ex-boyfriend [also everywhere i put she i mean he.. so he do
Question Posted Sunday July 6 2008, 7:55 pm
okay.. so i dated this girl for not too long of a time, like less than 3 months but i just got tired of being with her [and he was kinda an asshole- not really to me but to everyone else] after we broke up she was really upset & overdramatic about everything. Its been over a month now and we still don't talk. I don't really want to be friends with her because after we broke up i realized how much she lied to me while we were together.. but i really can't take how weird it is around her & not talking to her. what should i do? should i make an effort to become friends with her even though she seems to like hate me for breaking up with her & she's really not someone id love to be friends with? she also seems to think that if we are gunna be friends i need to initiate everything because I broke up with HER. i did try once, online.. the only time we've really talked since the breakup but it seems like to maintain our friendsship, ill need to do most of teh work.
erikkka answered Sunday July 6 2008, 9:07 pm: personally, i dont think you should waste your time. dont talk to her, because if she did all that to you, and if shes blaming you, dont even make an effort. she should be the one making the effort. i mean yes, its going to be weird for sure, but dont let it bother you. you dont need to initiate anything because she should understand! dont even tryyy [ erikkka's advice column | Ask erikkka A Question ]
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