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whay should i do about my married lover
i am am involved with a guy for over four years when we first met he didnt had a girlfriend we were on off when we started really going strongly he met someone and she got pregnant he told me about it and understand because i loved him and didnt want him to walk away from his child we were being very open with one another but after the baby came he changed i stopped seeing as often as i used too he started to get secretive came to find out we broked up for two weeks and in space of two weeks he got married and didnt tell me after two months i read a text in his phone his wife sent to him he forgot to delete it and thats how i found out the surprising news i approached him he was still in denial but we talked he told me the truth i excepted him because feelings was still their but the problem is i see him every once or twice a week and i accept him being married because i love him but he isnt their for me like he use to and he hates to see we with someone else but i have needs and i cant stand to be alone but he isnt making any interest to leave his wife but yet he tells me he loves me more than her bout i cant live on just words i am 22 and he's 30.
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this is a big problem.
no matter what he says, he doesnt love you. if he loved you, he would be with you, but also be a part of that baby's life. if he got married, why would you want to be with him? personally, i think you are wasting your time. you could do way better than that. thats so ridiculous. if he loves you then why did he get married to someone else? if hes not making an interest to leave his wife, then why should you try? hes married, and if he doesnt want to be, thats his problem because you are not supposed to break a marriage. the truth is, he doesnt love either of you. if he loved her, he would love ONLY her, and he would treat her with respect, and he says he loves you, but hes obviously not respecting you, so he doesnt love either of you. when you love someone, you are true to them, and you love only them. and if he was cheating on you, dont give him another chance! your wasting your time! no guy like that is worth your time. you know you are strong enough to move on, and i honestly 100% know that from what you just told me, he is not for you. or her. he is making a big mistake. and just because he told you the truth, that doesnt mean you can go back with him! your wasting your time. you should deffinetly move on and he keeps lying to you.
i really hope you take this advice because i bet you will be way happier. good luck!
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