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Well Hello everyone.My Name is Bridgette Martinez.i have not bee on this Website in a million years.But newayys.im 15 years old.living in a little town called c-town.im a freshmann at wnhs.i have a wonderfull boyfriend.his names is stephen.he is the most awesomestt boyfriend ever.i love him with my lifee.my familyy is the most awesome thing everr.i love my mom with my life.. : ).and then theres my hobbys.!i love to get on myspaceee. : )its addictingg.if you wanna add me on myspace my account is myspace.com/pinkroks
loveee you guyyysss.
try and ask me some questions if you want.ill get back to yuhh.loveee : )



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Hi i'm kaytee and this is my story: well i got my boyfriend last summer and im seriously in love! ever sice school started things have changed...almost every boy at my school says im hot and sexy, how they wanty me and how they would die to do me..its because my breast size changed and all that....well when my bf finds out he gets furious and he blames it on me! sometimes he gets so mad that he'll hit me and sexually abuse me (even though i do have a sex life w/ him) anyway sometimes it gets really serious and i know that breaking up w/him is not an option. even thought he does this i would never break up w/ him because i love him to death and i know he loves me..he does this because he always wants me and wants me to keep me forever. and also i know that he has anger mangement but id still rather be w/ him than break up you could just suggest things i can say it would be a HUGE help..thank you!
xoxo
kate

well your boyfriendneeds major help..and you need to get away fom him..he dont love you if he hits you and sexually abuses you..you might think he does it because he wants to keep you..but hes doing becasue hes jeaouls..and jeaoulsy is not a good thing. you might think your boyfriend wants you and hes only doing so he can help you and make you stay with him..but he needs help and you need to get away from him..well what you need to tell him that he needs to stop hitting you and tell him how you feel i know he wont understand but you might wanna try.i dont know wht to tell you..you can report abuse and they might do something..but if your okay with him doing this then you had no right to write this..im here to help you.you need to tel your mom or your dad and you just need to get away from him./.and when your away form him call the cops..my gosh do something to get him help!!and you please stay away form him..
hope i helped..
ilovepink101

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my friend wants me to get to know this guy that she knows through her boyfriend and i realy dont want to.. because he is totaly not my type
you dont have to read why but ill say any way

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i already know alot about this kid..
he was going out with a girl that i dont get along with for over a year and they would have sex like every day .. he also does drugs.. and besides those reasons he asked me to semi online and i dont even no him(never seen him or talked to him), and he was still going out with his girlfriend ..
he also IMs me all the time and talks to me like he wants to get to know me but guys that think they can get to know somebody online arent my type.. b.c the other day when i saw him it was realy awkward to be around someone i only talked online to..
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so my friend her boyfriend and the boy they are trying to hook me up with are all trying to make plans with me and him and trying to set us up but i dont no wat to say because i dont want to be with him like that and think i would be weird if i just hung out with them as friends... if you have ne opions on what i should do that would be great..

well you dont need a guy that does drugs and he is practally cheating on his girlfriend hes with now..well im sure you deserve much better..but maybe you and him can be friends..when you see him you shouild tell him that you dont want to be nothing more of friends..becasue you dont want a horn dog that wants to screw you everyday..and this sounds really weird becasue he doesnt even know you..its jsut sad that some boys just want girls because they sound really hot..because you said that he never meant you and he trys to talk to you on the internet..wel he sounds like a jerk..so you just try to stay friends with him..and you sound like a way better person then that!!you deserve alot better..
hope i helped..
love always,
ilovepink101>Bridgette

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Hey,
I need some help with flirting! I am a shy girl but I tend to over-act and get silly when I like someone. How can I flirt subtley and not just look like a prat?
To the guys: what do you like a girl to do when she flirts with you?

well you need to act like your self when your flirting with somebody..because if you like somebody you want them to like you for who you are..not the girl that flirts with the guys and acts weird..well when you flirt with somebody y ou wanna them to know that you like them but with out saying it in words you know what i mean..and you want to get that same vibe from them..and im sure the guys want t he girls to be them selves all the way..just just be your self and go out there and flirt..and that shy thing!!dont be shy in front of boys..there just boys..dont worry..like i said before be your self..
hope i helped..
love always,
ilovepink101>Bridgette

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I have a boyfriend who is really awesome. He is a year younger than me. His name is *Michael.* My freind always flirts with him and he flirts back. What should i do?

well you ned to talk to this boy..and if that girl is supost to be your so called "Friend" then shes doing a terrible job at being a friend..firends dont flirt with each others boy friends..and thats jubt not right..so you need tot ell her something like to cool it off with her flirting with your boyfriend..and tell her that he is taken now so she needs to realize that!!and you hsouild talk to yuor boyfriend.... and make him realize that what your feelings for him are true..and that you want to be wiht him..and if he doesnt want the same out of you then hes not worth it!! but you and that so called firnd of yours, yall need to get yall prioreties straight!!
*hope i helped*
Love Always,
ilovepink101>bridgette

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On sunda is my boyfriends little sisters birthday party. It will be the first time I have ever met his parents! I want them to know I am a really nice girl and that I love there son alot. What kind of things can I do to show them that I am really nice and that I will treat there son well. I love him and I want to be with him for ever!

wel just be your self.. you always halft to ahve manners..and kinda ask them questions..make them like you..and the only way you can do that is by you acting your self..and always reambear first impressions..so dont be all like you know..all over him..have respect for his parents..and i hope that you are a decent enough girl to have manners and all that good..stuff..so you just be you!!
*Hope I Helped*

~Love Always~
ilovepink101>bridgette

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When you are makeing out with a guy or kissing him where should you out your hands. Or guys where do you prefer for girls to put there hands?
(I'm a girl)

well when i as making out with a guy i wouild put my hands on there side...it depends where you guys are kissing..becasue you can put your hands over his shouilders..but my x liked it when i put it on his side..and its just cool if you put it on the side..o what ever you feels right.
hope i helepd.
~Love Always~
*ilovepink101*>Bridgette

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I recently asked a question about my ex boyfriend but ne'wayz. He likes this girl and i dont really want him to go out with her because i still have feelings for him! i dumped him tho so i shouldnt care but i do! I can't go back out with him cuz I need to obey my parents (at least for awhile) how can I stop loving him???
Thanks,
Missing him to death!

well like you said you dumped him..so theres nothing you can do..and you cant really control the people he goes out with..only because your going to have boyfriends here and there and they will dump you and you will dump them and t hen you move on with your life..and you wouildnt of dumped him if you still cared for him..and what do you mean you halft to obey your parents..??Did they tell you not to date him???well if you still have feelings for him maybe its really serious..then you shouild tell him..but if your just straight up jealous then just let him go on with his life..sorry the truth hurts!!
hope i helped..
*Love Always*
~ilovepink101~>Bridgette

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i have liked this boyy for about 2 weeks now and he is so hard to read i dont know if he likes anyone? but he flirts alot and stuff and he flirts with me too but i dont want to tell him that i like him...but if he doest know that i like him he might not ask me out? and i do not like asking guys out at all like i wont do it...any advisssee?? hopefully lol

well i have been in that same exact spot..i liked someone..and he always flirted with me and i thought he liked me to..until i told him i liked him he has been flirting with me alot more..well maybe you shouild tell him you like him..and maybe hes not asking you out because he doesnt know if you like him..well i hate asking guys out..i just tell them i like them and if they like me theyll ask me out..and if thaty dont like you then they wont aks you out!!you klnow what i mean..so maybe you shouild tell him y ou like him..
well hope i helped
*love always*
~ilovepink101~>Bridgette

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I really like this guy.. but see he has a girlfriend. I know he doesnt like me, but I want him too! lol, well duh. But how can I get him to like me?! See, my name is Acasia and he calls me Asia. Well today it rained, and I was writing my name with my finger on the window, and he said "acasia" and I was like yeah? and He goes "your name is so pretty" I was like really? and he goes "yeah it is" See, hes SOO sweet! What can I do to for him to notice me? I mean he cuddles with all these other girls.. so I dont see how it wouldnt be a problem for me to flirt with him a little.
Sorry its so long!!
IF you give me good answers I will give you a 5!
1 for no good answers.

well honestley you shouildnt try to make a guy like you..but if you know that he has a chance on asking you out then go for it!!and dont watse your time with somebody that does not like you...lol..ive been there..well maybe you shouild talk to the boy alot more..but dont make it to where your trying to compete with his girlfriend..because this guy sounds like a major flirt..but you know what guy isnt..well maybe you shouild like put your self out there but not to much you know..just like try to get him to notice you by like talking to him in t he hall ways and saying hi to him in the hall wyas..just stuff like that..
hope i helped..
p.s. you do have a really beatufull name..i love that name..
love always,
*ilovepink101*>Bridgette

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hey im 16/m and there is this girl i really really like... we have already had some really kick ass times as friends but i want her to be more than that... she likes me too but at the moment im grounded and i don't think i would make a very good bf... cept at like school... im and excellent lover if i do say so myself, but the opportunities would be the only thing that i wouldn't have... any advice helps... i'll rate or w/e if u want... thanx peeps!

well if you guys dont think its the right time to go out then just wait..and if you like her and she likes you then you shouild go for it..you never know what the possiblties will be..well you said you cant be a good boyfriend cept at school..does that mean that you are like totally care less at home??well i mean by like not taking her out on dates or what so ever..well maybe you shouild wait till the right moment to ask the girl out..and just listen to your heart and go along what you think is right!!
love always,
*ilovepink101*>Bridgette

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how do i tell my mom im prenant

wow..thats a pretty hard thing to tell your mom..and you shouildnt of been screwing around anywys..
but umm i guess you sit here down and tell her what happened..and you cant have an abortion..NEVER..thats murdering somebody..so if you have the kid and you cant take care of it you shouild give it up for adoption..but you need to tell your mom as soon as possible..you better tell her or shell find out the hard way..which is honestley not the bets way..you hust tell her what you think..and tell her soon before anything more comes to you..
hope i helped
love always,
*ilovepink101*>Bridgette

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i am 18 years old i have been with this man for about 4 years now but he have been with other woman but i still love him i try to move on with my life but i can not i need help

well you need to tell your self that you are way better then that..and i hope you are..and you dont need to take his crap..im sure theres one guy out there for you and im sure he will treat you like a princess..and wont be with other girls while with you..obviously the guy your with is not worth it.. you odnt need help sweety he does..theres plent of fish in the sea,..time to go fishing!!
hope i helped..
*love always*
Bridgette>ilovepink101

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So theres this guy that was in my class last year and i went to the same camp as him and we would hang out toghter like evryday and people kept saying we liked each other.He flirts with me all the time.Hes older guy friends says he does like me but i dont know if i should belive them.Should we be friends or not?

maybe you guys should be more t hen friends..maybe he does like you..maybe you guys shouild you no hook up..im sure you want to..dont stop your self..just get out there and reel you in that boy!!but n-e-wayz you shouild be friends if he doesnt like you..im sure you guys wouiuld have a good friend ship..but you know why wouiuld you want to give up a friend..you can never have enough friends.but if he lies you for more then a friend then you shouiuld hook up with him ..but only if you like him..
Hope i helped..
*love always*
Bridgette>ilovepink101

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i really like this guy and i cant get him off my mind. EVER i really do love him more than anything in this world but he just doesn't understand that. we were in one of those perfect relationships where he would call me at 3 in the morning just to see what i was doing or just because he wanted to hear my voice. !! one night he called me and asked me about my ex who was killed a few months ago, he didn't know that he was killed but he thought that i was still with him. but an hour later he broke up with me and i still dont know why. its been weeks and i still cry over him all the him. i dont think i could stand to cry over him one more time. he likes all these other girls now. i just dont know what to do or how to get over him.im sorry this is long but please answer me fast !!!! thank you !!

well im sorry to hear about what happen to your x boyfriend..but your that other bot you like is just staraight up rude..he moved on so so shouild you..why shouild satnd back begging for him so..you know..i know its really hard to move onm but its something you gotta do in life..you cant love him forever..but you do what you gotta do to move on..he just sounds really ude to do that to you..well i hope you can get a new boyfriend..and i hope you move on to a better person that loves you..and i hope you dont get hurt..
*love always*
Bridgette>ilovepink101

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my boyfriend is also goin to college.. are you still gona be with him? i dont know what to do ..everyone usually breaks up before college cause of the whole stereotype college hook up stuff..i trust him but i dont know what to do..any advice?

`baby

well you shouildnt let his school get in your relatinship...but if you feel that he is going to do something then that means you guys need to break it..but if you have trust for him then why lose something you love..and im sure he will not do anything to hurt you..but if you know that he is going to hurt you then you need to do something about it..but im sure and i hope you guys can stay together..just spen your last days with him having fun and do what you guys want to do..just dont get hurt..
hope i helped..
*love always*
Bridgette>ilovepink101

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I am goin out with this kid and my friend likes him too I think I should tell her that I am goin out with him or should I not But we tell each other like every thing

I will RATED YOU HIGH
Please help mee

Always
Mee

well you shouild never keep anything from your friend..and yes that means that you shouild tell her..maybe she will back up off hi if you tell her..im sure she wil appreiciate it if you tell her..im sure she wont mind though...and thats good you and your friend tell each other everything..and its good that you to have that trust between each other!!but yeah dont break that trust and just tell her..im sure she wont do anything..but she may get mad at you..but just give her sometime!and im suure shell get over it!1
hope i helped....!!!!!
*love always*
Bridgette>ilovepink101

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ok
ive known liam for about 3 years now and he is soo great! we are like best friends but my feelings have grown for him. hes moving away soon to live in australia. i really want to be with him. has any one got any advice on how to hint or tell him that i want to be with him?
please help me!
thanks

well you shouildnt be worrying about hooking up with him..you shouild be worrying on what your last few days with im are going to be like..and what a re you guys going to do ..well if you do want to let him no you like him then maybe you shouild just tell him..because your proably going to waste your time trying to give him hints and stuff..so you shouild just tell him straight up.you never no maybe he feels the same for you.and its to bad hes moving..well i hope you get what you wished for with him!!!
*love always*
Bridgette>ilovepink101

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hey its tom, thanx 4 the advice. im not complaning about it i just wanted 2 know if it was normal. thanx agian

no problem..thanks for asking me..im sure your girlfriends normal..lol..and im sure she likes you and cares for you alot..so you do the same and show her how much you care!!
hope i helped!
*love always*
Bridgette>ilovepink101

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hey my name is tom and my gf and i havent been togeather not that long and she likes to get real close to me and hug and stuff. is this normal 4 a gf 2 act that way??

thanx

well you shouild be happy if your girl trys to get close to you..but you know..maybe she likes you alot..i wouildnt be complaing..but you know maybe thats me!!well the thing is do you care if she hugs you and stuff like that??well most girls like me can care less when they start going out with a boy..theyll kiss him on the first day they go out..but thats girls like me..hey atleats its not a boy i dont know..well yeha i guess it is pretty normal for a girl to act like that..you shouild feel loved..and she wants to make you feel and she wantes to let you know that she likes you..now if you want a girl that hates you and doesnt o anything with you then you wont have a hrad time finding one..but you know shes a girl..wedo what we gotta do..
thanx for letting me answer this for you!!
hope i helepd..
*love you always*
Bridgette>ilovepink101

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Ok so Im a 14/f. I've had 2 boyfriends. I didnt do anything with either one except i like cuddled and held hands with one of them. I know its not a big deal, and I feel like im being left out, yet its my fault. My first ex is really into like hooking up and stuff. Even though we're not together, he wants to makeout with me like all the time. I think I still like him, and Im going to be hanging out with him and some other guy friends in a few days. The problem is that im too scared to makeout but at the same time, im not. I want to, im just scared that I wont be good at it. And i know im going to have a hard time getting myself to actually go through with it. Is there any way I can signal to him that I just want to kiss him, and not makeout? Without actually speaking the words to him? Thanks everyone, sorry its long.

well thats pretty hard..you know that all those boys love kissing girls..but you may halft to tell him..or you need to kiss him and just stop..or you know this is a hard question???um...i dont know..you may just need to talk to him and say i think i like you..but i dont want to make out..i just wanna kiss you..but you know he mmay think your crazy..or you can kiss him and just stop when you want to..and he may think your crazy!!but you know that this is a pretty hard question..i tryed my hardest answering the best i can..sorry if i didnt help you any!!!
hope i helped!!
*love always*
Bridgette>ilovepink101

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