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Used To Being 'Alone'.
I have wrote previous storys on here and this is a new one. I am so used to being by myself. Like I haven't dated in 5 years!!!! Im not a looser. I just don't like guys all around me. I like being alone. I have a boyfriend and I feel soo weird around him. Like ' Omg I can't stand him now, i just want to be friends'. I have always been like that. Its like the older I get the worser it gets. Its it just me or is it who i like. I have No idea. And if this helps. I have been very depressed latley.
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theres nothing wrong with being alone, and it sounds like its a little of who you like and you. if that makes since...
maybe you should just start hanging out with a different group of people, maybe then you'll find someone that you arent weird around.
and if you haven't already, break up with your boyfriend. if you are so weird around him, there isnt really a point in keeping him as a boyfriend.
is not having a boyfriend depressing you? because thats what it sounds like,
i hope i helped at least a little...it probly doesnt, but i hope it does..
rate on my advice please, not on anything else... someone gave me a three because of my age....
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Just to let you know, you're not alone. Alot of people push away the ones that love them because they don't know how to deal with attention and thats because of depression problems. Don't push him away...if he loves you he is going to give you your space but he is also going to feel a bit strange and unloved if you keep steppin on some toes. If he tries to figure out what is wrong with you and what is making you push him away its only because he cares so give him a chance!
I hope I helped...Good luck! =)
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Well, of course you aren't a loser. You don't have to be a girl gone crazy for guys to be worth something. It sounds a little bit like you push your boyfriend away before you try to even know or hang out with him. A lot of times, when people are usually alone, they tend to shut out to people and push away before somebody can even enter their lives. Try to talk to your boyfriend more, find something interest, go somewhere you like with him. I know you probably think you won't be able to take it, but you can break out of that lonliness and just be able to have another person around. Its really not that healthy to be alone a lot. That is why you feel depressed, you are just alone a lot. It will get worse if you just stay in, it won't solve those anti-social problems that make you upset. You have to try breaking out of your shell. And if not breaking, at least come out a little bit and just make yourself realize what you're missing. You don't have to go out with your boyfriend, go with a friend, get to know a friend better. Try something new, you'll probably notice one day or night you go out, you won't be depressed before you sleep, or for the rest of that day.
-TheTeenGirl
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