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Hey guys, Im Erika. I am looking into studying psychology in college. I am VERY GOOD at giving advice. I have been through many things in my life. I am currently in a relationship. i know A LOT about relationships, because I've been in one for many years. giving advice is something i deeply enjoy doing, because i love helping other with their problems and i can relate easily to other people.
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Its like this I really like this girl but I'm not in her class or have never talked to her so here's the pitch I get someone to tell her that I like her not to ask her out I'll do that myself but just to see if she likes me back which I think she does You know the slight glance every single day at lunch time and so on and don't worry I'm not just imagining it in my head.I'm not a fool.I was going to ask her out myself but figured why risk getting rejected and embarrassed like that for no reason when I could get someone to see if and that's a Big If she liked me in return so then i would ask her out myself.Finally here's the question what I said above an OK way to go with it and secondly I'm 17 and she's 14 just wondering if that's alright.Bear in mind I'm from Ireland which has a completely different culture from America.If she likes me and since I like her I don't care what anybody thinks.
wow i wish all guys would not care about age like that! but i must say...dont get someone to ask her right away like that. try and find a way to get to know her...like see who she is friends with and if you know any of those people try and all hangout and have them bring her. try smiling at her...it will make her smile back and its just really cute! but trust me dont have someone ask her out of nowhere...some girls find hat creepy! and age doesnt really matter as long as shes not 5 years younger. i think its fine! good luck!!!!
so basically i met this guy at the beginning of the school year.at first we didnt talk even when he dated my "friend" for a little bit.then after they finally broke up he asked me if id like to be his friend.so i said yes ever since we have become closer and closer.as you probably figured i grew to like him.he sometimes acts like he likes me but at times he dont.he told my friend he wasnt intrested me but told my other friend he would think about going out with me.but he still flirts with me.he doesnt act like just a friend sometime.so i just kinda wanna see what he might mean by all this.thank you.
well i think he might be interested in you, but he doesnt know if he wants to get with you because he was with your friend...or maybe he doesnt want a relationship, get to know him more...like text with him, flirt with him, and try to get more out of him until he speaks his mind! if you try to get more out of him and he doesnt really seem to go with what you are trying to do, maybe he just wants to flirt! guys are so confusing lol.
Alright, so im 15/f and I really like this guy, Lets rephrase that. I love him. I have loved/liked him for a little over a year. But he lives in Massachusetts.): and he liked me alot at 1st then stopped, and now claims to like me again, and says he loves me, he was so happy on the phone last night and even texted me good morning, witch he never does... What do i do??
thanks in advance.
well it looks like you guys live in different states, and thats always going to be a problem if the two of you were to get into a relationship. there could ve trust issues and all that. if he says he loves you, make sure he really does! if you rreally feel like this could work, try it! but just keep in mind, no relationship works without loyalty and trust. dont get with him until you know for sure he wouldnt do anything to hurt you! long-distance relationships are very hard. if its meant to be it will happen!
God damn it im such an idiot... i hate how mind's work, my best girl mate (who's extremely beautifull in my eyes) and has the best personality. every time i see her w have such a good time and then she gos and she's all i can think about... its been like this for years but i dont think iv ever realised it. we'v liked eachother before and i'v even gone as far as loving her maybe twice out of the 7 or more years i'v known her. we'v never gone out but she did kiss me once when i loved her and it made me so happy beyond belief, the only thing is shes allways with somone... the time she kissed me she had this absoloute arse of a BF who mistreated her loads (they are no longer going out thanks god). and now again today i saw her she was with her mate and my guy mate came round were both 17 by the way and shes just turned 18 and her freinds the oldest at 19. so it all started out like it allways dos, muckin around on the internet then we went out side and skated and chatteed for a bit (she also wore this really.. revealing top and my god have her boobs grown since the last time i saw her) i know i know i shouldnt be looking she has a boyfriend! >_< i havent had a GF in 4 years and it gets to me every once in a while just how awesome she is... but it also frustrates me to think maybe it would be better if we never did or were meant to be that way together, we have a great friend ship i wouldnt trade for anything else in the world and if i went out with her would i be any good? would it drive us apart if we broke up? am i even in her league? every one tells me im such a nice guy but when your in a class of girls (8 of them been with that class for 2 years now) all with boyfriends and endlessly talking about how good they are to them its sorta drivven my confidence and self esteem down into the ground. so many thoughts are rushing around my brain... mostly thinking of her, could it be the hormones?? am i just in LUST with her and not liking/loving her like a normall person? it switches i guess, one minute shes all i think about her cheeky smile and sexy glasses and how good it would be just to hug her while enjoying every moment we couldnt ever spend while shes with him. i dont envy her current BF he seems to be the only one who's actually showing how love should be he's all she talks about and im happy for her, other bf's were assholes even though it took her a loong time to realise it =/
i know this is long sorry sorry sorry but its one of those things that you have to tell some one and know that the person you like wont ever find out...
should i tell her that i feel this way for her nearlly every time were together? that i think about every good and bad time we'v scraped through and loved her through? its not like other girls i'v liked either were i feel so on edge because i know they know i like them with her its like.. I LOVE HER!! but i can still be me around her wre so relaxed together and iv never had that with any girl. please explain to me what i could be expirieencing or how i could deal with this? thanks for your time it is very much appreciated
well, the first thing you need to think about is... do you think being with her as in boyfriend/girlfriend and risking your friendship is worth it? and does she know how you feel? if she knows how you feel and if she felt the same she should have let you know. its really hard to tell the difference between love and lust. but you know when you would die for that person and do anything for them and always stand by their side no matter what happens. if thats how you feel, maybe you should just be honest with her and tell her everything. im not saying do it, its something you really need to think about because if she doesnt feel the same way back, it could ruin everything. if its meant to be, it will happen. i really think you may love her. but if shes in a relationship, and shes happy, you shouldnt tell her because she will get all confused and not know what to do and her boyfriend might get mad, and it might all turn into a huge mess. i would say definitely pray about it and see if she is the girl for you and whatever you feel is right, do it. follow your heart!!!
Ok im an 18 year old male. I recently met this 22 year old girl, she is turning 23 in like july or something. Im pretty sure she is into me. My question is, is she too old for me to date?
i really dont think there is anything wrong with that. i mean its not like your 10 years apart! if you guys have fun together and have a lot in common then why not? if she is into you, go for it!
Do you think it's really possible for a couple to last through high school and college and eventually get married? I always thought people who were married and were high school sweethearts was the cutest thing.
Also, when me and my boyfriend go to college we'll be about four hours away from each other. How hard is it to keep a relationship going in this type of situation? I don't know how I'll deal with a long term relationship. As it is we live 20 minutes away from each other and see each other every other day and if for some reason we can't get together I'll start missing him so much it hurts.
ive had a boyfriend for 3 years now and im in highschool! i want this too. and the only way to make this last is to have trust and to be loyal towards one another. if you dont trust him, you will get really paranoid and same for him. just make sure that you wouldnt do things behind his back and dont lie to him. if he notices any of this, he might doubt that you guys will be able to last. do whatever you can to get him to realize he can trust you and that you guys can make it! and make sure you can trust him. in a situation if another guy tries to hit on you, do what you wouldnt want him to do! good luck
19/f
So... I have a boyfriend right now. He goes to my college. We were talking on myspace, and texting, prior to when we met at school. We met as friends, and we've been talking as friends the whole time, and then after 2 days together he admitted that he wanted to be more than friends. I've seen him a total of 6 days, we've been boyfriend and girlfriend for 3 of them.
He is realllly sweet. His personality is so cute. the last ime we saw each other, he told me he loved me. I have never had a boyfriend before this and it feels good to have one. =] . Plus, i have, like, no friends in school, so i have him to talk to now. I like having someone to make me feel beautiful and good about myself and have someone to kiss and hug and spend time with.
There is a guy i met on myspace, an now we text eachother realatively everyday, and i like him alot. And i dont know why because i've never met him! None-the-less, he is important to me and i feel like i hhave to met him because if i dont, he will forever be on my mind and i will be like "what would it have been like to meet him? How will i know what we could have had together?...etc.."
I had told my current boyfriend about this other guy. And at first he was like "i'm not going to try to take you from your man..." But then after a while he just started flirting with me, and he kissed me.... and he keep asking me why i wouldnt be his girlfriend, and i kept saying i was confused and i didnt know what i wanted to do.... but apparently i ended up saying yes to him...
So i wanna get with this other guy, i dont know when we will meet, but we will eventually; hopefully not tooo far away from now... I feel like i would have a more special realtionship with him. but I'm with the guy that im with now, and he likes me entirely too much, and i dont like him as much as he likes me, or as much as he thinks i do. I convince him that i like him more than i do. Why do i do this??!!!! I feel like i just want to please people...please him..., I just want to make him happy and show the affection hat he wants me to show him. And I want to keep him; I want someone to like me, i need someone... i dont make friends well and it seems the best way for me is if someone is attracted to me, then they will want to be my friend and or more than my friend, but otherwise i feel like no one really wants to be my friend.
I dont want to lead him on tooo much, but i want to keep him as my boyfriend, but at the same time i'm not sure that i really feel how i should about him....
And on my myspace my status is married. Because i was tired of mad myspace dudes talking about "why are you single, as pretty as you are.....etc.." Plus, I wanted a certain guy, but we werent exactly in a relationship, but i didnt want to leave it as single, so i just put married. And i put that a while ago, before i even started going out with my current boyfriend. but he saw it, and on his myspace page he has something like "We're on a whole new level. F*** bf and gf... we're married".... and i didnt intend that status in reference to me and him.....
Thank you so much for reading this. I would appreciate anything you have to say about this, comments...advice.... =]
okk first off, dont rush into anything with guys. 3 days is way too soon. and guys that you meet on the internet are probably not who you think they are. maybe you should not be with any of them and think for a bit! think about who you think will make you happier....but keep in mind that you dont really know these guys. try and get to know them more, and talk to them more. can you really trust this guy you met on myspace? think about this...if you invited him over, would you be ale to trust that he wont do anything to you? think about your own safety! :] do what you think is right, and if i were you i wouldnt be with either guy right now because you dont know who you want! get to know them better to decide who you like better!
for me getting guys has never been a problem, the problem is they always screw me over. every guy i go for, no matter how different they may seem they usually turn out to be worse than the last. ive been through sheer hell in the relationship department and have felt like giving up but as sad as it is, i really do need a man to feel happy. i dont know why, or if thats pathetic, but i am not happy alone. i never feel good enough for anyone and each relationship results in my ego becomming lower and lower. i honestly have no idea what i do wrong. i try very hard not to be annoying, i stay in shape, i try and do nice things for them, and i try to take things slow sexually. im good at sexual acts so my problem is not that i dont know what im doing physically, but emotionally rather. i used to believe it was the guys but now im beginning to question, is it me? and why doesnt anyone actually like me? why do they all just want to use me? why is everyone capable of getting into amazing and functional relationships and im not. if you have any advice please let me know. i would like to know how i can become more of a relationship person, and how to detect if a guy is just looking to use me.
all you can really do is wait for a guy to come to you. when guys seem interested, take it slow, and try and find out things about them without being creepy about it. when they start talking to you, try playing hard to get. it makes them want you more, and they actually start to care more and try wayyy harder. its not you. its deffinately the guys because thats just the way they are. guys are really hard to find. especially when your a teenager because a lot of times they all act the same. guys are extremely hard to read. and really having a relationship in highschool is extremely hard. you go through a lot, but in the end it is all worth it. you just have to find the right guy, and thats the hardest part of anything that has to do with guys. you'll find him!!!
Im 28 yrs old female. Everytime my bf leaves (we dont live together he lives outta town) he gives me a big hug and a kiss on my forehead on my lips only once in a while. I want to know if this is a good thing, or if this is a bad thing. Hes not one to show his feelings, he loves to cuddle in bed and when we go dancing he'll hold me in front of him and dance with me. I dont know how to read him sometimes!!!!!
sincerely
confused
okay, well i think that you shoudl kiss him! maybe hes waitin gfor you to make the lips move! maybe he thinks hes moving too fast, so let him know that he isnt. kiss him, and see what happends!
goodluckkk!
i am am involved with a guy for over four years when we first met he didnt had a girlfriend we were on off when we started really going strongly he met someone and she got pregnant he told me about it and understand because i loved him and didnt want him to walk away from his child we were being very open with one another but after the baby came he changed i stopped seeing as often as i used too he started to get secretive came to find out we broked up for two weeks and in space of two weeks he got married and didnt tell me after two months i read a text in his phone his wife sent to him he forgot to delete it and thats how i found out the surprising news i approached him he was still in denial but we talked he told me the truth i excepted him because feelings was still their but the problem is i see him every once or twice a week and i accept him being married because i love him but he isnt their for me like he use to and he hates to see we with someone else but i have needs and i cant stand to be alone but he isnt making any interest to leave his wife but yet he tells me he loves me more than her bout i cant live on just words i am 22 and he's 30.
this is a big problem.
no matter what he says, he doesnt love you. if he loved you, he would be with you, but also be a part of that baby's life. if he got married, why would you want to be with him? personally, i think you are wasting your time. you could do way better than that. thats so ridiculous. if he loves you then why did he get married to someone else? if hes not making an interest to leave his wife, then why should you try? hes married, and if he doesnt want to be, thats his problem because you are not supposed to break a marriage. the truth is, he doesnt love either of you. if he loved her, he would love ONLY her, and he would treat her with respect, and he says he loves you, but hes obviously not respecting you, so he doesnt love either of you. when you love someone, you are true to them, and you love only them. and if he was cheating on you, dont give him another chance! your wasting your time! no guy like that is worth your time. you know you are strong enough to move on, and i honestly 100% know that from what you just told me, he is not for you. or her. he is making a big mistake. and just because he told you the truth, that doesnt mean you can go back with him! your wasting your time. you should deffinetly move on and he keeps lying to you.
i really hope you take this advice because i bet you will be way happier. good luck!
this is long but please read: so to break it down to make this short as possible, i recently went on vacation w my bf and his family and i cheat on him with his cousin. really messed up, i know. please dont say anything mean. i dunno, me and him just started hanging out alot bc my bf had to do stuff while i was there so there was no one else to hang with but i mean all we did was make out but thats still cheating and i really do love my bf and he loves me and i would never want to hurt him which is why i cannot explain why i did what i did, but point is, i dont know what to do. i have a horrible feeling in my stomach when i think about what i did and i want to tell him but that would do nothing but hurt him and ruin things between us and i dont want anything to go on. i mean i want to tell him at some point but i dont know if i should. cuz in a way, thats being selfish. im trying to make my self feel better by telling him but im actually hurting him. please help, what should i do?
wow this is a tough one.
things like that happen, because you love the attention your getting. well thats how it was with me. you have to tell him. its selfish if you dont. just think about how it would be if he cheated on you with your cousin and he didnt tell you. i mean what if he finds out? then its OVER. trust me. you have to tell him and i know its going to be hard but if he really loves you he might give you another chance. but dont expect anything good, because like obviously (reallyyy no offence!), what you did was really bad, and hes going to say that you dont deserve to get another chance for what happened. just make him understand that your sorry and that you regret it. im really sorry that all that happened, but stay strong. you can write me and tell me what happens, and ill help you some more. i kinda cheated before but i was with the guy for like 4 days and i was at a club. but i never told him, because he was annoying and i didnt really know him and he was a jerk. but things like that are not AS big of a deal if you were with them for a short time. if youve been with him for a long time, then he might give you another chance a little later, so dont move on, and whatever you do, dont go and get with im cousin again, because that will make things A LOT worse. sorry this was longgg hahah. but i really hope everything works out. but really, be honest, because if you dont have honesty in a relationship, then the relationship doesnt exist.
okay.. so i dated this girl for not too long of a time, like less than 3 months but i just got tired of being with her [and he was kinda an asshole- not really to me but to everyone else] after we broke up she was really upset & overdramatic about everything. Its been over a month now and we still don't talk. I don't really want to be friends with her because after we broke up i realized how much she lied to me while we were together.. but i really can't take how weird it is around her & not talking to her. what should i do? should i make an effort to become friends with her even though she seems to like hate me for breaking up with her & she's really not someone id love to be friends with? she also seems to think that if we are gunna be friends i need to initiate everything because I broke up with HER. i did try once, online.. the only time we've really talked since the breakup but it seems like to maintain our friendsship, ill need to do most of teh work.
help? please?
personally, i dont think you should waste your time. dont talk to her, because if she did all that to you, and if shes blaming you, dont even make an effort. she should be the one making the effort. i mean yes, its going to be weird for sure, but dont let it bother you. you dont need to initiate anything because she should understand! dont even tryyy
hey,
im in college im 24 ive met a guy who is working there this summer who is 28 i like him and we get on well and he is quite flirty, i gave him my number and we text - the problem is he works all the time and ive been trying to get him to come out for a drink a few times and he couldnt and then he finally did the other day- but i was a bit off with him i always have to text him first and when he did show up all he talked about was work and he left after an hour to work, the next day i texed to say hi and asked him how it went he said he wasnt home til 5am i said be carefull or ull burn out this was obviously the wrong thing to say i keep thinking about him i dont know why and i want to see him but i dont want to keep being the one to call, so what do i do do i not call him and see if he texts me or do i ext him to meet up and see what happens
dont call or text him anymore cuz yeah he might be annoyed. but he came out to hangout with you, so that shows hhes interested, so dont mess things up. wait for him to text you, and if he doesnt, then dont bother, hes a work-aholic anyway, and thats never good for a relationship.
Why are people so shallow? some people in this world like a person more they can ever imagine. But when they find out its like they nevr want to talk to you again. no1 likes each other for who they are. they only like them cuz they are attracting. why cant people except others and try getting into a relationship?
well...
what attracts the human mind is looks. you see the looks first.
then, the attraction makes you want to talk to them, so you do. then you get to know that person, and for a lot of guys, they just think your hott so they talk to you. its so stupid, i know. thats why girls should always wait for the guy to tell them if they like you or not, because a lot of guys dont want relationships, just hookups. its typical, and a lot of girls are the same way. but shallowness comes from attraction.
14/f
Okay. My boyfriend and I have been going out for a few weeks now. Up until now, he's only met my parents but this Saturday I'm going to a cook-out party with his family. I really want to make a good impression. He is my first boyfriend so I have no experience in this. Besides being polite do you have any advice on how to impress his parents?
omg dont dress slutty! haha whatever you do! and laugh a lot, concersate. but be yourself. dont act stupid, just be funny and theyll like you. bring something for the party. like cookies or something. it can be anything, but make sure it tastes good! goodluckkkk
Okay, I like this guy. We met a month ago at the carnival, we were both a little buzzed off of vodka. But my friends being the best people they are, hooked me up with him. We were on the ferris wheel making out like crazy. And after that he gave me his number, and his name to add him on facebook. Then i had to leave.. he gave me a huge hug and we madeout for a minuet and my friends were pulling me away. i really had to go. A week later, i met him up at my friends going away party. We got insanely wasted and went to third--on both of our parts--that was two weeks ago. Other then that, we have been talking on aim/facebook every day. He calls me sometimes and i call him once in a while. I'm going away to hollywood in 14 days for a week, and i come back and go to my house in arizona. I want to see him! i've asked him to hang out two or three times, but he has had baseball practice. he said he could hang out after 7:00 every time i ask him.. he wanted to take me to the movies. But us underaged 15 year olds cant drive in the state of ny! He is the most adorable guy ever.. i just recently broke up with my ex of 6 1/2 months becuase i found out he was using me for ass.. which really pissed me off. But last night my lover, ill call him K, after talking for a long time and calling me a lesbian saying he doesn't talk to lesbians and i was like but im not and he was like ahha i was like well its your decision if i talk to you or not. and he was like yeah and i said dont. but he imed me today.. talking like nothing happened last night. And when he or i have to go, i say byee
well personally, i think he likes you. hes just trying to be sexy. but watchout, because he is kinda horny. maybe he was drunk when he called you a lesbian or his friend did it. if he takes the time to tell you i miss you,,, thennn!?!? hhahah. i think he likes you. but becareful, because he looks like one of those guys who likes to get drunk. first think about whether or not when you leave on vacation that he wont go off and hookup with other girls. because if he does, then that shows you something, but there deff. something there if he takes the time to call you and tell you he misses you. and that whole sex party porno thing... hes trying to show you hes a man. pshhh whateverrr! but yeah good luckkkk!
Me and this guy have known each other for almost two years now, and we started out going out and broke up after a month, but just got alot closer. Anyway a year and a half later we are really close and we like each other. Anyway, there is something that is keeping him from me. SO there is this other guy that likes me and I had feelings for him but my feelings for this other guy that I love was keeping me from saying yes to him. So I asked him (the guy who I like) what he wanted, and he told me that he didnt want me to be with the other guy because he would miss me and he wouldn't know what he would do without being as close as we are now. I told him I needed to a reason to stay,And he said that he liked me but he wasn't ready to date me, because any relationship we would have would be serious and he didn't want a serious relationship. I asked him what he was ready for, and joking he said "some hoe on the street". I told him he wouldnt care about her, and he told me that was the point, he cared about me too much. He said because we are in high school breaking up would inevitable (he is one grade ahead of me) and he couldn't risk our friendship. I told him he made me happy and that I wanted to be with him, and he told me I made him happy but he couldn't give me the relationship he knows I dream about. What I need to know is if this is true, I'm not sure if this is an excuse or what makes guys not ready. And if he liked me how come he doesn't want a serious relationship. He says he cares about me. I told him I didn't really want a serious relationship but he said he didn't believe that because I get emotionally attached. At that moment we almost kissed (both of us have never kissed anyone before). But we were in his doorway to his room and I didn't want his parents to walk in on us, so I told him not now. When I texted him this morming I asked him if the feeling of kissing me had passed (because we are hanging out next weekend and I want to kiss him then) and he texted back that he told me yesterday that he wasn't ready to date me so it wouldn't be fair to me. Was that a rejection, I do want to kiss him, and I know he wants to kiss me. I just don't know what to make of this situation. And I need thorough advice on how to go about this. I love him, and I really think he loves me. HELP PLEASE!!!
hes obviously just scared. highschool relationships are very hard to handle. they bring a lot of stress, and other tennagers just get in the way. like school, grades, and parents, and friends. let him know what kind of person you are. if you love him, wait. but dont let him know youll wait for him. slow down a bit. hell realize a lot. kinda drift away, dont be so close to him, but then just text him once in a while. he doesnt trust anyone, he doesnt want to get hurt. hes not rejecting you, he just cant makeup his mind about what he wants. if he told you he cares about you, then maybe he just doesnt want to hurt you. hes just not ready. play a little hard to get, because your kinda throwing yourslef at him, and you dont want to do that!!! hahh. so good luck, really.
So the boy i have a thing for has left for vacation for four weeks.
I know that i should just go out and have fun because it's summer, but i can't really get him out of my mind.
If i flat out asked him if he liked me, he would be really weirded out and answer honestly of course, but it would just be hard because he's gone.
I do know that he kind of has a thing for this sophmore in college also (we're seniors in highschool) and i know she wouldn't like him, but he still has a little crush on her.
I don't know..
just keep in touch with him as best as you can.
dont ask him, guys think thats kinda weird hahh
but just text him if you can and see if he starts any convos with you while he's away! but dont text him too much, cuz that shows that your clingy!
ok so i have a problem. i like 4 different guys...im 13/f
guy 1:Andy
there is his kid who went to my school this year. he moved from germany but lived in america before so knew english. well he was in 4 of my classes and at first i HATED this kid. he was sooo annoying and a show off. but then he grew on me and we became friends. later i started liking him. by spring i was IN LOVE with him and would do anything for him if he asked. i got the impresion that he liked me too but i wasnt sure because he could have any girl he wanted...so why me? but anyway after the last day of school when i texted him he replied"save your minutes. dont text me." i was crushed and furious. i sent him a message that said some VERY VERY rude things and now i wish i didnt. im sure he hates me and he wont reply to ANYTHING i send him. i understand he doesnt like me like that but i think i lost his friendship...
guy2:philip
last year i started liking this guy named philip and i told him and he said we were just really good friends. i got over him and this year i started liking him again...but this year he acts like he likes me too and im not sure
guy3:andrew
there is a guy i met online. i like him ALOT and he likes me but he lives in CA. this is a problem and i dont know what i can do...we both know we like eachother and im POSITIVE hes not a 40 year old rapist...idk what to do
guy4:tyrel
there is this guy 2 years older than me...my best friend kinda went out with him but only for like 1 day. she thinks he and i would make a good couple and im not sure. i guess i like him but i dont know him that well and he is older...again i dont know what to do
HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!
alright, well..
andy. he doesnt like you, hes a jerk. so no, dont waist your time. hah.
phillip. well, if he flirts with you a lot, then maybe he does.
andrew. nonnononno. you cant have a distant relationship. you dont know him well enough to trust him. thats not a good idea, because you will never get to see him, and long distance relationships never work.
tyrel. if it lasted for one day, should you really try? hmmm well maybe, but you have a better chance with phillip.
try phillip, because he seems like he might like you. but dont rush things, and dont tell him you like him, let him tell you. when he does say you do too. the other guys look wayyy to difficult. hhaha
welll gooood luckkk!
About 5 days ago I was will some friends and a guy that I had never met started texting one of my friends. He had seen me on Myspace on my friends page(They knew eachother from sports)And he started asking them if i had a boyfriend and me and my bf at the time had been fighting a lot (but the fighting you do when you care about someone a lot) and rarely got to see eachother anymore because he had been gone a lot. So they told him its complicated. I saw him later that night at a hockey game and then afterwards we went to a friends to watch a movie we ended up a holding hands but no big deal right?
The next day me and my bf got into another huge fight and me and the new guy had been texting all day. So me and my bf decided we should break up that night because of our frequent fighting. Me and the new guy texted the rest of the weekend, and on sunday night we hung out and we ended up almost making out, and we have plans to hang out tomorrow. Hes like the sweetest guy ever and I feel like we can talk about anything. My ex has been calling me a lot just to talk but we had agreed to be friends, so I understood why. Tonight hover he called me at about midnight to tell me that he missed me, i really didn't know what to say back but oh...
He told me hes still hooked on me and hes never been like that with another girl. Hes trying to change for me I can tell by his voice and what hes saying but who knows how long that will last. So now I'm tied between two...
An old caring love but with fights?
or a new love with what looks like a bright future?
Female, age 15
if you love this guy, things will work out.
this new guy may have a lot of potential, but dont screw him over. just really be sure that if you go with this new guy that you wont regret it. because if you do, your lover will move on, and what if you and this guy dont work, and you want to go back to the one you love? he might not be there. just listen to your heart. you should make a list for cons and pros on both of them. which ever one is better, try it with them. but the guy you love should stand above anyone else. if you love him, and if he loves you, you should try one more time. there is fighting in every relationship. a break should help you guys. just talk to him about it. if i were you i would choose love over like.