i dont get it. my best friend has two best friends, me and some girl i dont know at all. she says that she likes me alot more then her other best friend, and she always talks about her other best friend. but like, when i look at her myspace, [my best friends friends myspace] my best friend will leave her all these comments, like oh my gosh lets hang out soon! oh yeah, i have a story to tell you!!! oh my god, i know i love youuu. thats so funny! and she never leaves me comments like that. i mean, i dont use the computer much, and hardly go on myspace, but i dont think ive ever heard that come out of her mouth before to me. and then she leaves this girl picture comments and will be like, you look so pretty here! i love it. i never get stuff like that. and okkkkk. im not trying to sound stuck up, but im alot prettier. she weighs like 150 pounds more then me, [this girl weighs 250 pounds] and i just, i dont understand, why she does thaT? like on her myspace, im first and like she says like in her heros im her best friend.
i know, i guess im kinda jealous. but im alot more confused, then jealous, and im really hurt. if i tell her im upset, i dont think she will care at all, because she told me she doesnt care if people are mad at her. i also wonder if she ever talks about me to her other best friend...
Psycotheis answered Tuesday July 1 2008, 1:43 am: Theres a rather large line between mad and upset. Its best to tell her your not happy that the other girl gets a hell of a lot attention, but you dont get things like that. But dont be mean about it or use caps, just tell her whats on your mind. If shes a real best friend, she'll hear you out and care.
But you gotta keep in mind that you dont get on the computer that much, and she might have noticed this. Some people use comments like messages to you might only be looking at half the conversation. That and the other girl might do the same thing she does, so its only out of respect that she would do those things. [ Psycotheis's advice column | Ask Psycotheis A Question ]
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