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Ex bf or new fling
About 5 days ago I was will some friends and a guy that I had never met started texting one of my friends. He had seen me on Myspace on my friends page(They knew eachother from sports)And he started asking them if i had a boyfriend and me and my bf at the time had been fighting a lot (but the fighting you do when you care about someone a lot) and rarely got to see eachother anymore because he had been gone a lot. So they told him its complicated. I saw him later that night at a hockey game and then afterwards we went to a friends to watch a movie we ended up a holding hands but no big deal right?
The next day me and my bf got into another huge fight and me and the new guy had been texting all day. So me and my bf decided we should break up that night because of our frequent fighting. Me and the new guy texted the rest of the weekend, and on sunday night we hung out and we ended up almost making out, and we have plans to hang out tomorrow. Hes like the sweetest guy ever and I feel like we can talk about anything. My ex has been calling me a lot just to talk but we had agreed to be friends, so I understood why. Tonight hover he called me at about midnight to tell me that he missed me, i really didn't know what to say back but oh...
He told me hes still hooked on me and hes never been like that with another girl. Hes trying to change for me I can tell by his voice and what hes saying but who knows how long that will last. So now I'm tied between two...
An old caring love but with fights?
or a new love with what looks like a bright future?
Female, age 15
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if you're really in love with you're ex boyfriend, things with the new guy can't work.
but if your relationship with your ex was too damaged from all the fighting, trying to fix things with him could end up hurting you if he doesn't mean what he's saying.
you just have to figure out if you really love him and want it to work.
personally, i would see what happens with the new guy.
you aren't going to know what "love" is if you're just with one person.
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if you love this guy, things will work out.
this new guy may have a lot of potential, but dont screw him over. just really be sure that if you go with this new guy that you wont regret it. because if you do, your lover will move on, and what if you and this guy dont work, and you want to go back to the one you love? he might not be there. just listen to your heart. you should make a list for cons and pros on both of them. which ever one is better, try it with them. but the guy you love should stand above anyone else. if you love him, and if he loves you, you should try one more time. there is fighting in every relationship. a break should help you guys. just talk to him about it. if i were you i would choose love over like.
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