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player, liar, cheater. part2.
hi!
the answer you left me was good(:
well two nights ago guess what happened?
he called me.
yep! he said his phone has been jacked up and he never blocked my number ( i think i believe him )
and oh geez he apologized sooo many times! it was unbelievable. and i was like i don't know what to say and he was like you don't have to say anything i'm sorry(x1000) and he was like i should be buying you presents and taking you places. (wtf??) ha so he said he was crying over that. and he wanted to know if we could at least be friend and he said if not he would ball. and theres this other girl he's been in love with forever and he said he would rather lose her than me. and he said i was the nicest, sweetest girl he has ever met. i don't know what to do! i mean i think i still like him/: unfortunatly and im thinking its either gonna have to be:
okay, we can be friends but if you think were ever gonna be more than that, your wrong.
OR
okay, we can be friends but if you think were ever gonna be more than that your gonna have to work suuuuper hard.
eh this is so hard!!!!!
help?
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Hi again! haha. Thankyou :).
Okay well! The whole phone thing..I would believe him too..because it is 100% possible his phone could just suck! I've been in the same situations with people and that's usually the case.
It's good he finally called you and apologized. You deserve that. Guy's, especially when they do stuff wrong and get caught, apologize like there's no tommorow because they feel guilty! I'm not saying he doesn't feel bad at all, because I'm sure he does. But, he's cheatied on another girl in the past..so this may be something he's used to. Due to everything that you've said about this guy..there's just still things about him I'd be careful about:
1)He obviously can't be faithful.
2)You can't trust him.
And 3) Being with him = Heartbreak.
I know it sucks, believe me..I've been in these situations all the time! He'll definitely mature and possibly change eventually..but, right now in his life, he is too intersted in seeing what's out there to just be with ONE girl. It's sad how these boy's act..
It is very nice he said you're the nicest and sweetest girl he had ever met. And I'm sure he does think you're both of those things!..but, I must warn you..it is very possible he just said it out of guilt. Guy's will do anything to get rid of their guilt. It's extremely understandable that you still like this guy. These type of things just don't go away. As I said in my last answer, the relationship ended so fast..you didn't get answers, you weren't told why he did it, you basically weren't told anything! In relationships, sometimes you need the "closure" after a break up. For example, I had a boyfriend for a few months, we ended up having a HUGE fight..and ended on bad terms. It turns out he cheated on me and lied about a lot..I never even knew. He basically ignored me after the break up. I never got answers..so basically I never got my closure. Which leads to me, every so often, wondering what went wrong and to me thinking about him.
Why is closure important to some people? It "set's you free" so to speak. It basically let's you know what went wrong so the relationship and the guy don't linger in your head. Not everyone needs this though. How can you get this? It's up to you. I'm not telling you to, because, it's all your choice! I just figure this may help you feel better about it all. You can get closure by just simply asking him why he did it. I can't guarantee he'll give you an honest answer or even answer you..but it may help. Just an idea :).
Overall, I strongly suggest you pick the "Okay, we can be friends.. but if you think we're ever going to be more than that, you're wrong". Why? Because being with him will cause more heartbreak which I don't think you want. This guy obviously needs to, for some reason, be with more than one girl. He'll change eventually hopefully, but not anytime soon. I know it's going to be hard, but some things in life are hard to do. So, just be friends! You need to find a much nicer, faithful, guy. Believe me, there are some out there. Don't waste your time. But again..it's all up to you!
Good Luck.
Hope I helped :)
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