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player, liar, cheater. part5.
okaay this is getting baddd.
and to top it all of yesterday i swore i saw at leaat twenty condom commercials in one day. and if thats a sign i'm screwed, oh and i had a dream that his mom walked in on us doing it (his mom works at my school) and the next day i went to school and she suspended me for having sex with her son. baaaaad dream.
okay so last night we were texting again and it turns out he's done it once. now i've told him time and time again that if were not going out NOTHING is going to happen. he clearly doesn't understand. and i've told him that i don't do friends with benefits and he was like well i could be your only one and i was like i dont think so. so we were talking and i he wanted to know something and i wouldn't tell him so he goes just do it come on i mean i already told you i would have sex with you now just tell me something and i was like you would? why? and he goes why not i mean i like you and i just would. and i go well maybe we should stop talking or not be friends because you clearly just want sex and he goes no i still want to be your friend thats more important. and then later we were talking about hanging out and he goes totally, what do you want to do and i go hmm i dunno and he goes :) ill bring a condom and i go oh my jesus and he was like is that a ok ill be waiting? and i go not exactly and i go why do you want me to do it with you so bad and he goes cause i wanna thats why.....its ok i can just not i mean it was an idea thats all and then he goes im just saying im gona kiss you and keep on kissing you and isk what happens from there you can slap me or something but it would be work it (WHAT THE HECK?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!??! WHAT DOES HE MEAN IT WILL BE WORTH IT?!?!?! AHHHH) AND AHHH he starting to creep me out and i go can i bring my friend and he goes uhh if you want..... so do i still bring a condom? and i go i already said were not doing it! especially in public! and he goes well lets go to my house and i go fuck that and he goes how about the mall in the dressing room
wow hes fucking stupid.
and i go why do you want ME, i'm nothing special REALLY! and he goes ya you are and i go whatever dont lie to me but seriously why?! and he goes im not lying and cause idk i just want you for some reason.
and that was it because i fell asleep.
but ya i'm screwed and i'm definetly not going ANYWHERE with him ALONE. soooo help?
and btw earlier i had asked him how much he liked me from 1-10 and he goes 7 maybe more.
hes really starting to make me mad.
and please dont tell tell me to stop talking to him or something like that because i really cant, i've tried time after time. and also you've said you can't tell me what to do, but i just want your advice and opinions because its really been helping me and you've been doing a great job(:
so h e l p?
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Okayy. Honestly, seeing the commercials and having the dreams don't really mean anything. It's most likely a coincidence. Condom commercials are ALWAYS on! You're just paying more attention to the condom commercials now, because sex was brought up in a recent conversation.
The dream: Again, sex was brought up in a recent conversation..so your dream is just playing off of whatever you're thinking when you fall asleep! Here's a link to a site if you'd like to look up meanings of the dream though: [Link](Mouse over link to see full location)
(Great site!)
I've read through what you wrote twice..and honestly, he's making it very obvious that ALL he wants is sex. He said from a 1-10 he gives you a 7? If he liked you as much as he say's he does..it wouldn't be a 7.
It's very good that you told him you're not interested in the friends with benefits stuff. However, he keeps trying to push the whole sex thing..which, I'm sure, is making you very uncomfortable. Tell him that! Make sure he knows you aren't comfortable with him pushing the whole sex thing. He's basically trying, in a non-force way, to convince you to have sex with him. Why? Because I'm sure he does like you! But, he's a young boy..what is he thinking about when he see's you? "She's a girl, She's hot, I'm horny, I'll do her." Haha. That's the extent of his thinking. And, in his mind you're playing hard to get, so it's VERY possible he just want's to be the guy who actually got you to do it, but that depends because not all guy's think like that. Just remember: Stick to what you believe in!!
Now, when you said "Can I bring a friend?"..he probably thinks that you all are going to have sex..why do I say that? Because he mentioned bringing a condom even after you said that. Which right away shows all he wants is sex.
Remember this: Guy's will tell you ANYTHING they think you want to hear just to have sex with you. Sounds desperate right? Well, that's how they are!
When he was saying he was going to kiss you and everything and you can slap him if he doesn't stop? I'm sorry..but that's weird! What did he mean when he said it'd be worth it? He meant that kissing you would just make him happy. Although, you already know he wants way more than that. "I just want you for some reason.." he wants you sexually, ONLY.
I agree with you on the whole not hanging out with him alone thing. That could cause not only the friendship to end..but it can cause you heartbreak. And even worse, he may even try to force himself on you because obviously this guy wants sex badly. So, be careful and always hang around public places with a bunch of people when/if you're around him. (Mall, Park, School, etc.)
If he keeps asking you to have sex with him..I strongly suggest that you limit your time talking to him, because I know you don't want to stop talking to him. And! I suggest that you make it very clear, even if you have to call him or see him to tell him, and make sure he knows you want a relationship before sex!
Good luck!
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