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player, liar, cheater. part6.


Question Posted Thursday September 10 2009, 5:08 pm

heey, i'm back!
well out of no where i texted him saying hey can you describe me in three words and he said
best friend ever
ha, weirdddddd!
well okay so i've tried SO HARD to not to him. well lets name him bob. i've told myself over and over again that i should stop talking to bob for a while. but it never works, i give in to temptation. well yesterday i texted him (of course) and we were talking about this haunted house thing at this place near us that happens all of october. and i was like i wanna go but i'm too scared (which is VERY true) and he was like well ill go with you and i was like im scared! and he goes you dont gotta be if im there and i go ha are you sure about that and he goes positive and i go why? and he goes cause and i go cause why and he goes cause i wouldnt let anything happen to you. and i was like aw good to know and he goes ya. and that was it. AHHHHHHHHH!!
well then i was telling him about this guy i went out with in the first of the summer and then i broke up with him and how he's STILL not over me now and i also put isn't that horrible?! and what does bob say? he says no i can understand why he still loves you

WTF what does he mean by that?! ugh
please help me as much as possible
and im sorry to keep having these problems lol


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jm93 answered Thursday September 10 2009, 6:53 pm:
Hey :)!

Well he is being very sweet towards you..which is, of course, great. However! Before, in the last advice thing, we talked about the whole sex thing. Basically, I know this may be what you don't want to hear..but..he may be doing it because he still wants to have sex. It's very rare a guy will give up easily. As I said, guy's will do anything to have sex.

Is he into you: I know this may seem stupid..but sometimes it helps a lot! Here are some sites that will give you a hint if he's REALLY into you or just your body:
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And finally: This is called "Is he into me enough to go out with eachother or does he only just like me a little or as a friend?:
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When he said "No I can understand why he still loves you":
That's a sign of flirting. He's basically saying that you're wonderful enough to make him not stop loving you still. Again, he may be just doing this on purpose.

These situations are hard mainly because you don't know a guy's true intention. I think he'd be a good boyfriend if he matured and everything. If you do end up dating him sometime...make sure you make him WAIT for sex no matter what.

What can you do as of right now? Maybe ask him why he's being so nice, ask him about a relationship, ask him ANYTHING! Asking is the only way you'll understand because guy's can be quite good at hiding their true feelings and what they really want.

Don't be sorry!!I'm here to give advice haha.

Good luck, let me know what goes on :D

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