachother everything!!
&& GOOD LUCK
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Since use are friends it would be right to tell him about the girl. If he doesnt believe you then hes not that good of a friend. But you should also tell him how you feel. about him. If you keep it inside then you will never know what could of happened between you too. Just be honest with him, about both subjects.
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I think that if you say something he is going to get mad and not talk to you yet if you dont say something then he will still get mad. The best thing is to let things go and not do anything. She may be trying to trick you into saying something so he wont be friends with you anymore so dont fall for it. You should wait until they break up and if that happens he will come to you for comfort. The best thing is to stay out of it so they cant blame you for what has happened.
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Whats more important, your friends feelings or arguing with an immature girl? Personaly, if I was in your situation I would tell him. I care about my friends and their feelings, and if you were his true friend you would tell him. If that girl starts crap with you tell her to grow up and that you don't care about what she says. She is really lame, and his girl friend is a b*tch. It might hurt his feelings, and he might not even belive you, but at the end he will know that you were there for him and that you were only trying to help him and nothing more.
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