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What should i do? (GUYS READ)
Okay hey, im 15/f and i'm single. I really want a boyfriend, but not just A BOYFRIEND.Someone that isn't all judgemental. Because i thinks thats bullshit. My type is preferably emo, and if anyone (guys) reads this please give me a chance. Thanks in advance :D
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Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
This is not a dating site. It's cool you're looking for a boyfriend, but go somewhere else to look.
Try:
ecrush.com
myyearbook.com
OR
myspace.
Jess
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I'm going to tell you that relationships aren't all they are cracked up to be. Sure- they are fun having someone to share things with and be with. But they involve a huge commitment and if you end up with someone who is clingy- they'll want to be with you every minute of every day- and you might not have time for friends or anything else you want to do. I say this because one of my ex-girlfriends was sort of like that- and got mad if I was busy with other plans.. and it was just really retarded.
Anyway- the best way to attract a guy is to be yourself. If you try to change yourself just to get a boyfriend [especially at your age]- you'll just end up with someone who only likes you for what you've become- not who you are. If you be yourself- and don't change- you'll attract more guys who actually care about your personality rather than just your looks.
I myself like any type of girl. I honestly don't judge looks as much as I do personality. If a girl is absolutely stunningly beautiful, but she's a bitch- why would I like her? What would our relationship be? What would we talk about? Her latest hair extensions? Yeah- that would be REALLY nice *Sarcasm: Party of one!*...
If a girl has a really nice personality- and she's really outgoing and sweet and nice and smart- and she's not necessarily the best looking girl- but she's not super unattractive- then I'll most likely want to date her over the beautiful bitch.
Do you get what I'm saying? If you let guys see your personality more than your looks- you'll end up with someone great. Trust me- most guys prefer personality over looks- they just don't know it yet =].
If you're asking to date one of us, I'm sorry but it won't be me to say yes to you. Not that I don't think you're stupid or anything, but because one, I won't date a complete stranger, and two, I won't date someone through the internet. I've sort of done that before and it isn't my thing.
So that's why I answered with the first few paragraphs about how to find a boyfriend who isn't a jerk/judgmental and all of that jazz. Waiting for the right person makes it all the more special, too ;]
--Jack
(16/m)
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Advicenators isn't a dating site, it's an Advice site. Hence the name ADVICEnators.
If you'd like advice on how to get a boyfriend, please put it in question form and we'll gladly answer! =]
-Laura. (16-f)
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If you want a boyfriend, why not try to meet someone in person? I'm not saying online relationships don't have any merit, but if you know the guy personally and become friends before dating them, everything generally works out better.
Good luck =)
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