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Hey,
I met this guy the other night, we were all hanging out at my friends apartment. Anyway, I met this guy and we were talking the whole night. I walked to my friends apartment because it was only like 3 blocks away from where I live. As I was telling everyone I was leaving the guy I was talking to said he was walking me back because he didn't think it was right/safe for me to walk back by myself at 2:00 in the morning. (which I thought was very nice of him considering we just met) So once we got back to my place we just started talking and we were talking for about 2 hours. Like really communicating and just talking about a lot of stuff. I felt like we had an instant connection. He asked if he could have my number and I gave it to him. He also asked me if I had a boyfriend. I said that I didn't, and he said "well why not?" and I laughed and said "I don't know." Then he just smiled. As he was getting ready to leave, we hugged goodbye. About 10-20 minutes later I get a text and it was him saying that he was home and that he had a good time tonight and it was nice meeting me. I said that I had a good time too and that it was nice meeting him as well.
Anyway, he friended me on facebook, and I noticed he was in a relationship. :( And now I don't know what to do. I don't want to break him and his girlfriend up because that's is NOT right. But I feel like we had a connection that could lead somewhere.
I really don't know what I'm asking. Haha, I guess I just don't know why he was asking if I was in a relationship/for my number if he has a girlfriend.
I'd rather not have you say he is a player because he wasn't trying to get in my pants or do anything like that.
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It seems he has a huge interest in you! The fact that you guys talked all night and felt comfortable with eachother, considering you just met, is great. The whole hair thing..is definitely cute! And is a sign of flirting. I know for a fact, he likes you!
Why'd he ask you if you had a boyfriend?: Because,again, he LIKES you! When a guy is direct and asks right away if you have one..then he definitely is showing an interest. That the simplest way I can explain it to you.
Same goes for asking you for your number. It just means he would like to further his time with you and get to know more about you.
Facebook: I've heard this so many times! It says he's "In A Relationship". There could be many explanations for that.
1) He could've gotten out of a relationship recently and forgot to change it (guy's aren't like girls..they don't update facebook and everything 24/7)
2) He could've simply just forgot!
Honestly, if he added you on facebook..it's common sense that when he added you, you'd look at his profile (Any smart guy would know that, haha). If he had a girlfriend and didn't want you to know, he would've hid that. Since he didn't, I highly doubt he has one. Also, he asked for your number AND walked you home...if he had a girlfriend, again, he'd try and hide it from you.
Why don't I think he has a girlfriend?: You said for me not to think he's a player. So, obviously, you didn't get that vibe from him. If he's a genuine guy and all..he wouldn't have a girlfriend and do all this.
What can you do?: To be 100% sure he doesn't have a girlfriend, ASK! Don't just look at facebook and think he has one right away. Text, call, or hang out with him and simply ask what's on your mind! I'm sure he'll clear it all up for you.
Hope I helped! :)
Good luck. Thankyou for the inbox.
Feel free to ask for anymore advice!
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