Question Posted Thursday September 10 2009, 7:54 pm
ya know what really bothers me about him?
is the fact that i always text him first. i know that sounds dumb, but it's true. and i don't know why i do, i just kinda give in to temptation. and i hate how a little less than half the time he doesn't reply back. now i know he could be busy and stuff, but still! i find time. i just HATEEEEE when he doesn't reply. it makes me so mad. lol sorry i sound stupid. and i also really hate is when i tell him stuff like in details (kinda) he just puts ok.
or when i ask him why on stuff he just puts idk.
i hate itttt!
why do you think he does that???
again, thanks and sorry i sound dumb!!
haha (:
Okay..from what I noticed..guy's tend not to respond back unless they feel they need and/or want to. Unlike girls, they don't care much for texting..which leads to them sometimes ignoring or not answering you.
My situation: I liked this guy..and he barely never texted me first..I always did it! It bothered me a lot. I'd tell him to text me first because I don't know if I'd be bothering him or not..he texted me first for like 2 days then stopped! I was so mad at him for doing this frequently. On top of that..he would often ignore me when I texted too. When I confronted him about the whole ignoring/not texting me first thing..he said "I don't have to text you all the time so get over it and don't be mad ok?" I was so mad..I just stopped talking to him for days. Wasn't he rude? The sad truth is..a lot of guy's are like that! And don't see any problem with it.
I don't agree with some people said about why men ignore texts..but it's just their opinions.
It may not mean he's mad, it may not mean he's not interested, it may not mean he's doing it to hurt you, and it may mean he just doesn't feel like talking at the moment. Whatever it is, just ASK! That's all you can do because believe me..you can't force them to text back, unfortunately.
Good luck, hope I helped! :). You don't sound dumb! Every girl in the world has these problems! Including me haha.
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