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Hecka random pic from sadies... that my gang signBASICS:
name: Andrew
ht: 6'0
wt: eh 145
build: athletic
age: 16
eyes: blue-ish green
hair: dark brown
my style: laid back and casual dress, i like to look good though
interesting fact: i can do the Rubik's Cube in one minute 20 seconds.
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Alright. So I like this guy..a lot. I never told him it, but we talk all the time. We met a while ago because we used to have the same problem. But He's so great and everything the only problem is that he's turning 16 this year and I'll be 18 in a month. I want to tell him how I feel, but I'm scared he'll think I'm wierd or something because I'm older. or I'm scared about what people would think. I mean I want to tell him, but he lives about 2 hours away, and we never see each other.And when we talk, we talk about Everything and anything. I don't know what to do. I'm probably not even making any sense. So should I tell him how I feel about him, or just let it go?
age isnt anything but a number. how you feel about someone is how you feel. just thought id add that little blurb, but check out silent one's advice its worthy of reading.
There is this girl that I REALLY want to ask to prom. But there is one small problem. She says she doesnt really do the school dance thing. We went out to the movies last week, and she said she had a great time. We've been friends for a while, and I finally admitted I have feelings for her, and she said she likes me too. So I dont know, should I ask her, or should I ask someone I dont know as well? And if I should ask her, how should I ask? I am a singer, but I'm not confident about my talent under THAT sort of pressure! Please help!
You can ask her but if she doesn't like dances, on prom night do something else. Go do something special between the two of you.
Ok, I am kindof too shy to ask this to the "pool" because people I know are here... you understand? Thanks in advance.. sorry it's so long..
Ok, I'm 14/f, and I know that's really young, but I have "guy problems". Two guys, one girl, and myself are involved. My best friend "sister", Jacki*, liked my best friend that's a guy, Nate*. Nate also liked Jacki, for a while. I liked this guy, Pete*, for a while, and he liked me. All well and good, eh? Not so. You see, Jacki doesn't like Nate anymore, nor does Nate like Jacki. Pete still likes me, and I suppose I like him a bit still. But, I've always had underlying feelings for Nate, but I'd put them in the back of my mind 'cause it was Jacki's turn to shine. But now, Nate likes me, and so does Pete. Problem is, Nate and Pete are still friends. I don't know what to do, 'cause I know - and love - Nate very well.. and I like Pete. But I sortof see Pete as a "brother". I don't want to do something dumb that would make everyone mad.. and I don't want Jacki's feelings hurt. (we all know that a little piece of your heart stays with every guy until you find the right one..)
Thing is, I really, really know that I love Nate. I've known him since fifth grade, and we're best friends. I know stuff about him that no one else knows, and he knows stuff about me that no one else knows. We have alot in common, and love to hang out. Every night when we're on Instant Messanger, when we have to go, we say "I love you, sleep well, sweet dreams." This means alot to both of us.. Sometimes I think, maybe, he's the one? But I'm still so young, it's hard to tell. Nate's almost two years older than me, Pete's a few months older than me, and Jacki's a few months older than me.
I'm just really confused, if you have any advice what so ever, please lend me some! Thank you so much!
Ok good question and I understand whats goin on. Since both Pete and Nate like you, rather than hurting feelings, I say you should not date either of them. i know you have these feelings for Pete with the "I love you, goodnight" but I think you have to just put it to the side. You and Pete seem like the perfect couple, not for a relationship, but for a friendship. Best friends is always better, than chancing a relationship. Last year, I had this amazing friend named Person*(lol). Person and I had all these classes together and we were the greatest of friends. But secretly, since the day I met her, I had tremendous feelings for her. But I thought to myself "Hey Andrew... these feelings and these great conversations and all this private stuff you knwo each other seems like a perfect foundation for a great friendship." And so it began... I told Person that as much as I liked her, I realized being friends was best. To this day, almost a year and a half later, we are great friends who tell each other everything. It's not that you are too young, or confused, or an age differance. It is your motive. You want a boyfriend figure badly, just as I wanted a girlfriend figure. Relationships will come and go, but friendships will last a lifetime.
Does anyone have a good idea as to what I could get my boyfriend for our 6 months? I want to do something semi-creative (as in not trite) and semi-romantic.
For Christmas, I made him a book of pictures and magazine cut outs that said sweet stuff.
I need some ideas. Good ones are appericated.
I'll rate.
You could include things that are significant and symbolic in your relationship, and give it to him in like a bag with explanations for each one.
Examples:
~6 Hershey kisses: These are for all the missed opporitunities.
~A stress ball: For all the times you've been angry at me.
~A movie theater gift certificat: All those fun movie theater trips. ;)
~A kleenex box: All the times I've made you sad.
~An A+: All those times you helped me with homework.
Then you could end with something cute like at the bottom of the bag like:
~A fork: For the romantic dinner I am going to take you on tonight
Yeah well that is what I can think of right now, I'm real tired so I'm not that cretive at the moment. But ask me another time and I'll think of more. Good luck.
I've like guyz since like the 1st grade. I've never ever let them find out. I'm an admirer. I don't ask people out, I dont tell people i like em. How can I tell them without seeming "out of character" or embarass myslef.
Please don't be negative I rate high!!
Become friends first... that's the best way to reveal yourself to them.
What's the best way to ask your parents if you can go out on a date- I'm not talking about "boyfriends" that you have in like 7th grade, I mean HS bfs .. and how to tell your parents that you have a bf without feeling-weird and uncomfortable! Thanks
If the relationship isn't serious, just tell them you are meeting some friends there. Keep this up until things get more serious. I just got a girlfriend and she is wonderful. Everything I could have asked for and more. I didn't feel bad telling my parents, because I have a real close relationship with them. They understood and didn't have a problem at all. If you have a good and healthy relationship with your parents, just tell them. They will understand and support you in everything that you do. If you don't have that strong of a relationship, just see where you and boyfriend go from now. Invite him to your house or something and tell your parents ahead of time that this is the boy you like. Which is being completely honest. You like someone when your dating them true? Anyway go on a few dates and then confront your parents about your relationship.
I like this guy and he is really cute and funny. He makes me laugh alll the time and I love the way he looks. He's got awesome hair and beautiful deep eyes that I find myself falling into. He's also taller than me, which is a plus. He is such a great guy that I can't even describe the way that I feel about him. BTW the guy's name is ANDREW ALBERTS and he is the best ever! What are you doing Tuesday night? :)
Well I'd definately have to say Andrew is a very good looking kid. He sounds like a perfect match for you.
Tuesday night. I'm pretty sure my schedule is full. I'm going on a date with this really pretty, smart, and funny girl. She makes me feel out of this world and I wish I could be with her right now.
i dont know everyone always says "your to abusive" because ill hit guys and stuff just messing around but i guess that is my way of flirting with them but it dosent work aparently what are some ways i could be nicer or just flirt in a more gentle way? thank you.
Sweet talk the guys, be more verbal and less physical.
Hi, im 14/ m and I just want to know what to do about me and my girlfriend, we have been going out for a year now and were across states. We always talk on the phone and we have gotten really close. But I am just wondering if when me and my girlfriend meet, Im worried that she will push me away. And Im afarid of that, does anyone halft to say anything about this...?
You have been dating a girl for over a year and you are just now meeting her? Littl weird if you ask me, but if you have waited all this time to see each other, no doubt in my mind will she push you away.
My boyfriend and I really like each other but we don't exactly like each other’s friends.
My friends are the normal, get along with everyone, don't drink too too much, aren't slut/whores/man whores type.
His are the go to every party they can, get as drunk as they can, stuck up, screw everyone that comes along type.
"Popularity" wise, our friends as on the same level I guess you could say. We're all the "Abercrombie preppy" type and go to some of the same parties. I just don't like the way his friends act and he doesn't like how my friends don't act.
He isn't completely like his friends but he also isn't as "reserved" as mine. And Vice versa with me; I'm not as "reserved" as mine but also not as crazy as his.
Well, even though I don't really like his friends I'm still nice to them. He isn't as nice with my friends. He's always ignoring them and he actually tries not to talk to them. I don't really mind that he doesn't like them because I don't like his friends but it makes me mad when he isn't nice to them. I mean, he isn't mean but he could be nicer, ya know?
I was thinking of throwing a party for only his friends and mine so they could get to know each other more and then they might not hate each other so much. But I don't think I'll do that because I know my friends and his friends and they wont be into it.
And by the way, his friends are okay with me but my friends don't like him too much but they are nice to him.
I say don't let it bother you. Take turns hanging with each other's friends and you'll find you are more alike than you think. If you and your boyfriend really like ech other, it should nto matter what the friends are like. It's just you and him in the relaionship, not them.
I really like this guy and he likes me but we live really far away.. I want to tell him how I feel but I dont really know what to say.. I have a few ideas.. but if you could help that would be great!
It depends on your age, but I have found long-distance relationships do not work. It's better to be friends.
i always write before i go to bed because im a young author, and well, i always leave my light on because i forget because by the time im done writing im really tired. anyway does sleeping with a light on really give you lukemia?
Are you kiddin?! I've never heard that in my life. I'm 110% positive that you cannot get leukemia from sleeping with a light on. Good luck on your writing.
My boyfriend wants me to kiss him before he kisses me. At least I think so. It seems like it because after we go somewhere together...for example we went to the movies. When I got home i was talking to one of his friends online and he said hows come you didnt kiss him? And I think he should kiss me first!!! What should I do??
It all depends on the situation. You seem like the old-fashioned type who thinks the guy should do the asking out, the door opening, the kissing initiation, etc. Just sit it out and see how things unfold.
yesterday was the talent show at our school, and me, and my xbestfriend were both in it, but not together. she went before me, and i was right after her. when i got up on stage i saw her hug the boy i like. i almost choked on a high note. he's not my boyfriend but im still REALLY jealous and REALLY worried he's gonna start liking her. is this normal and what should i do?
I don't think this hug means anything. Her being your ex-bestfriend, she probably has no idea you even like this boy. If you can handle it, talk to her about it.
So.. ilike this guy but my friend also likes him. I don't think he likes her like that, i know this is going to sound concetied, but i think he likes me. if he does and i go out with she'll be mad, but i really like this guy. Me and hers friendship is sort of rocky and she has stolen my crush before and revenge is sweet...what should I do?
Don't go for they guy as a form of revenge. Friends always come first but if you get into a relationship with this guy, your best friend needs to respect this. EVEN if she likes him too.
Hey! I my classmates make fun of me and talk behind my back cause of my weight limit i mean i am a little over weight and i try to keep in shape. Why is everyone so mean to me? I never do anything mean to them? I dont get it? why do kids have to be so mean.
Kids are mean. Cliques in school are terrible. People who make fun of others do it to make themselves feel better. Jus don't let it get to you, and try to think of yourself as better than them.
this is a stupid question but i'll ask it anyway. What should you tell a guy if he ask you if you're a virgin? Evereyone is telling me different. some of my male friends tell me that you should defenetly tell them that your a virgin because all guys like the girls to be like pure and clean and stuff (i dont know, thats what they tell me) and that if your a virgin they will like you more because it will be like a big deal for them..you know, to get a virgin to lose her virginity is big, it will make them proud of them selves or something. And some of my friends tell me that they always go for girls that lost their virginity already because that would make them more experienced and stuff.And it will make the sex better.. And that it wont be as gross as having sex with a virgin..I dont know im soo confused! I dont want the guy to think that im a slut! but should i tell him that ive already done it so he likes me more? please don tell me to tell him the truth! tell me the truth, what do most guys like? Thank you! (K)
If you are a virgin tell him that. Your morals should be better than to say you have had sex. I think you should put off sex until later in life but thats your call. I say do not lie to this guy if you don't want to ruin things with him. I also suggest that if you are going o have sex with him, do it while you're dating. You will just get hurt otherwise.
Hey!
I dont know if i like a person or if i dont what should i do?
That is possibly the vaguest question I have ever attempted to answer... talk to them about it, that's all I can give with out knowing any details.
ok me and my ex were together for 8 months...my longest relationship. it got to the point where i could totally be myself and everything with him. our last month was aweful. he didnt call me as much, people said he was cheating on me. but whenever i asked him he said he would never do that. anyways, we broke up at the begining on this month. since then, ive gotten a new bf. ive known him for two years and a ton of girls like him and hes really popular and he really likes me. he talks about me ALL the time and hes a great bf. but lately ive been missing my ex so much it makes me cry. i wasnt really that sad after the break up (i broke up with him)...but now its hitting me. we still talk though..he said he has a new gf they got together yesertday and he asked if i wanted to double date!!!!!!! i was like wtf...that would kill me seeing him with another girl..but i just said yea anyways. well hes coming over sunday to get his stuff he left here before we broke up..i miss him so much...and when he signed off last nite he sed he loves me and he always will...im so confused...help..
i dont want him back...but then again i do...i just hate seeing him with someone else. :(
It sounds like you both really like each other still, even if you are broken up and have moved on. And what a lot of girls do is once they break up with one person, they move on to some one new in order to cope with the gap of single life. I think thats what your situation is.
I'm not sure a double date would be the best thing to do. If you still have feelings for him, staring at him across a dinner table with another girl will definately not help your situation. My advice is, that if you two truly care about each other, shift that positivity into a strong friendship instead of a relationship. You can hang out and talk and be yourselves like you use to do, except this time around you won't be together. Try it out and see how it works.
Ok, I have this guy I really, really like. I mean... I think I love him and he always tells me he loves me, but we have a delima. Well I have a delima. We talk online alot, but then when we get to school he's just like fine dont talk to me and Im standing right there to talk to him. Well my question is, is this his form of flirting or does he not like me at all. I really need some help. I will rate high for appropriate answers.
Good question. It's happened to me. The online convos are awesome but you get in person and its just kind of awkward. Anyway just go somewhere where you two can talk and be yourselves and everythign should work out fine.