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hi im 15/m
i have bad luck and bad experience with meeting girls. i always say the wrong thing and never end up with any girl. I only do if im lucky.
the problem is to get girls to like me. im not ugly or fat, im just an average looking guy, i dont know what my problem is. ..
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I believe you shouldnt change who you are for anything. It's who you are! and that's what makes you!. I think you just have to keep on trying and don't give up. Everyone is bound to face rejection but that should be taken as a lesson to move on to better things. Just because you are shy doesnt mean that there are not girls for you out there. Of course you should practice self confidence because one should always feel proud of who they are and show it off to the world. But it's ok to be a bit shy as well. You will find that you will end finding a girl who loves anything about you even that you are shy. Being in a relationship also helps with this, the more you become comfortable around girls, the more you will feel no need to be extra shy around them. Just keep practicing and don't give up because if you do, you are only hurting yourself and the chances of finding that girl that's meant for you.
Good luck!:)
Sujayne Hernandez
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awe, the girl below me is so right! Except for one thing, not all girls dislike shy guys XD. My friend loves when guys are shy. The real trick is to just play up what you are and broadcast yourself the best way you possibly can. Are you infact shy? Well you can play it up,by being sweet and playful. Are you clumsy and weird? Embrace it, Confident and Outgoing? Well obviously you get the idea. Theres a girl out there for any one of these personalities. You don't have to be someone your not. Of course confidence will help you, i don't disagree with that at all! You have to love yourself before you can love someone else XD. Get to know them, and don't be afraid of rejection. If it happens, shrug it off and think of it as an experience. Don't be afraid to tell a girl your interested either, i mean, you'll never know if they are unless you try! You could be missing out :P, and again if it doesnt work out,at least you can say you tried,and just shrug it off.You can't give up! Show your personality and think of these bad experiences as a joke, something you can look back and laugh at! Make sure you want to be with someone for the right reasons of course. Don't just try to get a girl for the sake of having one, you gotta' be into them. Take time to get to know them and them to get to know you. Okay i feel like i'm babbling now XD. If you need any more advice on this just drop one in my inbox and i'll be happy to help more! good luck :)
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You're problem is that you are lacking confidence in yourself. Girls don't like shy guys. You need to find your security blanket and use it to your benefit. If you think you are hott, and actually look like you know what your doing girls will be all over you. Try walking up to a group of girls (as nerve racking as it may seem) and give them a flashy/confident smile. Then walk off confident as ever. Trust me, they WILL take notice. Good luck!
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