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[additude]! But i love helpin people... thats mostly all i do. I feel so speacial when people ask me for help. Cuz i love makin people feel better about yourself. AND I SPEAK THE TRUTH. SOMETIMES TRUTH HURTS. buts its all good. Im really good at giving advice you should hit me up.


I dont care what people say youre the one that brings me so much joy when I look at your smiling eyes my heart wants to dance theres only you on my mind and I never want to leave your side it feels right so lets stay together Ill never feel alone again boy cause your love makes me feel so secure. 01-07-04


There will never come a day. You will ever hear me say, that I want or need to be without you. I want to give my all. Baby just hold me simply control me. Because your arms they keep away the lonelies. When I look into your eyes, then I realize, all I need is you in my life. Cuz I never felt this way about lovin. No. Never felt so good, baby Never felt this way about lovin
...It feels so good 01-07-04


E v e r y b o d y wants to know w h e r e Ive been, cause l i v i n g life the way I do seems to be a s i n . Oh but that stuff f o l l o w s me e v e r y w h e r e I go. Get out of here cause shit is out of c o n t r o l and dont come too close to cause; you n e v e r know what I would do if you d i s r e s p e c t me.

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ill be 15 in dayz an last year i wen ta this new skool an when i tried out 4 basketball an made it this rummor got started that i had "did it" wit the coach ta make the team.. when of course i ddin

now this new year even before skool started..
there is now a rumor that i did it wit this dude i wen out wit las year named Criag when i didn an every1 belives it..
i donno what to do bc im not a hoe like that i mean he was my 1st kiss
an all these ppl belive i did it. how can i make it stop.. how can i jus get thro it


hey i know how you feel - theres always ALWAYS rumors about me!!! But the thing is you live to deal with it.. although they may hurt you ... the best thing to do is just try not to patiention to them ... cuz then that just made it worst....you cant stop them - becase theres always gunna be rumors.. and espeacilly when you get to the high school - you just let them say whatever you want because atleast you know the truth... hope i helped - please rate - Nicicole

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i dont feel the same way about my bf anymore. plain and simple. but hes in love w/ me. so i dont know what to do. he deserves A LOT and i dont want to hurt him. but i just... well i dont deserve him and he was mr right at the time... but hes just not mr right now. so i dont wanna lead him on. how do u break up w/ a guy thats in love w/ u??


hey..... the most i can tell you to do is just tell him how you feel..... you can't be with someone that you have no feelings for.....you should tell him and tell him why you dont like him how you use to... - hope i helped - Nicicole

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kelli u kno who this is, or atleast u should kno, but i'll continue anyways so other ppl can give me advice too...... i really like this guy who's 1 year younger then me. he says that he likes me too. the problem is, we dont go to the same school and i like NEVER get to see him! its hard to plan things because we're both busy ppl. we wanna try to date again when we go to the same school. but thats a looong time to wait and i dont kno what to do. i want to give up on it and try to like other ppl, but i still have feelings for him and may forever have feelings for him. what should i do, or try to do?? should i move on??


gurl you need to move on..... you dont need to be waitin for no one! And you dont need to be messin around with younger guys when there pleanty of older guys out there......but if you really have strong enough feelins for him, then you can make it work.... because if there two people that like eachother..... shouldnt they be together..? Talk to him.. adn you to could make time... hope i helped. /rate it/ nicicole

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Alright. I have this guy bestfriend whom I have known for 2-3 years. I used to move a lot when I was younger, and this is the first time I've actually remained in one city. He's the most person that I am closest to. We used to date but we broke up, then that's when we became best friends. He moved to Austin awhile back, but we still talked everyday. I got a boyfriend that I'm in love with which I've been dating for like 6 months now. My best friend came back down from Austin for the summer. When I saw him I got mixed feelings for him, but I brushed it off. Then, he finally told me he had strong feelings for me. He's always had feelings for me. But I don't think the feeling is mutual. I love him to death, but I'd rather be with the boyfriend I have now. My best guy/friend has been chasing after me all summer. Finally, he's realized that he should just stop trying because it's getting no where except more drama and tears for the both of us. I suggested that we should just be friends, but he came out with "It's hard to be friends when I am madly in love with you. It hurts too much." So, we talked it out... and the only resort came down to completely NOT talking anymore. Basically from best of friends to nothing; not even acquaintances. I don't know if that will work out. I love him, but not in that way. I would like him as a best friend, but he says we can't do that. He says that we should stop calling each other and whatever. I don't know if this is really going to work. I just want everything resolved. Advice anyone? [If anyone understood this paragraph]


You should tell him that he needs to stop being so selfish and let you go. Your over him. Hes not over you. Tell him theres more fish in the sea.. and he needs to stop chasin you. Tel him that you found someone that you love alot and that theres no reason why you two cant be friends. to me i think thats childish... tell him that you still wanna be friends and everythin and that you think of him as a brother now.. or somethin i hope i helped .. rate me please/

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Im 16, and a while ago I was involved with this guy who was 18. He was a senior at my best friends school, and he was gorgeous and popular etc. I met him because he works at My gymnastics school

Now me, im invisable in my school. Im shy and no one notices me, I hide behind books and avoid talking whenever possible, but im different at gymnastics. My teammates are my best friends and im outgoing etc when im with them

When we met, I was seriously depressed about being invisable, and only my best friend knew. Now she went to school with the other kid, but she wasnt popular so he didnt talk to her.
Anyway, one day my best friend was working with him, and he told her he really thought i was pretty and kept asking questions about me and this pulled me out of my depression
-he saw me when i was invisable

Then a few weeks later we actually talked, like hed call etc, and he eventually broke my shyness and i ended up at his house in his bed making ut with him. That went on for a while, wed keep hooking up till he tried to get farther to fast. I told him to stop and he respected that then not much later he blew me off because i wouldnt sleep with him

After that I pretended to get over him quickly, but I still saw him at gymnastics, and when i worked with him hed be all over me, or when id be working out and hed be coaching, hed coach when my teammates were on the beam, but stop and watch when i was etc. He played major mind games with me, and I played them back. I went out with this other kid he goes to school with just so hed be jealous (which he was and he also checked up on me) and I made him think I hated him on perpose, though I think if id showed him I liked him I could have had him back.

Then he got fired. I took it as fate. Someone was trying to help me get over him, but it wasnt that easy. HE alone saw me when I was invisable.

Either way hes going to college in like 5 days, and I miss him so much and I cant get over him and it hasnt gotten much better over time

What should I do?

hey - aww you sound so innocent! But thats cute how you say he notice you when you were invisble. But just because you said no that you didnt wanna go all the way with him; and he got pissed that is preety bad. But to me it sounds aftawards you were tryin to play hard to get. But the things with guys is that they dont always like playin games.. [ hard to get ] that gets them pissed.. it depends how much feelings they have for you. Well before he leaves to go to college you need to call him and tell him why you were ready to have sex. and you should tell him that you still have feeelings for him . and i can see you wanna get back together. and see what happends.. / rate me .

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Hey Caity...I went to party and I started talking to this guy Ryan at the time he seemed really cool so I gave him my number so we could keep in touch,we started dating and I got pregnet I told him and he told me he wasnt ready to be a father and i wasnt gonna keep it I felt really scared and i didnt know how to tell mt parents and what they`d think of me...Im 3 weeks pregnet now and Im only 16 I know i shouldnt keep it but apart of me tells me I should!Ryan still doesnt want me to keep it and he told me that he loved me and that he wouldnt let anything bad ever happen to me But if he loved me he would help me through this.What should I do? -Kayla


you really need to talk to him.
and tell him that it doesnt matter if hes ready or not. but thats your baby and you need someone to help you. he should of thought about the what could happen / and learn to deal with it. - hope i helped - rate me please -

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I'm 14 and my boy friend and I have been togather since June 29 and its been good but there's one problem I live in the country and he lives in the city and its geting harder and harder every day to me cause we cant even talk on the phone cause it would be long distnace. Plus some times he goes out of town and we cant even talk on the computer cause at the other place he dont have a computer there and now he's down there and I really need to see him. I have a feeling that its not gonna work but I'm trying to hold on. I really love him. What should I do?



well if you two really love eachother as much as you say you do then you shouldnt have a problem if you live far. You can make it work.. just tell that your scared cuz you dont know if its gunna work between yall. and that you just need to talk to him on the phone and tell him how you feel. and how your scared. and see if you to can come up with a soultion for the problem. hope i helped / rate please /

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Ok well i was thinkin bout u kno havin sex widd my bf of ova 9 months but im only 13 almost 14 so i think have decided to wait for that big step u kno!! but ne wayz i wanna be able to do otha stuff wid him like give him a bj and like have him do stuff to me so should i??? and like wat kinda stuff???? thanx


* a curious george *


hey i think that:thats preety good how you waited 9 months before you didnt anything so you have trust in your boyfriend. but anyway befor you go and have sex you should wait awhile like before you go and have sex you should do other stuff and see if he chagnes or somethin. like go ahead and give him head or hand job or anything but wait a little more before you go and have sex.. because thats a big step and you dont wanna do it an then him start actin werid. so you should like do that stuff first.. then see if he changes towards you then if not then go for it... i hope i help .. please rate me - nicicole..

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hi. my name is nicole n im 14. ok so heres the thing. i am like in lve with this kid named robert. like in love in love n ok i dont think i will ever have a chance with this kid cuz likehe is in love with this girl even tho he seys he isnt. so like i think i kinda gave up on him n started lik in this kid chris. which is horrible cuz like my best fuckin friend likes him. i have no idea wat to do cuz like i dont have a chance with either of them n i dont wna get my heart broken again.... (cough lke alan n ian)
HELP lol


whats your full name cuz i think i might no you... and whats robert full name to - cuz i might no you

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I'm friends with this one guy and I like him alot. I've heard that he used to like me too, but I'm not exactly sure if it's true. he is the only guy I've ever felt this way about, and I know it sounds stupid of me to say that because we are only 14. In the past, he has hurt me bad emotionally and once physically. But now, everything between us it great we talk all the time I just don't know if I should tell him how I feel, just forget about him, or keep it a secret. Please help.


hey im sorry to say .. but if he once hurt you .. whats there makin him not do it again. i bet your really preety and you could do alot better then him. but i cant tell you what to do. but for all the people that i help i dont want to see any of them hurt. i think you should move on.. but its all up to you if you think hes the one for you then go for it. just be careful. because an abusive relationship is horrible - you dont need that. just take care of your self and i hope i helped.

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i have a serious relationship with my boyfriend, but lately things have been changing. When we are online, we say one word to eachother. I havent seen him for over a month.no phone at all either. When i ask him to do something he says "maybe or no" and when i ask him if his feelings for me have changed he says he doesnt know...? i dont want to keep bothering him about it so.. what should i do?


hunny - im sorry to annocunce but you need to break up with him. If its been a month that you havn't talked to ya man no - thats a BIG no no... you need to either find out whats up with ya man - or find out why he actin out! Cuz you neva he could cheatin or whorin around. but that what i would - but you should follow your gut instinct - and talk to him- i hope i helped - nicicole

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This guy likes me, and I kinda like him, but he isn't the cutest guy (if you know what I mean) I want to see if things will work out between us but I scared of what other people will think/say. What should I do?

hey babygirl listen to me! - you shouldnt care about what pther people have to say because then you never know what kinda guy your giving up. he could be the guy of your dreams and you would never find out if you thought about what other pepole had to say. have you ever the they saying " its not just about the looks it abut there personality as well " you should give him a change and then if anyone has a problem with you together tell them to fuc* off and don't worry about cuz it not about them its about you and the kid you like. i hope i helped - nicicole

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i really like this one guy. but for some reason he is always mad at me. like the other day i apoligized for whatever i did (i dont even know what i did). and he apoligized too.. but then the next day he blocked me. and i didnt even talk to him at all that day. then that night he just calls me to talk. and doesnt really talk on the phone and just says yeah to w.e i say. is there something going on with him or what? what should i do? i think there might be something wrong with him bczu he sounded like depressed but idk. what do you think i should do?

you should talk to him. the next time he calls ; and try to find out why hes acting like that and if he okay. tell him that your gettin a little worried because you dont know whats happening. And tell him how you feel.
-nicicole

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hi, i have a neighbor and i like him alot and i think he knew before i called him and really told him what i felt and i asked him what he thought and he asked me if he could get back to me...do you think he WILL get back to me? :-/ i wana know i cant stop thinkin about it!!!

well first of all when it comes to guys and there emotions they fail. Sometimes expressing yours feeling could scared them; because they dont know exactly how they feel yet. But i thnk that he will say something to you. hes not just gunna let you sit there and rot. But i think that was very brave of you to go ahead and express your self to him.. cuz not everybody can do that. i hope i helped you out.

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Okay Im almost 15....a little over 3 years ago i met this guy...we went out fer a few months but then i had heard that while i was on vaca he had cheated on me with this other girl....i dumped him...he denied it all...then we went out again...and we went out for about a month...then i had dumped him because tha school year was about over and i had also found out that he was playing me with one of my freinds. Then tha next school year i didnt talk to him at all. He only stayed at my school for about 3 weeks n then moved. I was sooooo happy!! but i was bff's with his cousin and she had persued me to write him a lil note tha day he left. Then about 2 weeks after he left he called me..we talked for a few hours...but then i had gotten mad at him bc i think he was being a jerk to me online. Then tha summer before...8th grade i started talking to him and we became REALLY close. we went out but only for a week or two bc we were going out behind my parents backs bc i didnt want them to know i was seeing him again bc they didnt like him bc of what had happened b4...well later i told my mom everything and how he had "changed" and we went out for about a month or so...but then we broke up bc things just werent going good...our timing has always been wrong..but now...this summer my summer b4 ninth grade we have gotten really close. We talk all tha time online n on tha phone...we flirt n yeah. Its soo nice bc today he told me that he missed me n that he really wanted to be with me. He said he really wanted to work things out n us to be together. I'm suppose to go to his house tomarrow but im not sure if he really wants to be with me n has changed this time or if he just wants me for sex. The problem is we r both going to tha same highschool. So chances are i will see him around. And i am TOTALY crazy for him. What should I do??Plzzzz help im soo into him but im not sure if hes real!!! Thanx lots of luv*


hey i know exactly how you feel. i went threw that with my boyfriend. But it seems like you still have alot of feelings for him. I would say go ahead and go over his house. Just dont do anything that youll feel sorry for in the morning. Just follow your heart and it will tell you what to do. Talk to him and tell you how you feel. Cuz that can make you feel a hole lot better. Tell him how much you love him. And tell him how you feel when your not with him. Tell him that oyu want to be with him but not just for sex. and see how it goes. i hope i helped you alot. but ive been threw that and ive been with my boyfriend now for 8 months and everything is smooth. i really hoped i help! I/m [aim] miSSxundaxzt00d -

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i ahve this problem i just moved to a new stae and met a rly cool guy and we were talkin but stuff happened and we stopped talkin and were jsut freinds but it seems like whenever i am round him i kiss him and stuff but i dont want a relatioship so should i keep doin this i feel like i am leadin him on or just stop...if you could tell em anything it would be great i am so comfused!!
--CoNfUsLeD--


well if you feel like its leading him on then you should stop. Since you don't exactly have feelings for him. And he might be gaining feelings for you. But you should follow your instincs. And see what happends.

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iight...i'm dateing this guy that i love more than anything...but now i feel like he doesn't want me! well i wanna break up...but then i don't bC i love him....and then i wanna get back w/ my ex but my mom told me that i couldn't..i'm jst stuck and confused and things are going right and i jst don't know wat to do!?

im mostly sayin to her to follow your heart. and talk to your boyfriend and see whats up. and tell him how you feel. cuz the most imporant thing in realationships is bein able to communicate. you should find out why your mom doesnt like your ex. and if you really love your boyfriend you have now as much as your sayin you do then you wouldnt want your ex.

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whenever a guy and a girl makeout, why do the guys always asked if the girl liked it?

Hey ; well my boyfriend did the same thing the first time we hooked up. I think they do it to see how you reaction might be. So they know if they can or kiss or not.

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