ok so i have a problem. i like 4 different guys...im 13/f
guy 1:Andy
there is his kid who went to my school this year. he moved from germany but lived in america before so knew english. well he was in 4 of my classes and at first i HATED this kid. he was sooo annoying and a show off. but then he grew on me and we became friends. later i started liking him. by spring i was IN LOVE with him and would do anything for him if he asked. i got the impresion that he liked me too but i wasnt sure because he could have any girl he wanted...so why me? but anyway after the last day of school when i texted him he replied"save your minutes. dont text me." i was crushed and furious. i sent him a message that said some VERY VERY rude things and now i wish i didnt. im sure he hates me and he wont reply to ANYTHING i send him. i understand he doesnt like me like that but i think i lost his friendship...
guy2:philip
last year i started liking this guy named philip and i told him and he said we were just really good friends. i got over him and this year i started liking him again...but this year he acts like he likes me too and im not sure
guy3:andrew
there is a guy i met online. i like him ALOT and he likes me but he lives in CA. this is a problem and i dont know what i can do...we both know we like eachother and im POSITIVE hes not a 40 year old rapist...idk what to do
guy4:tyrel
there is this guy 2 years older than me...my best friend kinda went out with him but only for like 1 day. she thinks he and i would make a good couple and im not sure. i guess i like him but i dont know him that well and he is older...again i dont know what to do
andy. he doesnt like you, hes a jerk. so no, dont waist your time. hah.
phillip. well, if he flirts with you a lot, then maybe he does.
andrew. nonnononno. you cant have a distant relationship. you dont know him well enough to trust him. thats not a good idea, because you will never get to see him, and long distance relationships never work.
tyrel. if it lasted for one day, should you really try? hmmm well maybe, but you have a better chance with phillip.
try phillip, because he seems like he might like you. but dont rush things, and dont tell him you like him, let him tell you. when he does say you do too. the other guys look wayyy to difficult. hhaha
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Hitoast answered Tuesday July 1 2008, 1:40 am: Well, i'm going to give you my honost opinion on the guys you're telling me about:
Andy- well, it sounds like you need to be friends with him again if you even want a chance with him. This one might take a while because first you have to get him to forgive you and stuff.
Phillip- He sounds pretty good. Sounds like you guys like each other, plus he's already your friend.
Andew- um, online? If he lives in cali, I don't suggest this. It would be a long distance relationship! He could cheat on you really, really easily.
Tyrel- ur, not sure about the age difference, but it sounds like your friend is sort of pressuring you into liking him. Don't go out with him unless you're sure.
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