First things first: A relationship is based on communication and trust. He's doing neither; so right there, that's not good. What kind of personal things? If he says anything about your intimate moments or things you told him in confidence, or pretty much anything that makes you feel uncomfortable, that's a red flag that he cannot be trusted at all. When you confronted him, you said that he said he did not have any secrets, will, you even said yourself that when you went back to go check, it was all hidden. He obviously knows that you know and saw it. Let me tell you, a guys first reaction is to deny, deny, deny! Don't ask why...believe me, no one knows why. You're asking "if he didn't think this was wrong why did he hide it when I found out", to tell you the truth, he knows it's wrong. He knows very well what he's doing. If he didn't think it was wrong, he wouldn't have hid it from you. Why did he make this group in the first place? That's something I cannot answer because to me that is a very rude thing to do. A relationship is very personal and should only be shared between the two people in the relationship. How old are you both? If he's around the 13-18 area, I can tell you that men are just VERY immature at that age. They do the most stupid and idiotic things. However, that does NOT excuse him from doing this. You say you have no "proof". Yes you do! You yourself is proof enough. You saw it. Your bff saw it. Good enough. There's no need to show this boy proof of what you saw with your own eyes! Tell him how it made you feel and tell him it hurt you that he didn't come clean. Ask him why he created this group about your relationship. If he does start to deny it, you do what you feel is right. I cannot tell you whether or not to stay with him because that's solely your decision and yours only. If he comes clean, you, as his girlfriend, have every right to tell him to take it down because it makes you uncomfortable. If he refuses, again, it's all up to you. Your mature enough to have a boyfriend, your mature enough to make decisions about him. I understand why you're upset, I would be too. What he's doing is 100% wrong. No need to cry because in the end everything will work out, if not then "it's not the end." (:

Feel free to ask me any other questions you may have.
I hope I helped you!
Good luck!
(:

This sounds similar to a situation my friend's cousin was in. He had sex with a girl who said she was 18 (he was 25), it turns out the girl lied and she was 14. Girls these days pass off as being older because of makeup and maturity levels. The girls parents' found out and he was arrested and is now a registered sex offender :/. Don't mean to scare you...but, this happens all of the time. Now I'm going to tell you, get a LAWYER! DO NOT tell this girl you are getting one. Just go speak with one in your area (it's free) and tell him/her the situation...and please, again, DO NOT tell this girl anything. And DO NOT dump her yet, that may cause her to tell her parents and then your screwed. Unfortunately, the legal system favors girls in these type of situations. But, by getting a lawyer, you could be saving yourself. So, again, please DO NOT dump this girl yet, DO NOT have sex with her anymore (make up an excuse; it could be used against you later if you continue to have sex with her..), and DO NOT tell her your plans about getting a lawyer. Good luck! I feel so bad for guys like you...it's the girls' fault 100% yet your the one's that deal with the crap!

Message me if you need any help or anything else!

Just be who you are. I'm in the same position as you. Just like the person below me said, people view sex as a way of getting to know eachother these days. Which is totally wrong. What happend to getting to know a girl by learning her likes/dislikes, etc. What happend to courting a girl for a while until she was ready? You're in control of your own body! YOU only do what makes YOU comfortable. If you don't want to do something, then don't. Some guy's may not want to be with you because your not easy, and some will respect you. There are really good guys out there who respect women who don't just have sex with random guy's. It's a good quality, don't lose it!!! Believe me, most of those girls will regret it in the future when no guy wants to marry them because they've been around to everyone. Guy's grow out of it in mid 20's to early 30's (the normal one's at least..).

Sorry for taking long! I started school recently :( haha.

That's good that you stopped texting! That works on some guys (obviously this guy) because they hate being ignored to a point.. when you do it, they think about you a lot and end up texting you to see what's up/why you haven't texted.

Okayy well, he obviously does want you to say it first..don't know why though. With guys, they feel if they let any type of emotion out..their weak. Which is of course wrong, but hey, that's guy's for ya!
But anyway, it's possible he does like you and is too shy to say it. Or, maybe he doesn't. Too bad he won't tell you! Or you can just go through the old fashioned way and ask a friend to ask him.

However, since he did text you first that's a good sign! Another good sign: He talked about the past.
So, judging from that..it's possible he may have some feelings.

Your other inbox:
It's hard to forget the past. And, that doesn't make you stupid!
Believe me, I've been in your position before. You're neither stupid nor naive. You're just a normal teenage girl! I would say...about 95% of girls go through this all often haha.
But aww, yeah he seemed so sweet!
Honestly, there's not much more advice to give on these 2 inboxes. So, just make sure you make your decisions wise ones. And ALWAYS get to know someone before you have a relationship and/or friendship. You can also just weigh the Pro's and Con's of situations.

Fill me in on stuff that goes on :) haha
Thanks for the inboxes!
Have a good weekend!!

Oh man! I've had this problem so many times. It happens to everyone! Especially with guys.

Okay..from what I noticed..guy's tend not to respond back unless they feel they need and/or want to. Unlike girls, they don't care much for texting..which leads to them sometimes ignoring or not answering you.

My situation: I liked this guy..and he barely never texted me first..I always did it! It bothered me a lot. I'd tell him to text me first because I don't know if I'd be bothering him or not..he texted me first for like 2 days then stopped! I was so mad at him for doing this frequently. On top of that..he would often ignore me when I texted too. When I confronted him about the whole ignoring/not texting me first thing..he said "I don't have to text you all the time so get over it and don't be mad ok?" I was so mad..I just stopped talking to him for days. Wasn't he rude? The sad truth is..a lot of guy's are like that! And don't see any problem with it.

Here are a few links to yahoo sites that I looked at when I wanted answers too:
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20060724030117AAzs7lt
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20090820205836AAcG6jC

I don't agree with some people said about why men ignore texts..but it's just their opinions.

It may not mean he's mad, it may not mean he's not interested, it may not mean he's doing it to hurt you, and it may mean he just doesn't feel like talking at the moment. Whatever it is, just ASK! That's all you can do because believe me..you can't force them to text back, unfortunately.

Good luck, hope I helped! :). You don't sound dumb! Every girl in the world has these problems! Including me haha.

Feel free to ask more :)!

Hi :)!

Honestly, it's obvious why you would fall for it. So would I! And many other girls. I'm not going to say no..because, maybe he actually is sincere.

The reason why I really dont think you should believe him 100% is because of what went on in the past with him. I would suggest just to not get too emotionally attached to this type of guy. By doing that (With this guy only) it's going to lead to heartbreak. So, "keep your guard up" just a little! I'm not saying be completely closed and not tell him anything and don't believe him..because, that'd be horrible. Just keep it 50/50 with him!

Here's a site on "How To Spot A Player"..maybe it'll help, haha:
http://www.ehow.com/how_4930561_spot-a-player.html

Okay! No problem :) I'm going to answer your other question now!

Hey :)!

Well he is being very sweet towards you..which is, of course, great. However! Before, in the last advice thing, we talked about the whole sex thing. Basically, I know this may be what you don't want to hear..but..he may be doing it because he still wants to have sex. It's very rare a guy will give up easily. As I said, guy's will do anything to have sex.

Is he into you: I know this may seem stupid..but sometimes it helps a lot! Here are some sites that will give you a hint if he's REALLY into you or just your body:
http://ezinearticles.com/?Is-He-into-Me?-5-Proven-Ways-to-Find-Out&id=742557
http://www.yelp.com/topic/los-angeles-is-he-into-me-or-not
http://www.articlesbase.com/relationships-articles/is-he-into-me-know-the-little-clues-of-his-interest-1216527.html

And finally: This is called "Is he into me enough to go out with eachother or does he only just like me a little or as a friend?:
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20090818063213AALkPfL

When he said "No I can understand why he still loves you":
That's a sign of flirting. He's basically saying that you're wonderful enough to make him not stop loving you still. Again, he may be just doing this on purpose.

These situations are hard mainly because you don't know a guy's true intention. I think he'd be a good boyfriend if he matured and everything. If you do end up dating him sometime...make sure you make him WAIT for sex no matter what.

What can you do as of right now? Maybe ask him why he's being so nice, ask him about a relationship, ask him ANYTHING! Asking is the only way you'll understand because guy's can be quite good at hiding their true feelings and what they really want.

Don't be sorry!!I'm here to give advice haha.

Good luck, let me know what goes on :D

It seems he has a huge interest in you! The fact that you guys talked all night and felt comfortable with eachother, considering you just met, is great. The whole hair thing..is definitely cute! And is a sign of flirting. I know for a fact, he likes you!

Why'd he ask you if you had a boyfriend?: Because,again, he LIKES you! When a guy is direct and asks right away if you have one..then he definitely is showing an interest. That the simplest way I can explain it to you.

Same goes for asking you for your number. It just means he would like to further his time with you and get to know more about you.

Facebook: I've heard this so many times! It says he's "In A Relationship". There could be many explanations for that.
1) He could've gotten out of a relationship recently and forgot to change it (guy's aren't like girls..they don't update facebook and everything 24/7)
2) He could've simply just forgot!

Honestly, if he added you on facebook..it's common sense that when he added you, you'd look at his profile (Any smart guy would know that, haha). If he had a girlfriend and didn't want you to know, he would've hid that. Since he didn't, I highly doubt he has one. Also, he asked for your number AND walked you home...if he had a girlfriend, again, he'd try and hide it from you.

Why don't I think he has a girlfriend?: You said for me not to think he's a player. So, obviously, you didn't get that vibe from him. If he's a genuine guy and all..he wouldn't have a girlfriend and do all this.

What can you do?: To be 100% sure he doesn't have a girlfriend, ASK! Don't just look at facebook and think he has one right away. Text, call, or hang out with him and simply ask what's on your mind! I'm sure he'll clear it all up for you.


Hope I helped! :)
Good luck. Thankyou for the inbox.
Feel free to ask for anymore advice!

Thankyou! :).

Okayy. Honestly, seeing the commercials and having the dreams don't really mean anything. It's most likely a coincidence. Condom commercials are ALWAYS on! You're just paying more attention to the condom commercials now, because sex was brought up in a recent conversation.
The dream: Again, sex was brought up in a recent conversation..so your dream is just playing off of whatever you're thinking when you fall asleep! Here's a link to a site if you'd like to look up meanings of the dream though: http://www.dreammoods.com/dreamdictionary/
(Great site!)

I've read through what you wrote twice..and honestly, he's making it very obvious that ALL he wants is sex. He said from a 1-10 he gives you a 7? If he liked you as much as he say's he does..it wouldn't be a 7.

It's very good that you told him you're not interested in the friends with benefits stuff. However, he keeps trying to push the whole sex thing..which, I'm sure, is making you very uncomfortable. Tell him that! Make sure he knows you aren't comfortable with him pushing the whole sex thing. He's basically trying, in a non-force way, to convince you to have sex with him. Why? Because I'm sure he does like you! But, he's a young boy..what is he thinking about when he see's you? "She's a girl, She's hot, I'm horny, I'll do her." Haha. That's the extent of his thinking. And, in his mind you're playing hard to get, so it's VERY possible he just want's to be the guy who actually got you to do it, but that depends because not all guy's think like that. Just remember: Stick to what you believe in!!

Now, when you said "Can I bring a friend?"..he probably thinks that you all are going to have sex..why do I say that? Because he mentioned bringing a condom even after you said that. Which right away shows all he wants is sex.
Remember this: Guy's will tell you ANYTHING they think you want to hear just to have sex with you. Sounds desperate right? Well, that's how they are!

When he was saying he was going to kiss you and everything and you can slap him if he doesn't stop? I'm sorry..but that's weird! What did he mean when he said it'd be worth it? He meant that kissing you would just make him happy. Although, you already know he wants way more than that. "I just want you for some reason.." he wants you sexually, ONLY.

I agree with you on the whole not hanging out with him alone thing. That could cause not only the friendship to end..but it can cause you heartbreak. And even worse, he may even try to force himself on you because obviously this guy wants sex badly. So, be careful and always hang around public places with a bunch of people when/if you're around him. (Mall, Park, School, etc.)

If he keeps asking you to have sex with him..I strongly suggest that you limit your time talking to him, because I know you don't want to stop talking to him. And! I suggest that you make it very clear, even if you have to call him or see him to tell him, and make sure he knows you want a relationship before sex!

Good luck!
Feel free to inbox me to ask me anything else and/or tell me what happens haha.
:)

Don't be sorry! I'm here to help :D.

Asking him if he's a virgin is a good idea! Okay so basically..why didn't he answer the question directly? Because, if he is a virgin, most guy's feel "if im a virgin..she won't like me". Because for some reason, guy's feel girls want someone who is experienced and everything..which isn't always the case. So he probably wasn't sure how you'd feel if he IS one. Now if he isn't one, he's not sure how to answer either because he's thinking you may be mad that he's not one and think he's a bad person. However, judging from his answer..he's probably not a virgin and has been with some girls. Hopefully, not too many! Be careful with guy's who have had sex with a lot of girls..you never know what disease they could get from these girls, and then pass it on to you. When he said "im guessing you had sex with that one guy..." he was trying to change the subject. It's possible he felt uncomfortable? Or! He wanted to know if you were a virgin or not before he answered you. I don't like the fact that he said "you could've just asked me.." that's kind of saying "let's just have sex" because he never even mentioned that he wanted to be in a relationship with you in order to have sex. Which is someone you don't want! He's basically hinting that he wants to have sex with you throughout the whole entire conversation. If this does come up in another conversation, set him straight! Make sure he knows you're a virgin and you plan to stay that way until you're in a long-lasting relationship. Otherwise, he'll just think you're a "hook-up". And, since you like him, I'm sure that's not all you want. "i dont know not really.." is basically saying "I'm no virgin". So be careful with this guy..and try and find out his intentions with you.

You're a virgin: That's perfectly fine! That's actually the best thing to be. Virginity is considered basically like a precious gift! Which means, don't give it away to anyone who you don't LOVE! I'm a virgin myself, and I make it a point to tell my boyfriends that I'm not just going to be someone that they could just have sex with and leave. Which, of course, most guy's just want sex at young ages..so, it's hard to find a decent boyfriend haha. But believe me, there are some good ones out there. I was always told from a young age to only have sex when I'M ready and when I, again, LOVE the person. The first person you have sex with is going to be something you remember forever, so please don't waste it.

Overall: This guy is making it pretty known that he wants to have sex with you. I can't tell you what to do..but I strongly suggest sticking to what you believe and not having sex with him unless you guy's are in a long relationship. I understand you like this guy a lot! It doesn't mean you can't flirt with him or anything! But, he's obviously not looking for a long relationship, which is what you want. Don't settle for less than what you want! Even if that means losing someone you like a lot. As I said before, this doesn't mean you guy's can't be really good friends and possibly, when he's more mature in the future and ready for a long relationship, be together. Just TRY it! Don't expect to get over him in a matter of a day..believe me, it won't happen. Maybe try looking around for other guy's if you'd like?

Hope I helped :)
Good luck!
Thankyou for the inbox! Feel free to ask anymore questions you may have :)

Honestly, just come right out and say it!
There's nothing wrong with being a virgin. Most guy's even prefer that. You can do what the person below me said to do..or one day when you feel the time is right, and you want to have sex. Just before you do, just flat out tell him you're a virgin. Nothing wrong with it at all :)

Hope I helped!

First of all, all you did was hug him? Not a big deal.
I can understand it bothers you that her ex always wants to hang out with her. But, it's possible he looks at him and her as being really good friends now. The problem here is all just jealousy.
Sit her down, and TALK! Communcation is the most important thing in a relationship.
Tell her how you feel about her ex. Make sure she knows it bothers you when he always wants to hang out with her. Make sure you explain everything you're feeling though, so she understands.
Then bring up what happend when you were drunk. And explain to her that you feel she always goes to her ex's all the time, and (if this is how you feel) the hugging wasn't a big deal and didn't mean anything. And just tell her you're sorry and you didn't mean to upset her.
I'm sure once you guy's talk, it'll all be fine :)

Good luck, hope I helped!

It's okay. These things are always hard!
He said he wasn't ready for a relationship with you at the moment. Which means, the friends option is the best for now. Don't push it, because, he'll hurt you again.
I'm sure he really does like you a lot! And it's good he told you that he realizes what he did was wrong and all. But, again..he's young. This will most likely happen again. I think the smartest thing to do would be to just stay friend and still keep your eyes open for any other nice guy's you may like. I'm not saying forget about this guy. I know it's really hard to do that. I would tell you to wait for him, because you obviously have a lot of feelings for him still. But, that's wrong. You shouldn't wait for anybody. That causes more heartbreak than anything!
So, I'm not going to tell you what to do. It's your choice.
If you'd rather just keep it as friends and move on, then do that! There's nothing wrong with being just friends.
Or, if you'd rather be friends now and wait for this guy to be ready and learn not to cheat, then do that if it's truly what you want. But, I must warn you..I've also been through this before. It's not easy at all. And it doesn't always mean the feelings will stay, that's why waiting for someone is so risky.

If I were you in this situation: I'd tell him that you both can remain friends for now. I would, if the option came up, date other people. And hey, if you're single one day..and he is too (and he's changed) then why not go for it?!

Just please, if you really want to be with him, wait until you are 100% sure he will remain faithful to you!

Here's a few links that may help you out. It's basically all about "Should I take him back?":
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20090821173606AA7ZGS8
http://lifestyle.msn.com/relationships/articlecosmo.aspx?cp-documentid=11839418
http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/33695

Good luck, Hope I helped :).
Feel free to inbox me if you need anymore advice!

Hi again! haha. Thankyou :).

Okay well! The whole phone thing..I would believe him too..because it is 100% possible his phone could just suck! I've been in the same situations with people and that's usually the case.

It's good he finally called you and apologized. You deserve that. Guy's, especially when they do stuff wrong and get caught, apologize like there's no tommorow because they feel guilty! I'm not saying he doesn't feel bad at all, because I'm sure he does. But, he's cheatied on another girl in the past..so this may be something he's used to. Due to everything that you've said about this guy..there's just still things about him I'd be careful about:
1)He obviously can't be faithful.
2)You can't trust him.
And 3) Being with him = Heartbreak.

I know it sucks, believe me..I've been in these situations all the time! He'll definitely mature and possibly change eventually..but, right now in his life, he is too intersted in seeing what's out there to just be with ONE girl. It's sad how these boy's act..

It is very nice he said you're the nicest and sweetest girl he had ever met. And I'm sure he does think you're both of those things!..but, I must warn you..it is very possible he just said it out of guilt. Guy's will do anything to get rid of their guilt. It's extremely understandable that you still like this guy. These type of things just don't go away. As I said in my last answer, the relationship ended so fast..you didn't get answers, you weren't told why he did it, you basically weren't told anything! In relationships, sometimes you need the "closure" after a break up. For example, I had a boyfriend for a few months, we ended up having a HUGE fight..and ended on bad terms. It turns out he cheated on me and lied about a lot..I never even knew. He basically ignored me after the break up. I never got answers..so basically I never got my closure. Which leads to me, every so often, wondering what went wrong and to me thinking about him.
Why is closure important to some people? It "set's you free" so to speak. It basically let's you know what went wrong so the relationship and the guy don't linger in your head. Not everyone needs this though. How can you get this? It's up to you. I'm not telling you to, because, it's all your choice! I just figure this may help you feel better about it all. You can get closure by just simply asking him why he did it. I can't guarantee he'll give you an honest answer or even answer you..but it may help. Just an idea :).

Overall, I strongly suggest you pick the "Okay, we can be friends.. but if you think we're ever going to be more than that, you're wrong". Why? Because being with him will cause more heartbreak which I don't think you want. This guy obviously needs to, for some reason, be with more than one girl. He'll change eventually hopefully, but not anytime soon. I know it's going to be hard, but some things in life are hard to do. So, just be friends! You need to find a much nicer, faithful, guy. Believe me, there are some out there. Don't waste your time. But again..it's all up to you!

Good Luck.
Hope I helped :)
Thankyou for the inbox! Feel free to ask anymore advice!
:)

I'll give you a few tips to help you out with this guy :).

Tips on how to get him to notice you more:
-Smile and make eye contact!(You site behind him..so this will probably be easy. Just make eye contact and smile at him when he turns.)
-Establish communication (Say hi to him! Don't be shy. You even said yourself that you think he's a little shy. So, be the first one to just start the conversation)
-Become friends with him. (It will get you noticed and this often can lead to a serious relationship)
-And finally! Get to know him better. (When you do start talking to him, eventually, start finding out things about him! Ask him questions based on what you already know about him. However, I'm sure that's not much. So..just ask him the simple things first. Guy's don't like being asked TOO many questions. But, I'm sure they don't mind some. For example, ask him what his hobbies are, or his favorite things to do, what kind of music he likes,etc. Maybe even try doing some of the stuff he likes with him! Make sure you also add in some of your experiences that relates to what he's saying. What I mean is..if he say's he likes to swim or something..if you like doing similar things, tell him! This will make for good conversation and for you both to get to know eachother.)

Yes, it is true..the first thing a guy notices is how you look. However, you said you're pretty and new to the school, so it's possible that's why he's looking at you. But, of course, I don't know him so I wouldn't know how he is with girls. The only way you can truly find out if he likes you is to get to know him. I'm sure once you do all this, you'll figure it out. It does seem like he does have an interest though, especially because he turns often to look at you. I'm sure it'll all go great!

Here's a link to a site that may help you figure out if he likes you:
http://wiki.answers.com/Q/How_can_you_tell_if_a_girl_or_a_guy_likes_you

Good luck, Hope I helped :)

Hi :).

Boys often give mixed signals so it can tend to be kind of hard to know if they REALLY do like you. However, I'll give you some ways you can tell if he does have an interest in you.

How can you tell if a boy likes you?:
-He will look at you and when you catch him, he'll look away.
-He'll text/call you on his own if you did it first.
-Make up excuses to talk to you.
-Find ways to be around you.
-He may even pretend to like someone else.
-Become your friend.
-Be playful with you.
-Try to make you laugh often and/or feel better.
Here's a link for more:
http://www.articlesbase.com/dating-articles/how-to-tell-if-a-guy-likes-you-five-signs-hes-interested-320593.html

Here's a link to a fact sheet stating how to get to know a guy you like:
http://www.ehow.com/how_2258936_get-know-guy.html

Good luck, Hope I helped :)
Thankyou for the inbox!

As they say...once a cheater, always a cheater. I'm soo sorry he did this to you though :(. Honestly, he's never going to change. I understand you want to talk to him because the relationship ended so fast..but, I doubt he'll talk to you. He's (in all honesty) being a jerk. He won't answer your calls or texts. I would say, if possible, try and talk to him in person. That's the best way to do it.

Is he blocking your number?: Most likely, he did.

Here's links to a few sites that may help you see if he did actually block you or not!:
http://www.digitalspy.co.uk/forums/showthread.php?p=9728789
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20081210204153AAocRCd
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20080913141428AAYvf4H

After reading a few of these myself..I'm pretty sure he may have blocked you. However, I don't know for sure. It's possible his cell phone service sucks. You never know. If it's at all possible..try and get your friend to ask him why he's ignoring you. Hopefully he'll tell her.

The cheating thing: He's lying to you. He knows what he did. The first step when a guy gets caught is to DENY! Every guy denies something they did. I don't know why, but they do. Ever hear that song "It wasn't me" by Shaggy?..that's exactly how they are. haha. Not very smart. I'm guessing he's close to your age? Basically, guy's (especially younger ones) like to "play the field". It's possible he just wants a "good time" sort of thing. It's rude..but, that's how some of them are.

You're 15 though, I didn't even have a boyfriend when I was 15. I waited until I turned 16. You're not going to find a perfect guy in High School. If you do, congratulations! haha. All you can do is just look around, get to know a guy, and make sure he remains faithful to you! Don't date those player guy's..they are NEVER faithful!

Good luck, hope I helped :)

Honestly, it shouldn't matter how you appeared that day haha. It's not like you were going to a fashion show..he needs to get over it (if it bothered him!).

Usually, guy's don't care if they see a girl without make-up. I'm sure you didn't look horrible. Guy's even say they prefer girls who don't wear a lot of make up on their faces.

He asked if you would have sex with him? Yeah..it's easy to tell he wants to have a "good time", especially at the age of 16! I'm 16 myself, and the guy's in my school..they are always looking for an easy way to get sex, and they're very immature. It's great you told him no though!

I'm not saying ALL he wanted to do was have sex with you. Because, I don't know him and he probably does like you.

It's possible he hasn't texted you and/or called you because he's busy, doesn't feel like it, too lazy, not sure what to say, etc. It's even possible he wants you to make the first move! Who knows. So many excuses guy's come up with!

Should you talk first? Well #1: he SHOULD talk to you, even if you didn't text first. It shouldn't matter. It's very rude of him to not even say anything to you. Now, I'm not sure if you usually text/call first but if you do..then don't text him or anything. Wait for him. However, you can send a text saying "are you alive" (sarcastic). I did that to my guy friend who randomly stopped talking to me. It worked haha.
Now, if you sometimes text him first and he sometimes texts you first (which makes it like an equal thing..) then either you can text first and just be like "Hey, how are you?" or you'll have to wait for him..
If he ignores you, forget about him!

So basically, it's up to you. Depending on who usually texts first..that's how you can make your decision.

Or you can just make it easy and text him a simple "hello" haha.

Good luck, hope I helped :)
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At first, it seems that he may be a bit interested because he asked you if you had a boyfriend. However, when you asked..and he said no and that he isn't looking for one..that just shows you that he's not interested in a realtionship. That doesn't mean he's not interested in you though!

It's quite confusing especially since his nephew said he liked you. But, you can never listen to anyone but the guy himself.

I wouldn't get involved with this guy just yet...maybe wait until he's READY for a relationship. Why? Because he obviously has no intentions to have a girlfriend at the moment..if he does continue to show an interest..it may be only for sex. Now, I'm not saying that's all he wants because I don't know the guy! But, from experience, that's usually what guy's want if they show an interst in you..but don't want a relationship.

Be careful of those type of guy's. They usually end up breaking your heart.

If you are up to it, you can just straight out ask him if he likes you. That's the simplest way this all can be solved. It's wonderful if he does like you..but I wouldn't get my hopes up. You can go up to him and say "Can I ask you something?" He'll answer...and you can say "Your nephew told me you liked me..is it true?" Or something like that! Just a suggestion.

With guys, the best thing to do is just to be honest and tell them how you feel!

Good luck, hope I helped :)

First of all, don't ever tell anyone you will wait for them! Especially when they are in a relationship! You already said you know that he likes her more than you, so why would you wait for him when you could be with somebody? Talk to this guy and tell him that you're going to, of course, date other people. But, if he's single and your single..then it may happen.

The other guy who doesn't want your friends telling you: it's pretty obvious he likes you! However, dating someone to get his mind off of you? Um, yeah, not a good idea haha. I've been in your situation a lot. It's possible he's just too nervous and shy to ask you out! So, try talking to him and, if you have feelings for him, tell him you do. Guy's can't mind read! It makes it so simple just to straight out tell him how you feel. And, hopefully, he'll realize he doesn't have strong feelings for his girlfriend like he does for you (if that's true).

YOU'RE 14! You're not going to find "mr.right". When you're young, you need to date a few guys so you can figure out who your mr.right really is! It's hard to find a really good guy in high school. All they really want at a young age is sex. So, the best advice I could give you is to make sure you get to know these guys and/or any guys you ever want to date before you do anything with them. I see too many younger girls hurt because their boyfriend cheat on them.

Good qualities you can look for in a guy?:
-Great sense of humor.
-Faithful/Loyal (very important!)
-Respects you.
-Good communication skills! (also, very important!)
-Affectionate/Caring.
-Appreciative and Forgiving.
-Confident.
And finally!
-Loves YOU for YOU!

Good luck, hope I helped :)

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