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player, liar, cheater. part4.
ahhhhhhhhhh
so much has happened between me and him/:
like last night we were texting all night and i was like are you a virgin? and he didn't answer me but he was like i knew you were gonna ask that! and i'm guessing you had sex with that one guy right (i didn't, long story) wow and you barely knew him, you could have just asked me. and i was like what is that supposed to mean?! and he was like think about it and i was like so now you think i wanna have sex with you?! and he was like i never said that and i was like but do you think that and he was like i dont know do you and i was like do i what? and he was like do you wanna do it and i was with you? and he was like ya and i was like i dont know do you? and he was like if you want [so basically we'll have sex if i want to?! idk] and he was like well just let me know and i was like but we're not even going out so we shouldn't even be talking about this and he was like why and i was like we'll if were not going out NOTHING is going to happen and he was like well what if we were and i was like then its a possibility (but thats only if were going out like a year and stuff WITH NO CHEATING and his longest relationship was about a month) and sooo i was like you never answered my question about being a virgin or not and he goes what do you think and im like im guessing your notttt and he goes idk not really......
then i fell asleep on him
AHHHHHHHHH I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO BECAUSE I STILL LIKE HIM?!?!?!!
halp? once again.
sorry/:
btw im a virgin.
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Asking him if he's a virgin is a good idea! Okay so basically..why didn't he answer the question directly? Because, if he is a virgin, most guy's feel "if im a virgin..she won't like me". Because for some reason, guy's feel girls want someone who is experienced and everything..which isn't always the case. So he probably wasn't sure how you'd feel if he IS one. Now if he isn't one, he's not sure how to answer either because he's thinking you may be mad that he's not one and think he's a bad person. However, judging from his answer..he's probably not a virgin and has been with some girls. Hopefully, not too many! Be careful with guy's who have had sex with a lot of girls..you never know what disease they could get from these girls, and then pass it on to you. When he said "im guessing you had sex with that one guy..." he was trying to change the subject. It's possible he felt uncomfortable? Or! He wanted to know if you were a virgin or not before he answered you. I don't like the fact that he said "you could've just asked me.." that's kind of saying "let's just have sex" because he never even mentioned that he wanted to be in a relationship with you in order to have sex. Which is someone you don't want! He's basically hinting that he wants to have sex with you throughout the whole entire conversation. If this does come up in another conversation, set him straight! Make sure he knows you're a virgin and you plan to stay that way until you're in a long-lasting relationship. Otherwise, he'll just think you're a "hook-up". And, since you like him, I'm sure that's not all you want. "i dont know not really.." is basically saying "I'm no virgin". So be careful with this guy..and try and find out his intentions with you.
You're a virgin: That's perfectly fine! That's actually the best thing to be. Virginity is considered basically like a precious gift! Which means, don't give it away to anyone who you don't LOVE! I'm a virgin myself, and I make it a point to tell my boyfriends that I'm not just going to be someone that they could just have sex with and leave. Which, of course, most guy's just want sex at young ages..so, it's hard to find a decent boyfriend haha. But believe me, there are some good ones out there. I was always told from a young age to only have sex when I'M ready and when I, again, LOVE the person. The first person you have sex with is going to be something you remember forever, so please don't waste it.
Overall: This guy is making it pretty known that he wants to have sex with you. I can't tell you what to do..but I strongly suggest sticking to what you believe and not having sex with him unless you guy's are in a long relationship. I understand you like this guy a lot! It doesn't mean you can't flirt with him or anything! But, he's obviously not looking for a long relationship, which is what you want. Don't settle for less than what you want! Even if that means losing someone you like a lot. As I said before, this doesn't mean you guy's can't be really good friends and possibly, when he's more mature in the future and ready for a long relationship, be together. Just TRY it! Don't expect to get over him in a matter of a day..believe me, it won't happen. Maybe try looking around for other guy's if you'd like?
Hope I helped :)
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