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Never been kissed
Ok so Im a 14/f. I've had 2 boyfriends. I didnt do anything with either one except i like cuddled and held hands with one of them. I know its not a big deal, and I feel like im being left out, yet its my fault. My first ex is really into like hooking up and stuff. Even though we're not together, he wants to makeout with me like all the time. I think I still like him, and Im going to be hanging out with him and some other guy friends in a few days. The problem is that im too scared to makeout but at the same time, im not. I want to, im just scared that I wont be good at it. And i know im going to have a hard time getting myself to actually go through with it. Is there any way I can signal to him that I just want to kiss him, and not makeout? Without actually speaking the words to him? Thanks everyone, sorry its long.
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hi! ok well all you have to do is just hang out for a little bit and talk get to know him REALLY good and then when you go home or if he brings you home (either way) well say bye and lal taht stuff then put ur arms out and hug him and maybe you could give him a kiss on the cheek
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-m3lissa
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just tell him it is oyur first time to be kissed a real guy should understand
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well..usually a kiss ends in making out these days...unfortunantly.
look at him in a seductive way. get him to notice you in ways he wouldn't have otherwise.
as for making out and not being good at it, well the only way to get better is to try it. you don't know if you are bad or not, so maybe this will be the opportunity to find out. usually the look on the guy's face will tell you if you are good or not. its not that bad, trust me.
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i had the same problem...i just got my friend chelsea to makeout with me and she said i was a good kisser and when i tell guys about that they get turned on lol but that should be for more older people...just tell him you dont think you are a good kisser and theyll understand...oh btw im not a lez or bi im straight
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well thats pretty hard..you know that all those boys love kissing girls..but you may halft to tell him..or you need to kiss him and just stop..or you know this is a hard question???um...i dont know..you may just need to talk to him and say i think i like you..but i dont want to make out..i just wanna kiss you..but you know he mmay think your crazy..or you can kiss him and just stop when you want to..and he may think your crazy!!but you know that this is a pretty hard question..i tryed my hardest answering the best i can..sorry if i didnt help you any!!!
hope i helped!!
*love always*
Bridgette>ilovepink101
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Maybe start with small pecks, just to let him know you want to take things slowly. You can move forward from there. But if you don't want to make out, then just don't. If he tries to go there, stop, and tell him you don't want to. He should respect that.
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There really isn't any way other than saying this isn't going to happen. You are 14 and too young to be a mother so don't even take the risk...that's the reality of it. Making out leads to other things. If the guy doesn't even care enough about you to call you his girlfriend you certainly don't go giving him a good time. So kiss and hug if you must but don't even worry about the rest for a few years. I'm sure that isn't what you want to hear but, that's my advice. :)
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well sweetie; if you're not comfortable doing it; then talk about it with the boy. make sure he knows that you're not interested in that yet.
it'll help him know you just want regular kisses, so he doesn't try and stick his tounge in your mouth!
if you'd like some tips & stuff on french kissing: first of all; it's not as hard as it looks!! here's a website that has a few pointers & the basics.. but you should try and find your own kissing style; and you'll get better at it, i promise!
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i feel the same way sometimes i still havent made out and im a lil nervous too..anyways i guess you can just call him over and talk to him away from the other guys or just talk to him on the phone or aim the night before and think of a sign together and use it the next day
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