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hey im 16/m and there is this girl i really really like... we have already had some really kick ass times as friends but i want her to be more than that... she likes me too but at the moment im grounded and i don't think i would make a very good bf... cept at like school... im and excellent lover if i do say so myself, but the opportunities would be the only thing that i wouldn't have... any advice helps... i'll rate or w/e if u want... thanx peeps!
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well if you guys dont think its the right time to go out then just wait..and if you like her and she likes you then you shouild go for it..you never know what the possiblties will be..well you said you cant be a good boyfriend cept at school..does that mean that you are like totally care less at home??well i mean by like not taking her out on dates or what so ever..well maybe you shouild wait till the right moment to ask the girl out..and just listen to your heart and go along what you think is right!!
love always,
*ilovepink101*>Bridgette
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Well, just ask her out and tell her how your grounded, and tellher how you might not be a good bf at the moment but you really like her. Hopefully she'll like the fact that you really like her, and say yes! : )
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Why don't you just hold off for the week or month of the grounding, and then ask her out? Keep as a friend with her until that time, just at the point that you are now.
Or, you could just ask her out now. School is plenty time to see a person. Normally, outside is about 15 minutes to an hour, from what I've seen with other people. You'd just tell her that you cannot see her past school for a month because of your parents. And if you blame it on your parents, things tend to work out.
But, I'd personally wait.
-Steven
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Hey!Your soon to be girl friend sounds great!If she likes you too i dont see that anything could go rong!If your grounded just wait and pop the qusetion!I've been in a relationship alot of times in fact im in one right now!I was scared because i asked him out but i new something wouldnt/shouldnt/couldnt got wrong.So i called him up and asked him because if something did go wrong i'd rather hear it on a phone be cause face to face in she in your case turns yeah down(which shouldnt happen!)i would rather cry in my room than in her face!Well thats my stroy just ask her!If you dont have any opportunities then like i said call her up!Im sure she wants to do the same thing!
xoxo e-mail me back tell me whatcha got!
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Aww thats sweet! But I cant tel lyou right now that if she likes you and you like her she probably has an idea of whether or not you like her. So try to look at this from her point of view: You like a person. You know they like you back. But they arent asking you out. See? She is probably typing a question right now going "WHY ISNT THIS GUY ASKIN ME OUT???" Tell her what you are saying. "I really like you, and I hope that you will be my girlfriend. But see, right now Im groudned so I dont know if I can take you on any dates for a while. When I am done being groudned I promise to make up for lost time"
Hope it Helps!
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Melanie
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Unless you are grounded for life, I think you should at least talk to her about it.
Don't assume what she may think or feel. She may just believe you are worth the wait. :)
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Humm. I guess just talk to her about it, and see what she says. You`ll see her everyday at school still. And I`m sure you won`t be grounded forever.. so0o0o0o. just do what feels right. ♥
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