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boyfriend vs. friends
My boyfriend and I really like each other but we don't exactly like each other’s friends.
My friends are the normal, get along with everyone, don't drink too too much, aren't slut/whores/man whores type.
His are the go to every party they can, get as drunk as they can, stuck up, screw everyone that comes along type.
"Popularity" wise, our friends as on the same level I guess you could say. We're all the "Abercrombie preppy" type and go to some of the same parties. I just don't like the way his friends act and he doesn't like how my friends don't act.
He isn't completely like his friends but he also isn't as "reserved" as mine. And Vice versa with me; I'm not as "reserved" as mine but also not as crazy as his.
Well, even though I don't really like his friends I'm still nice to them. He isn't as nice with my friends. He's always ignoring them and he actually tries not to talk to them. I don't really mind that he doesn't like them because I don't like his friends but it makes me mad when he isn't nice to them. I mean, he isn't mean but he could be nicer, ya know?
I was thinking of throwing a party for only his friends and mine so they could get to know each other more and then they might not hate each other so much. But I don't think I'll do that because I know my friends and his friends and they wont be into it.
And by the way, his friends are okay with me but my friends don't like him too much but they are nice to him.
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I say don't let it bother you. Take turns hanging with each other's friends and you'll find you are more alike than you think. If you and your boyfriend really like ech other, it should nto matter what the friends are like. It's just you and him in the relaionship, not them.
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tell him that even though he doesn;t like your friends, he still has to be nice to them, because you mnake an effort to be nice to his friends. Tell him to tell his friends to be a little nicer around your friends.
hope i helped
-dorinflower55
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Just tell your boyfriend that its really important to you that he would be nice. And tell him he doesnt have to hang out with them or be the best of friends..just that he has to be a nice person around them. Friends usally screw up relationships, so try to stick to your relationship and not have friends influence you breaking up or anything ! The party is a great idea, they can get to all know eachother..and who knows..maybe they'll even like hanging out? They just have to have a chance to meet them. And the party will definatley do that. I hope I helped, good luck !!
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